Hi Cathy I have just finished reading Cut I thought it was really good. I have also read your other books Damaged and Hidden. As soon as I read Damaged I looked for more of your books and found Hidden but then I had to wait for Cut coming out which seemed a long wait as the books are so good. Once I start reading your books I can’t put them down. I have only just got Cut and I have read it straight away, can’t wait for the next book to come out in April. I thought it was really good how you never gave up on Dawn as she was causing you so much worry. I can’t imagine how hard it is to give up the children after you have had them for so long. Good look with your fostering.
Danielle, 20, UK, 06/10/2008
Hi Cathy I have read Damaged and Hidden and I am in total awe of what you do! I am 18 years old and have looked into becoming a social worker or a foster carer and I have become confused about what I want to do! I totally admire you for all the work and care you have done, it truly does show that with help a child's life can be saved and turned around. I have completed a Child Care and Education course and am currently working in a school as a support worker with children that have special need.
Chelsea, 18, 06/10/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just read your book Hidden. You have put some light into my eyes on what really goes on in this world. I am so pleased for Tayo and I'm so pleased there are people like you, that really do make a difference to a child’s life. Keep up the brilliant work you are doing.
Gemma W, 05/10/2008
Hi Cathy! I am a 17 year old girl and I have just read Damaged after many people have told me about it! I read it in one day as I just could not put it down and I cried many tears! You are a truly inspirational and fantastic person. What you did for Jodie and many other children is amazing! You have made me realise how lucky I am to have such a loving caring family! I am studying childcare at college as I have always wanted to do something for children and I would like to thank you. After reading your book I have decided I would like to be a foster carer because you have made me realise there are always children out there that need help, someone to love them, care for them and give them the life they deserve for a happy future! I am going to read Hidden next, then Cut. Take care and thank you again for helping me to decide what I would like to do with my future! You are an inspiration to me! Good luck to you and your family! And my love to Jodie!
Lowenna, 17, UK, 04/10/2008
Hi Cathy, I just want to say again ...You must be one of god’s angels doing his work on earth because your books are brilliant. I have not had a chance to write to you again for quite a while as I have been away on holiday but I bought Cut the day it came out and read it. The way you write you are a truly extraordinary lady. You need to be praised more for the work you do for every child out there. Thank you again. Hope you bring out another book soon. All my love
Paula, South Yorkshire, UK, 03/10/2008
What a wonderful book Cut was. I cried when I read it. God bless you Cathy
Sandra, 03/10/2008
Hi Cathy, I just bought Damaged, and I cannot put it down. It's such an amazing story, so much more because it's real and it's so sad that things like that happens to children in real life. A child should never have to go through a childhood like that. It really robs them of the time of their lives when they are supposed to be happy, carefree, and worry free. However, it's really comforting to know that there are people like you who care enough to care for a person such as Jodie when everyone else has given up on her. Just to let you know that you've done a great job and people like u do make the world a better place, no matter how small your contributions are. Being a nurse, I know how it feels when you feel so sad for a child (in my case, a patient) because of his/her circumstances, but at the end of the day, it is always so rewarding to know that we have made a positive influence/difference in their lives. :). So keep up the excellent work and may God Bless You.
Kirsten, Malaysia, 02/10/2008
Cathy, I have just finished your book 'Damaged'. It is one of the most heartfelt and well written books I have read in such a long time. It has truly affected me. I could feel your pain and felt as though I was there with you in every word you wrote. I am in the process of locating your other books to read. You are really a remarkable person and a lot of children are much better off for knowing you as we are much better off by reading your books. I can’t help but wonder about Jodie. Keep writing Cathy, your life is so interesting and it also helps the rest of us to understand that life really isn't as peachy as we would like to think. You truly are a remarkable person, thank you for letting me into your life and sharing your experiences. Also, although we do not know each other could you please pass my love on to Jodie and let her know there are people from all parts of the world that care for her. Thank you
Jodi, Australia, 02/10/2008
I nearly cried reading your book Damaged. I feel for you and your family, I would have hated to have lost Jodie even though it was for the best. I’m 17 and studying to become a psychologist to work with children like Jodie. Until I read your book (in 2 days) I didn’t realise how hard the work may actually be. Your patience and good will have inspired me to foster when I am older too. You were truly amazing. If you hadn’t taken Jodie in, she may never have said anything to the workers at the children's home and then where would she be? Do you know that you deserve medal?! Eileen! How she made me angry so god knows how she made you feel. I hope Jodie and your children are well. I can’t actually believe Jodie is 13 already. Take care
Jade L, 17, UK, 01/10/2008
Hi Cathy, I have heard all about your book's from my fiancé. She has read all of your books as they have come out and thinks every one is an emotional rollercoaster, and can never put it down. I am starting to read them as they seem very interesting how you and the children get through life. It could have been close to my life as my farther left before I was born and could have been put up for foster. Keep up the good work both in your life and your books as they are helping people understand that not everyone is perfect and some people do bad things. They also show there are people in the world who will help others with no benefit to them.
