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All entries are from emails sent to Cathy, however she cannot be held liable for the validity of the claims made, some of which are very disturbing. Cathy reads all emails and replies to as many as she can.

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I'm going to start off by saying thank you, you have taught me so much. Child abuse is a horrible thing, I have been through it, and know how it scars children. I ended up being diagnosed with depression, and I'm finally getting the help I've been needing. You're a good person, and we need more people like you in our world! Well, thanks for sharing such great stories! :)
Brittney, 11/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I hope you are keeping well. I have just finished reading 'I Miss Mummy'. I could not put it down once I started reading it. I finished it in less than a day. The book really took us, as readers, through your journey with Alice. As always it feels like we went through the emotions with you. I felt a lot of anger and sadness at how the system and common sense failed Alice by removing her from loving grandparents, and how her yearning and love for them and her mother, seemed to count for nothing. I felt such a sense of frustration at a child being wrenched from those she loved and being forced to bond with those she didn't want to love. As someone who is a mental health service user, I know that key workers, mental health social workers etc often change and there is often a lack of continuity, which is similar to the social workers in your books. I really feel sad that there never seems to be enough money to fund more workers, in order to meet people's needs. It never seems right that we live in a society where there is no money to fund vital roles that would help so many people, yet celebrities, sports personalities etc get paid ridiculous sums of money, which could fund many social work positions and other positions. I could relate to Alice in some way through this story as a year or so ago I was separated from someone who played a very important in my life, like a guardian figure and no matter how much it hurt me and how much I wanted them back no one listened. You must have felt upset by Alice's departure and having at least an update on her condition once every month or two would have been nice. But at least you know you did right by Alice and that you did all you could to keep her content while she was with you. I really admire how strong you are to be able to look after children and then have to say goodbye! I don't think I could do it. You honestly think of every little detail when it comes to children: what they need, what they don't need, what will add comfort, what will cause distress. I just love how you think of all of these things when fostering children - e.g. the simple idea of asking for photos of a child’s parents and framing them, or knowing to tell a child exactly what is happening in order to reduce stress. I had to smile when you mentioned your daughter Lucy has tried to teach you to French plait hair but that you can't seem to get the hang of it. I recently decided I really wanted to know how to do it so with the wonders of the internet and you tube, I watched a girl demonstrating it and with a bit of practice I now know how to do it, it's great. I cannot wait to read your next book as always! Thanks again for sharing your experiences and I hope your family are well. Lots of love and best wishes,
Aveen, 23, N. Ireland, 11/08/2010

Dear Cathy, I emailed you a few months ago when I began reading your books. I just wanted to say that I have completed reading Damaged, Cut and The Girl in the Mirror. I am currently reading Hidden and have also bought The Saddest Girl in the World. I admire your work and I just want to say that my heart goes out to you and to all you have done. Never stop writing because I will be collecting all your books and maybe one day you will sign my copy of Damaged as it was the first book I bought. Hope all is well and thank you for bringing me tears, smiles and a new world into my own life :) x
Mandy, 21, UK, 11/08/2010

Good evening, I am sorry to bother you but I felt I had to email to say thank you for writing such a fantastic book. I have read all of your books about the children you have fostered and I HAD to buy your Happy Kids book. It is fantastic. I am 22 and have just had my first baby in July and I know it is going to give me great ideas on how to sort out some of the issues I will most likely come across! I think the work you have done with the children is amazing. My aunty is a foster carer and I know how hard it is. She is mad and always has 3 at a time and she is nearly 60!! It is very hard work and I have got attached to some of the children she has fostered so I bet it is even harder for you. I would love to be a carer in the future, I am thinking of training to be a social worker. Your books should be read by more people, you have done an amazing job and I think people should see things from your point of view. Lets face it, you are one of the many people who have to try and pick up the pieces for those poor children. I will definitely buy your new releases, I am in the process of reading I Miss Mummy. Thank you again for writing these books. I don't take pleasure in reading the horrors but I admire how you handle the different children. I hope I can use what you have done to help children in the future like you have. Yours sincerely,
Emily S, UK, 11/08/2010

WOW! I've read some of your books and they are amazing! The first being Damaged, which my friend insisted I read it as she knows I love reading. I have now also read The Girl In The Mirror, Cut, and now I’m reading The Saddest Girl In The World. I also have got a copy of Hidden which I will read next! I Miss Mummy is also a MUST book that I will read!! And I can't wait till your other books come out!! Thank you for being who you are and changing the lives of so many innocent children. Since reading your books I have looked at life through different eyes... realising how lucky I am to have such a caring family! Once again I thank you because had I not read you books I wouldn't have known about the inner depths of the world!! Thank You!!
Aisha, 13, 10/08/2010

I just to write and tell you what a wonderful person you are, and I loved your book called I Miss Mummy. I don't read that much as I knit a lot, but after reading this book I’m going to go and buy all of your books, and will look forward to reading them. I’m so glad you adopted your daughter. She has one hell of a mum, love
Debbie W, UK, 10/08/2010