Dan M, UK, 01/10/2008
Dear Cathy, I am 12 and I have read your book Hidden. I thought it was great. My heart goes fully out to Tayo and I wish him the very best in his life. I never knew children could be hidden. It makes me wonder and ask questions about life. I can't wait to read your next book.
Shanicee, 12, London, UK, 30/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I’m 18 and I've just finished reading your book Damaged and I wanted to tell you how much it truly touched me, I cried so much throughout it! I admire your strength and courage and just had to tell you. I lay awake at night wondering what will happen to her, my spirits are with her. I admire what you are doing and it has made me think twice about what goes on in the world today. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Mecia-jade, 18, 29/09/2008
Hey Cathy! I am only 12 and have read Damaged, Hidden and Cut ... I love reading about your experiences as a foster carer. After reading your latest book, Cut, I have decided that my future goal is to become a children's psychologist. I would like to say thank you for everything you do as a foster carer and I am sure the children you write about appreciate it! I would also like to say keep writing books! I couldn't put them down! I read your first book, Damaged, when I was 11
Lisa, 12, UK, 28/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I am 18 years old and studying social care as a degree as I want to be a social worker. Your are a great inspiration to me. I have read Damaged and Hidden, I think they are the most amazing books I just didn’t want to put them down. They both really touched me as well. I have just bought Cut and I can’t wait till I start reading it. You are such an amazing person and a great role model for all. Since I was 8 years old I have always wanted to work with children, as I got older I realised I wanted to be a social worker. But if I don’t get the chance to do that then I would love to be a foster carer, as I believe that all children should have a chance in life. All the children that you have fostered have been blessed to have someone like you to take them into your family and care for them as if they are your own. You are a true angel. I’m looking forward to you writing more books as they are fantastic.
Hannah, 18 , UK, 28/09/2008
Good afternoon Cathy, I felt compelled to write as I have just finished reading Cut (in one afternoon). It was another fantastically written book, heartfelt and emotive. I don't know how you and your husband survived with a tiny baby and an unruly teenager but I'm sure that Dawn knew she was in good hands and I hope that she has made a success of herself in her chosen career. Since my last email I have left my job and have started university to do my teacher training. I have had a nerve wracking first week at Uni and can only imagine how this must have felt for someone like Dawn...hats off to her! Good luck again for the future, I look forward to the next book. Kind regards
Rachel, UK, 28/09/2008
Hi Cathy, congratulations on another amazing book. I have recently purchased CUT and could not put it down. I finished it within 4 hours. I have contacted you previously after reading your previous books praising the work that you and many others like you do, however I feel that after reading CUT you deserve the praise even more. After such a shocking start to the fostering process I am amazed that you carried on, that Social Services did what they did and potentially put you and your own child at risk is beyond belief. I would not be at all surprised though if things like that continue to happen as from my own experience with social services, they do not always tell you what you need to know. We adopted a little boy nearly 2 years ago and are still awaiting proper details of why he was taken into care so that we can give him this information when he asks when older. Once again well done on an amazing book and can't wait for the next one. Take care
Marie, UK, 27/09/2008
Dear Cathy, Your book ‘Damaged’ touched me deeply. I fell in love with it after the first chapter. I think what you did for Jodie was amazing, when having your own children to deal with too. I find you an inspiration! I read the whole book in just two days, I really could not put it down! Plenty people have told you that you are amazing, and I strongly agree! I’m looking forward to reading the rest of your books. Love to you and your family and obviously love to Jodie. Bless you and take care .
Samantha, 17, UK, 26/09/2008
Hello Cathy, I have just finished reading your book "Hidden". It was as good as the other one. It only took me a day to read as it was one of those books you couldn’t put down. I was pleased that Tayo got what he wanted in the end. You are one good woman and I think you should be honoured in the Daily Mirror awards for your fostering as you give hope to so many young people. I will read Cut as soon as it comes out in paperback. Keep up the good work. Take care and best wishes.
Paul, Milton Keynes, UK, 26/09/2008
Dear Cathy, when I read Damaged it gave me a sense of feel. I am only eleven and when I grow up I want to be a foster carer. Your book amazed me and made me realize what a lucky girl I am. I know you probably hear it a lot but we need more people in this world like you. Cathy you are a true hero. Keep your inspiration up. Hope to see more books of yours.
Tahlia, 11, Australia, 26/09/2008
Hi, Just read Damaged (took 7 hrs from start to finish). I couldn’t put it down. My heart bleeds for Jodie and children like her. Heart warming to know there are people like you out there. Best wishes
Jo, Newcastle upon Tyne, UK, 25/09/2008
Hi Cathy I have read Damaged and just finished Hidden both of which I couldn’t put down, I read hidden in a day. I just wanted to say that I think your books are totally brilliant, the best I've ever read. I think you are a total inspiration and should be commended for the love and care you give to these children. It’s a shame there are not more like you in the world.
Kirsty, 24/09/2008
Hello Cathy. I bought your books, Damaged and Hidden, and I finished them within a day. I couldn't put them down. I cried my eyes out after reading both of them. I am so happy that Jodie and Tayo are happy now and have both progressed since they have been with you. I am touched by everything you did for them both. Since reading them, I have started to consider either being a foster carer, or a social worker. But at 18, I might just have to wait a while. Thank you Cathy, for making me see what life really is like out there for some children.
Jade, UK, 24/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just read Cut in a week. I couldn't put it down and I had a tear at the end. You are a true inspiration and I cannot wait for your next book. You can’t write them quick enough for me. I pass them on to my friends and my mum. Thanks
Tracey, 23/09/2008
Dear Cathy, having read your most recent book Cut I have to say I am very impressed! Your story has really opened my mind and I truly admire you for all your work and the help you have given to the children you cared for over the years. The story of Dawn was so touching; I couldn’t put the book down! Within 2 days, the entire book was read and I must admit left me a little teary eyed. I think you are an amazing person and an inspiration to all mothers! This is the first book I have read written by you, and I am pleased to say it will certainly not be my last. It has truly inspired me! I send my best wishes to you and your family and pray you have the best in life. Take care.
Stephanie, 23/09/2008
I have just finished reading your book Damaged and what an amazing story. The way you were able to tell this story in such a way that it had me not wanting to put this book down. This story opened my eyes to the unbelievable horror and tragic circumstances that some children are exposed to every day of their lives. I am a mum to two amazing girls and it broke my heart to read what this child had been through in her short life and the ongoing effect this will have on her. I agree with your comments that this is "the worst crime imaginable" for any adult and in this case parents to "damage" their child in this way. You and your family are a true inspiration Cathy. Thank goodness for people like you.
Jody, Australia, 22/09/2008
Dear Cathy, Let me start by saying what a fantastic writer you are, and an amazing foster carer. Both Jodie and Tayo were very lucky when they arrived at your door after the disgusting start they had in life. You were there like a fairy godmother to change their lives for the better. I was hooked by your books and have now passed them around all of my friends and family, who have been shocked and disgusted, but loved your books. I was over the moon when Tayo finally returned home. What an amazing end to his nightmare. I wish you, your 3 wonderful children, Jodie, Tayo and all the other children you help a life filled with love, luck, happiness, & laughter. You deserve it. Kind regards and best wishes
Amy, Hertfordshire, UK, 22/09/2008
Hiya Cathy, I have just finished reading your book 'Cut'. It was amazing and it really touched me. I think it touched me because I could relate to it. I was sexually assaulted a year ago and I’ve self harmed in the past and knew how suicide felt. Reading books like that help me in some weird way. I always come to think there are people experiencing the same trauma , and in a way I feel lucky as some people’s lives are so much worse. My mother is going to read the book because she still wants to understand what drove me to knives and blades. I hope Dawn has moved on. Next I will read Damaged, then Hidden. So thank you for writing the books. You seem a wonderful person and your book has helped me a lot. Well done in all your kindness to help those children.