Hi, I am 14 years old and have read many of your books. I have really enjoyed them. Your books have inspired me lots for when I'm older. I had already decided I would like to work with children one day and your books have given me another option to consider. My mum also has read some of your books and quite enjoys them. When my mum suggested that I should read one of your books 'Hidden', I found it really enjoyable and could not put the book down. I have read Hidden, I Miss Mummy, and The Saddest Girl in the World. I will soon get to read Damaged which I am quite looking forward to when my mum’s friend returns it. I have a younger brother called James who has learning difficulties and autism. I help to care for him and this is what inspired me to work with children one day. I am looking forward to reading the rest of your books,
Sophie, 14, 10/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading your book "Damaged" and went straight onto your website to see if I could find any updates on Jodie. Thank you so much for your dedicated updates over the years - I now feel a little more closure over what happened to Jodie and the terrible life she suffered at the hands of her parents. I must admit I was hoping that Jodie would come back and rejoin your family at the end of her long stay at the High Oaks residential unit. I admire your professionalism and selflessness, however, considering what was best for Jodie and her path to recovery. I was so worried when I finished the last chapter of the book when it didn't seem that Jodie would ever really recover from what happened to her as a child - her parents seemed to damage her, both physically and emotionally, beyond repair but then I read your updates. While not necessarily the ending I was hoping for, I am still so happy for that little girl to be living a nice, normal life with a caring family. I just wish it had been your family because you were like the "new mummy" she said she wanted before she left for High Oaks. Best of luck in the future and I look forward to reading your other stories. Kindest regards,
Lyndsey C, Ireland, 09/08/2010

Hello, I have read nearly all the books you have written and would just like to thank you for the great reads. Your books have been a pleasure to read, sad at times but a real insight to the fantastic work you put into all the children in your care. Most of the books brought me to tears, they were very gripping and hard to put down. As a teenager myself I feel for the children who are put into care. I have just finished reading 'I Miss Mummy' and felt for 'Alice', who seemed to be a very special girl for her age. I didn’t understand why she was put into care and I am so happy everything was sorted out. Yet again I would like to say thank you for your great reads and cannot wait to read the rest of your collection. Yours sincerely
Natasha B, 09/08/2010

Hi Cathy I am currently studying a degree in social work and have noted from many of your books the different experiences you have had with social workers. What do you feel makes a good social worker and what can I do to make myself one of the 'good ones'? I love your books and you have opened my eyes to how much of a difference foster carers like you can make to a child’s life. Your books have given me hours of enjoyment!
Charlotte, UK, 09/08/2010

CG: Hi Charlotte, what a wonderful career you have chosen. I know you will be excellent and make a huge difference to those you work with. I think the social workers I admire most are those who take the time to learn all about their cases; speak and listen to the child and foster carer; and keep the foster carer and child regularly updated. This sounds like basic stuff but you'd be amazed how often this doesn't happen. I worked with an excellent social worker last year but now I have one who does the absolute minimum. As a result mistakes are already being made. Good luck with your studies next term. Keep in touch and let me know how you get on. Cathy x
09/08/2010

Dear Cathy, I am a gay man of 36 and a nurse. I have just started reading your book Damaged, so far to page 129 in one sitting. All I can say is WOW! There has been emotion from me I haven’t seen since my mother passed away when I was 15. I have cried so much reading this book. I'm not even sure why, maybe for Jodie, maybe for you and your family. I've never been so touched by something like this before. God Bless you and your family.
Jason, 09/08/2010

Cathy I have just finished the third book of yours which I have 'I Miss Mummy' and it was a fantastic read. You are a very loving and caring woman and I can’t put ur books down. I have also read Damaged and Cut and they were fantastic too. I am going to try and get ur other books as I think you are a fantastic author and ur books really touch my heart. I get a lump in my throat every time I read them. Many Thanks
Vickie A, Newcastle upon Tyne, UK, 08/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I absolutely adore your books. I have always known that I have wanted to work with children, but reading your books has really inspired me to take/push my dreams to the limit and be really ambitious with life! I now have my heart set on either becoming a social worker or a foster carer! I wish to be like you and help those many, many children to have a better life and a brighter future! Please, please, PLEASE don’t stop writing your fantastic books. I love them. You have really made me re-think what I want to do in life (career-wise) and I idolize you! You're an amazing person. Take care,
Michelle S, 18, UK, 08/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I just wanted to say how inspirational you are! I have read Damaged, Cut and Hidden and can't wait to purchase your next book and start reading. Keep up the excellent work you do not only in writing but also with the children who come into your care.
Jane, Cwmbran, South Wales, 08/08/2010

Hello Cathy, I just wanted to say how fantastic your books are. I have tonight finished reading "I Miss Mummy". I can’t understand why a happy beautiful well cared for child was taken away from her loving family while other children are left to suffer with parents etc who abuse them. I’m so happy for Alice and family that the judge saw sense. I did feel very sorry for Sharon as all she wanted was a child to call her mummy but she went about it the wrong way. You have a wonderful family to be proud of Cathy, it must take a lot to be able to foster children who have been through some of the things you write about. I’m glad that people like you exist in our world.
Nicola, Wiltshire, UK, 08/08/2010

Cathy, just wanted to tell you, you are an angel! I have read all your books and look forward to the next one. You and Adrian, Lucy and Paula are truly an inspiration. I wish there were more in the world like you and your family. You have accomplished so much by, in your own words, using common sense in times when it all seems to have been thrown out the window by bureaucracy. Please don't ever stop what you are doing and continue to do the good that you do. I now know, by reading your books, that you sometimes are doing a thankless task but as I said before, you are definitely an angel. I wish continued happiness and success to you and yours for all that you do. The world would be a harder place if it wasn't for people like you.
Susanne, UK, 08/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I’m up to chapter 32 of I Miss Mummy, and I have cried most of the way through this book, it’s so so very sad. I just don’t know how I would cope if my babies who are now 8 and 9 were taken away from me. I don’t even know how the book ends. I understand how the mother Leah felt, as I sometimes find it hard to cope with life, and have to take anger tablets, but I would never see my kids come to any harm and this book is very sad. I sometimes think I'm going crazy and thinking I would ever lose my girls is heart breaking. I love your books and I admire u so so much. I wish there was other foster carers out there that are as warm and caring as you, but most of all having the time and being calm as u. You really are a fantastic lady. I thank you for sharing your life with us through these books. I wish you and your Family all the very best. Take Care much love
Tammy, UK, 08/08/2010

Dear Cathy, I have read Dawn's story today in Cut. You and your husband are beautiful, special persons, and I promise to you that I will pray everyday for your family. Angels aren't imaginary beings but normal people with an immense heart and incredible kindness: people like you.
Karine, 19, Mauritius, 08/08/2010

Hello, I am 17 years old and it's okay if you don't reply to my email. (I'm guessing you must be a very busy lady). I just wanted to say that you are truly amazing, (you probably hear that all the time). I have just finished reading 'I Miss Mummy' and I read 'Damaged' some time last year. I have never cried over a book before, but you had me in tears (sort of in a good way). I think that you are a very dedicated and special foster carer. You seem to tick all the right boxes for a mummy. Anyway, I don't want to bore you with how great you are, so I'll just say goodbye and take care.
Maria, 17, 07/08/2010

Hi Cathy, Yesterday I discovered your book "Damaged" in our local bookstore here in Vancouver, BC (Canada). I finished it this morning amongst many tears. My husband and daughter were both concerned about what I was reading when I briefly described Jodie's life. I feel it is important for me to go deeply into the minds and hearts of children and their foster parents at this time. Why? Because we are in the process of establishing a Children's Village for orphaned and abandoned children in Guatemala. www.projectsomos.org. With no fostering system to speak of (it is not part of the culture) and pretty horrific state-run children's homes, it can be a pretty dim situation for children in Guatemala and other Central American countries. Our goal is to hire and train Guatemalan women to be "professional" moms, raising a group of children (up to seven) as a family. We are in the process of collaborating with child psychologists and social workers to develop the training program for the moms. I hope to have your books on hand as reference and insight for our staff and volunteers. I believe deepening our understanding will deepen our compassion for these precious children
Heather, Canada, 07/08/2010

Hi Cathy. Have just read yet another of your brilliant books, 'I Miss Mummy'. Social Services have got a lot to answer for sometimes even though it was them (Kitty) that came good in the end! This was just a very unfortunate set of circumstances and could have ended so horribly. You truly have a wonderful and understanding family. However it did annoy me in the book that when your children were referred to, Lucy was always (except a couple of times) put before Paula!! This is nothing against Lucy as she seems a lovely girl but I thought your immediate children would be first in line, even now that you have adopted her! Brill book though.
Christine W, 06/08/2010

CG: Dear Christine, thanks for writing again. I try to treat all my children equally so I think it was just a 'slip of the pen' rather than favouritism that seemed to put Lucy first. Cathy x
06/08/2010

Cathy, just read your book The Saddest Girl in the World. Loved it. Cried when you couldn't adopt her. Happy that she is well adjusted in a good home. Looking forward to your new book. Thank you for making me a more informed person. You are a wonderful, compassionate person. Thank you again.
Andrea F, USA, 06/08/2010

Hi Cathy, A family friend recently recommended your books, and in the space of a week I have read Damaged, The Saddest Girl in the World, Hidden and I Miss Mummy. I was recently in ASDA looking for another of your books Cut, and wasn't that surprised that it was sold out, along with the rest of your books. Your books are now the talk of my office, as I have recommended them to every one. Can I just say what an inspiration you and your family are, and I applaud you for being one of the few, who try to see the best in everyone. You are an inspiration, and wish you and all the lucky children that come into your life a happy and fulfilled future. Many Thanks
Jennifer A, 21, Liverpool, UK, 05/08/2010

Hi I would just like to say thanks for all the great books you have written. I think you’re a fantastic author.
Manda, 05/08/2010

Dear Cathy, I have read two of your books so far (The Saddest Girl in the World and Damaged). I think they are really good and you're an absolute inspiration. You deserve a lot of credit for your books as well as being a good foster carer and excellent mother. The world would be a better place if there were more people like you. I am looking forward to reading your other books, you’re my favourite author. You’re an inspiration. Thank you for reading
Naomi, 14, 04/08/2010

Hi ya Cathy just had to write you another email to tell you what another fantastic book you wrote. I Miss Mummy was so touching and moving it had me in tears. I'm glad that Alice’s mum saw the error of her ways and sorted her life out. Once again I think what you and your family do is amazing in how you manage to welcome each of these children into your lives and give them the best you can. Can’t wait for your next book.
Debbie L, Malvern, UK, 04/08/2010