Vicky, 17, Isle Of Man, UK, 22/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I just finished reading your book Damaged this Bank Holiday weekend. I like you, I am a foster carer, with 19 years experience and having fostered over 100 in that time - from 1 night to 5 years. I loved the book and the honesty in the writing. I could hear myself commenting out loud in agreement with your comments on Eileen the lethargic social worker - boy have I come across some of those in my time! Thankfully the really good ones make up for ones like her. Keep up the good work and stay true to your belief that you are helping to 'change young lives'. God Bless you and your family.
Sheila, Kent, UK, 22/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I read Damaged last night and I could not help but shed a few tears especially where Jodie had to leave. You did nothing wrong by the way, you did the very best you could. It touches my heart to know she could trust you well enough to tell you of her tragic life. I wish I could meet her in person and tell her she’s the bravest girl I've ever heard about.
Adam L, 22/09/2008
Hello Cathy, I just wanted to say, I have finished reading Hidden and I thought it was amazing! The ending made me cry, but bless Tayo, I'm happy for the way it all turned out. It must have been truly hard for him to have to leave you and your family, after all you did for him. You turned his life around. I also wanted to say that my sister took an overdose a few weeks back and has been admitted to a secure unit again. She is still there but I went to visit her today. When she went in, I let her take Cut with her as she wanted to read it. She ended up letting three other teens there read it, and one of the staff members were so interested she ordered it from the internet. They all enjoyed it. Thank you
Jess W, UK, 21/09/2008
I would just like to add my thanks to you for caring for those in need of love. I have just finished Hidden and could not put it down. I read it in 2 days as I could not wait to find out what the outcome was. And yes it made me cry but with happiness at a father’s love for his son. Thanks for bringing these children to the world’s attention. Can’t wait to get hold of the next book.
Sue M, Spain, 20/09/2008
Hello, your book Damaged was recommended to me by my little sister and I've just read it for the second time. It affected me just the same as the first time. I was horrified to read what Jodie was put through, but shared the few laughs that you also included. I was intrigued by the way you managed the situations you were put in - the neglectful social worker, people’s looks and comments about Jodie, even the way the disclosures were handled. I'm very proud to have read a book by such an endearing author and I applaud you.
Melissa, Brisbane, Australia, 20/09/2008
I thought I would mail you as I have just finished reading your book Damaged and found it one of the best books I have ever read. I am about to start to read Hidden. You are a remarkable woman if I may say so. Best wishes
Paul, Milton Keynes, UK, 19/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Cut and wanted to congratulate you on yet another superb book. You are an amazing woman. My husband and I have been foster carers for seven months and the children that have been placed into our care have not suffered the level of abuse and neglect that some of your charges did, but reading your books has helped us prepare enormously for the next group of children that we might receive. We foster sibling groups and currently have three wonderful sisters with us, the eldest of which has suffered the most, but with lots of love and understanding we are hoping that they will all progress through life relatively unaffected by their past. You are an inspiration to us all. Keep up the wonderful work that you do and we look forward to reading your next book.
Chrissy, UK, 19/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I finished Hidden this morning. What a sad story but with such a happy ending. Tayo showed great strength throughout, especially for a little boy who was so young. Thank goodness he had you and your family to look after him. Also you had a better social worker this time too which must have been such a relief for you. Cathy you are a person to be much admired. If it wasn’t for lovely people like you, Jodie and Tayo would not be where they are today. Best wishes
Mary, UK, 19/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I’ve just read Hidden, & last week I read Cut. I just want to say what a remarkable woman you are, this world needs a lot more people like you. Your family should be really proud. I can't wait for your next book. Keep up the good work. You are truly an angel
Suzanne, UK, 18/09/2008
I have just finished reading Hidden and I am so looking forward to reading your other books. You are a caring person and must have such patience and understanding. I sobbed through the last few chapters of Hidden and couldn’t see to read it. You have inspired me to look into caring for children when my children are a little older thank you
Louise, UK, 18/09/2008
Cathy, I've recently read all 3 of your books and find you are a big inspiration. You gave all of those children a loving caring home and also someone they could rely on. We need more people like you out there for these children. Look forward to reading more of your books.
Lynsay M, Tyne & Wear, UK, 17/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished you new book Cut and like Damaged and Hidden I couldn't put it down. I found that Cut was the most moving book so far and I was crying buckets near the end. I can not wait until your next book is out. You truly are an inspiration to the children and all the people who read your books. Any child that comes into your care is very lucky. Keep up the good work. Looking forward to many more of your book.