I just read your book Damaged. That book was so good...and it made me so sad I just wanted to cry. That poor little girl. I feel so bad for her. But has she gotten any better since you wrote that book I wonder. The letter she wrote wanting to live with you again touched me. I really hope that she did come live with you. Sincerely,
Danyel, 04/08/2010

Hi Cathy, just to say I enjoyed your new book 'I Miss Mummy' very much. What a sweet little girl, but what a pity a blunder like that was made as it affected so many lives. I felt so sorry for those Grandparents who provided a loving home and kept her in contact with her mother. Wishful thinking I suppose but I hope these mistakes won’t happen again. Have a good weekend.
Grace, UK, 03/08/2010

Hiya, I was just writing to tell you that I have read your book Damaged and I am now onto reading I Miss Mummy (I am half way through this one). I really like your stories. They are so touching. When I am reading them I feel sad and upset. They are really good stories. I am looking forward to finishing this one and moving onto the next.
Joanne M, 03/08/2010

HI Cathy, I really enjoyed your books. I was fostered from age 2 – 19. I often wondered how foster carers felt towards foster children. The book that reflects me is The Saddest Girl in the World. It was hard to find a foster carer for me as I have cerebral palsy and had nine different foster parents who all missed I had been neglected and abused as I just wore a smile on my face and got on with it. I wished you had fostered me. I am currently writing my own book from the perspective of a foster child. I have managed to get myself through university and now reading for masters. It is people like you that have made a difference to so many children. Please keep the books coming and I cannot wait for the next one! Love and Thanks.
Katy F, 02/08/2010

Hello Cathy, I don’t know if you will remember me, I messaged you before. I picked up your book 'I Miss Mummy" last week. It’s my favourite book of yours so far. It was a gripping story and I was so relieved that it had a happy ending. I also just finished reading your book "Hidden", that too was a great story with a happy ending. I seem to read your books faster each time. Not only are you are great foster carer but your a great author. As I was reading "Hidden" I felt rather sad as I only have one more of your books left to read and then will have to wait for the next. I find your books quite therapeutic (I think that’s the right word). I have ordered your book "Cut" and look forward to reading it, thank you :) Your children must be grown up now, I hope you are all doing great :)
Gemma, 15, 02/08/2010

Dear Cathy, I have contacted you before stating what a fantastic woman you are, and you truly are!! I have read all your books now, and am now anxiously waiting for your next one. I don’t think you would be able to write them as quick as I read them. lol. Reading 'I Miss Mummy' broke my heart, to think what those poor Grandparents and Leah must have been through. It’s amazing to think that this is so real, and brave old Alice, words can't describe. I am just so glad things worked out for them in the end, the same happiness and relief I felt for Donna. Its sad knowing you still haven't heard from Dawn - lets keep our fingers crossed. We still need more people like you in the world. Much love to you, your family and all the dear children you have cared and helped. Take Care. Lots of Love.
Carley, Bristol, UK, 02/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I just finished reading I Miss Mummy. It reflects my own life in some ways. I had a baby in 2003 and after 10 months my mother reported me to the health visitor for stopping her seeing my son. Every time he came home from seeing her he was very upset. A social work got involved and as a result at 10 months old he was taken from me because he had a bruise on his right ear which he'd been pulling at for months. I had been taking him to the doctors about his ears as I suspected an ear infection. But at the case conference the social worker chairing the meeting implied I'd picked him up by his ear to put him to bed! My mother said some awful things about me – that I had a personality disorder. But the psychiatrist said I was OK! I was charged with wilful harm to a minor but never prosecuted. The charges were dropped but my son was never returned. I have never had him wake up in my arms on Christmas morning. He lived with my parents for a while, then they said they couldn’t look after him and he was put up for adoption! I grieve for him all the time. He will be 7 at the end of the year. Almost 3 years ago if not longer was the last time I saw him! At contact he begged me to come in the car one day and I told the truth " I'd love to but they won't let me". The social work got angry at me and said I should have lied saying I had to go some where to go. I told them I'd never lie to him. It broke my heart. On my way home I cried my eyes out. My mother was a nurse and the social work took everything my mother said as gospel! My solicitor at the time said that as the police did not take me to court I should have got my son back. He said in all his career he had never seen a mother damn her daughter the way my mother did. I'm marrying next year and it breaks my heart my son won't be there to walk his mum down the aisle. My partner is proud of me, that I've had the strength to get through this. I get letterbox contact once a year. It's never enough. I have opened a bank account for my son and I add to it each month. I'm trying to get my life back together I am going to college to do access to nursing, and then I hope onto midwifery training. I want my son to be proud of me but I feel guilty too as all the love I have for him goes nowhere. I know I'd be a good mum. All I have ever done is love my baby boy, although social work said it's not enough. After he was taken I fell to bits. I became acrophobic and neglected the house as I felt trapped and bullied. I identify with Leah and Alice from the book and my son would identify with Alice. Thank you so much for what you did for Alice, I just wish some one like you could have helped me. Wishing you and your family all the best
Anon, UK, 02/08/2010

Hey Cathy, All your books are really insightful and interesting. I've just brought I Miss Mummy and thought before I read it I'll email to say - you truly are a blessed and humble women.
Wilma, UK, 01/08/2010

Dearest Cathy, I have just read my 3rd book of yours and have ordered another 2!! After each book I am reduced to tears, my 2 daughters now know when it’s the end of a book as they see me in tears. I feel as if I know you and your family, because of the excellent way in which you write. After the 1st book I went onto our local council website to look into fostering, as I also feel I want to help these poor children. Unfortunately our home is too small. I would love to be able to make a difference to these children’s lives and now after contacting several local authorities without replies back am at a loss what to do next. Maybe you could give me some advice as to how and where I would be able to help? I can’t wait to read your next 2 books; you truly have a wonderful gift as a writer but have an even bigger gift at being yourself. You truly are one in a million, x
Michael, UK, 01/08/2010

CG: How wonderful that you want to volunteer to help children. That's very kind of you. I suggest you contact your local Citizens Advice Bureau (CAB). They hold lists of organizations who are looking for volunteers in your area. You might also look in your local library and newspaper for openings. Have you tried Dr Barnardos? There is a link on my website - on the links page. Cathy x
01/08/2010

Hi Cathy, I have been a big fan of all your books and I am currently awaiting delivery of I Miss Mummy. I would like to say a big thank you to you. I have had two family members that have been through the care system, reading your books have helped me to deal with certain issues. It is lovely to hear about the help and love that you have given to children that have been let down. You are a lady that must have inspired a lot of people in the world and that is something to be very proud of. I wish you and your family all the best. Kind regards
Simone, Bognor Regis, UK, 01/08/2010

Hello I am very touched by the books you have written. You are a very special person who cares for children who had a rough background. It’s a very nice thing for you to do and it makes you a very special person all around. I have read two of your books "Cut" and "Hidden". These books were so well written and I actually read both of them in one day. I am looking forward to reading your other books as you write them so everyone can understand. Some authors write their books and it is hard to pick up the event off what is happening but you write it in a way where it is easy to pick up. If u get this email thanks for reading it and I hope you are well. Yours Sincerely
Cameron S, 29/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I'm just writing to say thank you for writing such gripping, inspiring stories. My husband has become frustrated with me because I want to spend each evening reading your books rather than spend time with him, but I don't care - I simply cannot stop when I'm halfway through one of your books! I read Cut and Hidden a few months ago, borrowed from my Mum (who also loves your books) and when she recently bought I Miss Mummy, I borrowed it straight after she'd finished. I'm now reading Cut again and have just gone online with the sole purpose to purchase all your books which I've now done and can't wait to receive them. I just called my Mum and told her, now she can't wait to read them after me! You are by far my favourite author. I love any real life story and I enjoy working with people (in my sales job), and children (I have a 3 yr old son). It's terrible some of the things some children have seen or been subjected to, but it's people like you that help to create awareness so that abuse isn't ignored. I just wanted to say thanks for the stories and I wish you and your children health and happiness. Lots of love
Amanda, UK, 29/07/2010

Hi Cathy, I am reading your latest book, I Miss Mummy. Wow I love all your books! I have read them all and I can’t wait to read your next book. You are an inspiration to everyone. I love your books. In 3 days I read your books I can’t put them down.
Peta, Australia, 29/07/2010

Hello Cathy, I felt I had to write to say that you are without a doubt one of the best authors ever! And I really do mean that. I am a Mum of 4, and a freelance poet, and love to read. Only problem is once I start I cannot put the books down, especially yours. In the past week I have read Damaged, Hidden, Cut and The Saddest Girl in the World. I read these books one a day, once I started I couldn't stop! I couldn't put these books down. I have done nothing all week apart from stopping for an hour or so to do my poetry work when it comes through on line, and cooking meals still reading! I am gong to the library tomorrow to get the rest of your books. The thing that intrigues me about your writing is the way you describe everything so clearly, you really are talented! These stories have been rattling around in my head for days and whilst so sad, you are a credit to your profession. I feel like I know Adrian, Paula and Lucy hope they are well. Are you planning to write any more? I hope you are. Just had to email you to say I think you are fantastic!!
Alison B, 29/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I work with young ladies aged 16-25 years who live in a Supported Housing Complex and who’ve all got a story to tell like the ones I read about in your books. I would just like to thank you for publishing these stories that not only give the rest of us in the world an insight into what some youngsters go through, but the happy ending which some girls (and that includes ones I have worked with) do not get. You are truly an inspiration to the rest of us – Please keep up the good work. Regards,
Keri, UK, 28/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I am a Criminology student at university in Perth, Western Australia. I have also completed three years of Polish philology course at University of Gdansk. I came from Poland where I used to be a teacher of Polish language and literature. Recently I have read your book entitled ‘Damaged’. Needles to say I was deeply moved by it. I have ordered three more of your books (‘Hidden’, ‘The Girl in the Mirror’ and ‘The Saddest Girl in the World). They are now on their way to me.
Wojciech B, Perth, Australia, 27/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I have just read your latest book (I Miss Mummy). What a wonderful book. As I read your books I am really there and I just can't put them down. When I get to last chapter I don't want it to end. Please keep me in touch when you have another book coming out. I don't know what to read now I’ve been spoiled by you. I did try another author writing similar but he wasn’t a patch on you. Kind regards
Pamela N, 25/07/2010