Denise, 17/09/2008
Hello, just a message to say I think your books are amazing. I have read all 3 books and I can relate to all of them as I am in a residential home, after my father gave me up when I was diagnosed with Leukaemia. I see why the children behave as they do. It was good to be able to relate to someone, it helps me know that I’m not alone in the world, but it’s horrible that Jodie, Tayo and Dawn had to have those experiences. Thank you for your books, they are a life saver. Well done on your success.
Maddy, 16/09/2008
Dearest Cathy, thank you for letting me know that you have published Cut. I was on my honeymoon when I received it, and I ordered it online immediately! I have already read it and it is a great book. It is very sad knowing that there are so many kids out there with so many problems. I’ve read all three of your books and I am your number 1 fan. Please if you publish more books let me know. Hope you are well, Take care and best regards.
Christine F, Malta, 14/09/2008
Hello Cathy I picked up your book Damaged a few days ago, it took me two days to read and I was very moved indeed. I’m 42 and I've had a very strange upbringing. My mum and dad separated when I was 9 years of age and in a short time I had a stepfather living with my brother and me. When I was 11 my mum told me she was going to have a baby. She spent 8 weeks in hospital towards the end of her pregnancy and that's when my stepfather started to abuse me. From the age of 11 till I was 14 he was forever touching me. I can sound quite matter-of-fact about it when I sit here typing but there is loads between these lines. I only told my mum last year after she split from him. It was like a huge weight lifted from me. My real father only found out 2 weeks before he died. Your book had me glued to the pages, I was determined to read it. I have thought about fostering but at the moment I still need to come to terms with the things in my past. My children are teenagers and I know I have enough love in me and I want to give it and help a child that needs it. That’s my goal in a couple of year’s time. Your book just opened up some thoughts that I had inside me and I thank you so much for that, you are a very special person...take care.
Jennie, UK, 14/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I am a former abused child, and although I have grown up, had children of my own etc, I feel barren, if that’s the right word. I feel cheated of something and I don’t know what. I would like to write my story but I don’t know how, or where to start. Your books are fantastic, I wish I’d had a Cathy.
Debbie W, 13/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book Hidden. I am so touched that I feel the need to say a massive thank you for all the hard work you have done for Tayo, and all the other children who have been fortunate/blessed to have been helped by you and your family. I am a bit like Tayo’s father in stature, but I was moved to tears for the first time that I can ever remember. My ex-wife is like Tayo’s mother, and it is so sad that these people can manipulate the system, rather than use the system for help which they need, especially as there is so much help available to them. I sadly gave up fighting my ex wife and the system, and walked away hoping that when my children were old enough maybe we could try to develop some sort of relationship. Sadly this has not been the case, as they have been damaged by their mother. Reading your book has given me some hope for others. Please do not ever give up, as there is no amount of money that can repay your love and kindness. Lastly whenever you write or speak to Tayo and Mr Ondura, please give them my regards, and tell Tayo that he is a very special young man, god bless you Cathy. Yours truly
W Francis, 13/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I am a 14 year old girl who has read two of your books Damaged and Hidden. I am hoping to get Cut as soon as possible! Your books are an inspiration to me and I am thinking of going into a career working with children when I am older. I am so glad that you stuck it out with Jodie as far as you could. Even though you may think you didn’t do the best you could of, I think you did. The letter that your daughter Paula wrote for Jodie at the end of your time together made me cry a lot. I hope you keep in touch with Jodie for a very long time. Also, I'm glad that you did carry on in fostering and that you could help other disturbed and abused children. Your book Hidden also made me cry. Hidden was the first of your books that I read and I'm so thankful to my Mum for buying it for me. Your experiences with Tayo must have been very hard. Thank you for sharing your experiences with everyone. I can't wait for the other books.