Hi Cathy, I am half way through Damaged and I have just read the part about Jodie’s family watching and taking pictures of the abuse the poor girl had to take. I am horrified because I'm 14 I have never really realized the pain and suffering some children actually receive. It makes me sick to think about It. I can't wait to read to the end of your story. I hope the adults involved in the abuse get everything they deserve. I love your books and what you do for the children is amazing. Please carry on doing what you do. You do a lot for the kids. I wish you all the best in future. I emailed you before about Cut.
Abby, UK, 24/07/2010

Hi Cathy: I Miss Mummy was about the most heart wrenching book I've ever read and the thing of it is, it's a true story! No doubt that is why I love your books so much. In this crazy mixed up world the ones in need the most are the children. God must have had you in mind Cathy to care for those whose hearts needed love and understanding the most. It never ceases to amaze me how precious these little ones are and how a stranger can reach them sometimes better than their own family. Wherever Alice is right now I have no doubt she continues to hold you dear to her heart along with your amazing children. With God's love and blessings:
Linda R, USA, 23/07/2010

Dear Cathy. I have read your books Damaged and Hidden and loved both of them. I cried like a baby for both. My sister has been a foster parent for many years and so has my cousin. A lot of children have come and gone in our lives and she has adopted 6 of them. You are a great woman to do work like that, I don't think I could do it. I do childcare and hate when the time comes for the children to leave and start school, so it has to be way harder on you to have them all the time and then see them leave. Can't wait to get more of your books. Sincerely yours,
Jean C, USA, 23/07/2010

I ordered your new book, I Miss Mummy, and again was totally immersed in it. You write with such compassion and understanding and some of the book you can’t help but smile at. Beautifully written and very hard to put down. I thoroughly enjoyed it and look forward to your next book, and many more I hope. Regards
Wendy B, 23/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading 'I Miss Mummy' and it was fantastic. I have read all of your others books except 'The Girl in the Mirror' which I have just ordered. I just want to say that I think you are an incredible person and the way you have brought up your children and fostered other children is exceptional. I will certainly be using you as a role model when I have children. You have also made fostering seem a very rewarding job and one that I would seriously consider taking part in. Thank you for everything you do.
Jemma, UK 23/07/2010

Dear Cathy, Wow, I have just read your book Damaged, I am now reading Cut, and will be reading all of yours as my mum has them all. You are simply amazing, and you have really opened my eyes to how lucky I am, plus how much I take for granted. It is so lovely knowing there are people like you out there. I start reading your books and I just can't stop, I spent a whole day reading Damaged, and will do for Cut as I am halfway through it now and only started it earlier. As my partner is going to work in the day time I find I have a lot of time on my hands, so to be able to just lie on my bed with the radio on reading your book is a new habit and I doubt it will stop any time soon. Thank you so much, you are the perfect role model and I really look up to you. You have done such an amazing job, well done.
Amanda, 16, England, 21/07/2010

I have just finished reading I Miss Mummy. I read it in about 2 sessions, couldn’t put it down. My eyes are still misty with tears. I have now read all your books to date, can’t wait for the next one. Please keep me informed of when this will be! Please keep writing your books are brilliant. Many thanks for allowing us into your world.
Judy, 21/07/2010

Cathy, I’m 17 years old, and my family fosters. Your books are so inspiring and show the help foster carers can give. What happens in your stories happens everywhere. We have foster children who have stayed with us for days, months and even years. For as long as I can remember we've had children come live with us. To hear what has happened to them, for them to be put into the system because of the situations, is terrible and we try to make their stay with us as easy and as fun as possible. Two of the children who have stayed with us for 2-3 years each, they constantly call us to tell us about their lives, and how they are moving forward, which is amazing because of what they've been through. If they didn’t have the determination they might have never been able to come through. To know that we have helped them, helped save their lives, and to get them out of the environment is the most amazing feeling you can receive. You’re an Inspiration, if only there were more people like you, and more foster carers, children will get a chance. Reading your books, gives hope that they will get through this. Thank you so much, for everything. You are a light at the end of the tunnel.
Laura E, 17, Victoria, Australia, 20/07/2010

Hiya, I am 16 years old and have read all your books so far and they inspire me so much. I have come from a similar background as the girl Dawn that you wrote about in your book "Cut". Knowing that there are other girls out there that have and are going through the same as I did, makes me feel not so singled out now. To begin with I thought that I had been the only one going through such a tough life. I now realise that there’s so much I could have done to prevent things becoming as bad as they did, it makes me feel sick to my stomach. I just hope that your books have made a lot of other teenagers that are going through a tough time to open up and they CAN get help! Thanks so much Cathy :)
Simone, 16, UK, 20/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I just wanted to drop you a line to say thank you to you. You may not remember but your previous advice has helped me so much. There really should be more people in the world like you who just takes time to listen and care for others. I hope you and all your extended family are well? I have just finished reading both The Girl in the Mirror and I Miss Mummy. I was just as moved by both of them as I have been by all your books. I was so moved by your novel and often had to put it down as I couldn’t see for tears. So just to say thank you and I very much look forward to reading your next books. With very best wishes and Kind regards to you
Mary, UK, 19/07/2010

Dear Cathy, Last week I finished reading your book 'The Saddest Girl in The World’. It was heart warming and beautiful. I love children and after reading your books Damaged and The Saddest Girl in The World, it makes me want to Foster when I’m older. Thank you for writing these books, they make me feel happy and safe knowing that there’s people out there like you. I see you as a role model and someone I look up too. You’re amazing and through your books I love you. I hope I can be half as good as the foster carer you are when I'm older.
Elsie, 13, England, 17/07/2010

Hi Cathy, A friend passed a copy of your book "Hidden" and I've just finished it. She told me it was an amazing book and really worth a read. I experienced so many emotions as I read your beautifully written book. Like you and Tayo, my emotions were up and down, all the time. I was happy, sad, upbeat, low, but all in all, I felt so much love for all of you. I felt so much happiness for Tayo's dad and grandmother but so much sadness for his mother, Minty. Cathy, you are a wonderful woman, and I am so proud of you, and what you do. To be a foster child placed in your care would be a one in a million opportunity. The love and compassion that you give, and also your family give, is just amazing. Tayo, what a beautiful human being you are. When I finished the book I just wanted to know more about your life back in Nigeria. I know that you will succeed in your adult life, with a very loving family. How lucky were you to be placed with Cathy! I see on your website you've written many books, I plan on reading those too. Gods bless you Cathy; your family; and especially a beautiful human being called Tayo.
Sharon, Australia, 16/07/2010

Dear Cathy, You are an earth bound angel! Even though the story and events of Jodie’s life made me feel so many darkened emotions the way you and your family had so much patience, understanding and love to help Jodie when she seemed to be so lost to the world is absolutely amazing! You are a beacon of light in the ever drowning system that is trying to protect our children. I was so relieved when I read in the epilogue you have continued to bring hope and happiness to the children in care. Sending all my love, support and best wishes to you, your family and to Jodie.
Beci, 15/07/2010

Hi Cathy, I have read all of your books so far and absolutely love them. I read them almost in a day and have a mini book club with my friends about them. I have just finished I Miss Mummy and cried. Alice was so funny for a 4 year old and she reminded me of a little old lady with her sense of humour. I'm pleased her story had a happy ending and it’s a shame you haven't been able to keep in touch with her - I like to look up you're website to get an update on how the kids are getting on. You are an amazing woman and wish there were more people like you in the world! Take care
Chantal, UK, 15/07/2010

Cathy, not only do your books provide an entertaining read but I'm sure they must provide reassurances to families who have or have had children in the care system; reassurances that the children are well looked after and happy (although of course not all foster homes are like yours). It will reassure a lot of families going through this, and I'm sure your own three have grown up to be empathetic and unselfish children now. Good luck with all your books I really do enjoy them, Cathy. All the best to you and your family
Debra, 15/07/2010

Hi Cathy, It is unbelievable how fast I receive your books from Amazon. Just read the back cover of I Miss Mummy and was almost in tears already so I know it's going to hold my attention as have all of your others. Hope all is well and you should let the Amazon folks know how much those of us in the USA appreciate their shipping time. God Bless:
Linda R, USA, 14/07/2010

Hello Cathy, I was at my local library to pick up a book, for no apparent reason, I picked the book 'Hidden'. I must admit my reading habit had been eclectic. However, when I started reading the book, everything came alive, it touches my heart to read about kids going through difficult periods of life and helpless. I am African from Nigeria, I like the firm way you handled Tayo, I intend to utilise some of these skills. I haven't finished it but it’s really an eye opener for me. I must add you sure have lots of patience; I am definitely picking another of your books after 'Hidden'. I am glad I made the choice to pick Hidden. Well done, keep up the good work and may God bless you.
Toyin, UK, 14/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I live in the U.S. on Cape Cod Mass. I recently was given your book Cut. I am totally in awe of you and your husband John. God Bless you both for what you were able to do for Dawn. I look forward to reading more of your books. In this crazy world we find ourselves today, it is so wonderful to know that there are wonderful caring people. God Bless,
Jan B, US, 13/07/2010

Hi Cathy, how are you and the kids? Thanks for sending me the email announcing “I miss mummy”. I bought it along with “The Saddest Girl in The World” and “The Girl in the Mirror”. I have already read the first 2 and am starting the 3rd today!! As always, very well written and another heart-rending story. You take care
Carole, 13/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I just picked up your booked Damaged while I was on holiday and couldn’t put it down. It was a very good read and very heart warming to see what that poor girl had to go through at such a young age. I think it is amazing what you do as a foster carer and you provide a safe home for children. I've now passed this book along to my mam to read and I hope she enjoys it as much as me.
Lesleyann W, UK, 12/07/2010

Hiya Cathy, I am 22 and have been in foster care my whole life, being treated horribly by my natural parents and then again by several foster carers. It gives me hope and delight to know that there are actually some people in this world that care when no one else seems to. I think the love care and understanding you have not just for your own children but for those that come into your care is amazing. I hope people will read your books and think to themselves maybe I can do this, maybe I can shed some light on these children's lives. I think you are a true inspiration to everyone. You have given these children the chance to be children again and to enjoy what is left of their childhood, without constant worry or fear, you are truly marvellous. Being 22 I am no longer under social services but I am under the ‘care and after team’ who still treat me rubbishy, but thankfully I have been able to come out of the bad and make something for myself. I am off to university in September to study performing arts and I hope to become a drama teacher. I have always said that I would love to be a foster carer one day when I am settled and have support. I can only wish I am as good as people like yourself. I will continue to read your books as long as you continue to write them. Thank you on behalf of every child in the system, for being one of the good ones. All the best and with love and warm wishes
Carmel, 22, UK, 12/07/2010

Hi Cathy, I have just spent the weekend reading Damaged and Hidden. What heartbreaking stories, but well written. I am mid-assessment for fostering and go to Panel on the 7th October, so reading your books really helped me get a great insight and some handy hints. I do not go into foster caring lightly and aspire to the standards that you have set. Thank you for putting pen to paper. I am very much looking forward to 'I Miss Mummy' this month. Yours with thanks
Rebecca W, UK, 12/07/2010

Hi Cathy, Thank you so much for this book. It has helped me in so many ways. My mother committed suicide with prescription pills after escaping from a mental institution. She is in a better place but my sisters (all 8 of them) and my father went through hell. I am 43 and have dealt with my past and live a healthy productive life. An IT lead, I have a 14 year old boy who is doing quite well. I have been divorced for 10 years but am back in the dating seen and doing ok. I just did the 1/2 marathon. My sisters think I am not myself and have way too much energy but hey I live in the Seattle area and the sun has finally shown its face. Everyone out here has tons of energy. Well, they say I am crazy like my mother so I picked up your book and I’m loving it! I haven't been able to put it down. I am half way through and will finish it today/tonight. I am looking forward to reading your other books. Thanks Again,
Shannon, USA, 12/07/2010

I just wanted to say thank you for writing the memoirs and novels. I find insight and wisdom, and more than that, hope, in each one. I am a child of sexual abuse, having kept the secret to myself until I was old enough, at 16, to let it be known. I lost the support of my family, but know that there are always people out there who care. I admire your dedication to these children who just need to be loved and for all the work you have done. To be honest I never thought I would be open to becoming a foster parent when time came around, but as I go off to college this fall to train to be a social worker, or more particularly a rape crisis counsellor, I will be reading more of your books and keeping in mind that there is always those options out there. So thank you for being a wonderful writer and woman.... the world needs more people like you out there.
Lindsay, 11/07/2010

Cathy I have nearly finished your new book I Miss Mummy and as usual I'm really enjoying it, looking forward to knowing where little Alice ends up living. I’ve yet to read Happy Kids. Thanks for another good book. Isn’t there another one in October? Look forward to it
Debra, 10/07/2010

Hi Cathy, I have read many of your books after coming across one in a book shop. I was sexually, physically and mentally abused and now I'm very shy and selfish. My mum doesn’t want to know me and no-one cares, not my gran or my granddad. I keep everything clean and I got told off for scrubbing my foster carer’s house, but it does help. My carer said it was her job but I wanted to do it. My mum and dad were drinking and on drugs so now I’m in long term fostering. Please email back. I want to foster when I’m older I’m 17 by way and you and your son and daughter are so good. I hate the new foster children they have now but we have to make them welcome, its difficult at times and I’m in a low place but your books help.
K, 17, 09/07/2010

My mum has read your book Damaged, she thought it was magnificent and you have got a lot of patience. She really hopes Jodie gets on very well now you have given her a few pointers. You are an amazing woman. Thank you very much.
Geraldine, UK, 09/07/2010

Dearest Cathy, I came by your book "Damaged" about a month ago and cannot seem to put any of your books down. What is in our stores, I have bought and read. I know you must get a lot of mail from people who can relate to the true stories that you write. I cannot relate but my heart does go out to those who are affected by the abuse you write about or any other type of abuse. I live in Montreal Canada and I find it amazing that people's true stories are written from different parts of the world can make me cry and smile. I just want you to know that I have great respect for you and will continue to read what you write until there is nothing left to read. Being an avid reader, I love to read about things that are sometimes "taboo". I plan on having children soon and would like to be aware of sad things that can happen to them or the people who I am surrounded by. I wanted to become a writer because even though I am only 26 years of age, I have lived a life that most 60 year olds haven’t lived, but I have no clue on how to go about describing my pain on paper. I have taken writing seminars but feel as if all my feelings and thoughts want to all come out at once, which I call "word vomit" and then nothing makes sense. Anyways, I just wanted to tell you that you are an amazing writer and you have been gifted with a heart of gold. Kind regards,
Julie, Canada, 09/07/2010

Hi Cathy! I just finished reading your book, Damaged. I just fell in love with Jodie! I have read your updates and wish her well in her new life. I hope that she continues to stay in touch with you. For without you, she may never have made it to this point in her life. What a wonderful, kind, compassionate carer you are! So glad to have people like you in this world!! God Bless
Jody, 08/07/2010

Dear Cathy, I'm truly inspired by your books. I have read most of them and recently read I Miss Mummy. I come to tears with everyone of them, my partner thinks I'm daft but I just can't help it, your books really touch me. The way you deal with foster children is truly amazing you have so much patience and understanding. I can not wait to read your future books. Thank you.
Nadie, 20, Grimsby, UK, 08/07/2010

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