Bethany E, 14, Gloucestershire, UK, 13/09/2008
Hi Cathy, just a quick message to say how much I have enjoyed reading your books. I had a very bad childhood and was badly abused, but I got through it all. I now have my own life with a beautiful wife and two amazing children. I was in foster care for a while and I think people like you and John are truly amazing people. Best wishes
George M, 13/09/2008
Dearest Cathy, I have just finished reading your book Cut; it was truly an amazing story with hope. In many ways Dawn and I were very much the same - school was a nightmare for me and going to school was on and off, much like Dawn. The 'cutting' really touched home and my eyes were tear filled so often throughout the book. You handled the situation very well and you helped Dawn in so many. It’s an inspiration and I knew when I saw the book I should read it. There are many books out there about 'cutters' but so few where they are understood. I have not cut in 3 years but so many people thought I would end up dead and alone. Fortunately I have an amazing family who didn't always understand but were always there for me. You are very much like my mother was at the time when she found out, and I'm so grateful to have a mother who loves me with or without the scars. I think the scars are the worst as you can’t hide them for ever and so few people really understand. I am now engaged to an amazing man and have a bright future. I'm 21 now and started my self harming when I was about 12. Its’ really hard to say 'cutter' – it’s really hard to speak about it at all really, but I was touched by your book and Dawn’s story. I know she will always remember your kindness and understanding. Thank you for sharing her story with us.
Charline, 13/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have recently read both Hidden and Damaged. I admire you so much for the work you do. You truly are an inspiration and a wonderful person for taking these children into your home and giving them the hope, love and support they so need. I am employed as a youth worker in Australia and work with children/young people who are in foster care and have come from broken homes through neglect and abuse. It breaks my heart almost every day to see the struggles these young people face on a daily basis and the calling I find within myself to want to reach out and try and help them. Cathy, you truly have a wonderful calling on your life and the children that are placed in your care are very fortunate to have someone in their lives that genuinely cares about them. I look forward to reading your next book. God bless both you and your family Cathy, kind regards,
Meghan, Australia, 13/09/2008
Morning Cathy, I read Cut - I took my time as once I get into your books I can read them in a day. Like Damaged and Hidden the book made me cry. My sister is in Spain and has just finished reading Cut and her husband has started Hidden. We were talking last night and said how amazing you really are - I thank god there are people like you to take care of these poor children. Bless you Cathy.
Anne and Margaret, Birmingham, UK, 12/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden and I would like to say thank you very much for writing such an amazing book. The story of Tayo was nothing like I have ever read before, he could so easily have slipped through the net of social services - luckily for him he was picked up and placed with you and your family. I could not believe what had happened to him but he showed amazing resilience and character to have dealt with such a terrible ordeal with Minty, basically role reversal, Tayo being the carer of his mother and the responsible one. He should have been leading the life of child, but luckily being placed with yourself he was able to be a child, enjoying football and tobogganing with you and your family and the day out at the car boot sale. I was on tenterhooks when you were describing the final court hearing approaching and couldn’t believe it when Minty said that she was contesting the case. But I was so pleased at the end. You are a remarkable lady, Cathy. And your Children are something else too, all of you open up your hearts and home to children in need. Thank you so much for this wonderful book.
Neil, Glasgow, Scotland, 11/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I was given your book Damaged by a friend at work after I asked why she was sat in the staff room crying at lunchtime. Like many others I couldn't put it down. I have worked for a Fostering Agency as an administrator and got some great insight into the world of fostering. I have always had so much respect for people like you Cathy, and I hope other people reading your experiences can try to begin to understand how difficult and emotional the whole process of fostering can be for everyone involved. I have always said that one day I will become a foster carer myself and I hope I can have the patience, generosity and love that you share with your children and foster children. At the age of 21 I became a social work assistant on a one year contract for my local authority. I have truly seen first hand how 'the system' is lacking and the fact that Jodie's social worker was as helpful as a chocolate fireguard is just disgusting. I have a lot of respect for social workers and I know how demanding the job can be without resources, but first and foremost you have to care about what you do. It appeared Eileen, Jodie's social worker, didn't know the basics of social work which includes building a trusting and honest relationship with the child. I am now 25 and next week I will be starting my Social Work degree to hopefully one day become a social worker myself. I hope one day I can support someone like you Cathy, and be the best social worker for children like Jodie. I believe from the bottom of my heart that you did the best you could for Jodie with the support you had. I hope Jodie is doing well and continues contact with you and your family. Jodie's experience was heartbreaking and you are a shining example of how a child's life can be turned around when the right person is involved. I can't wait to start your next book..... Wishing you and your wonderful family all the very best.
Gemma H, UK, 10/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have never had much time for the Social Services, but having just finished Hidden I may revise my feelings a little. I wept as I read of Tayo's reunion and I salute you for your sterling work with these poor unfortunates. I grew up with an alcoholic mother, with whom the courts decided in their "infinite wisdom", I would be better off, instead of with the father I adored, and who had a stable home and family environment. As a result I was forced into prostitution at 14 to feed my mother's vodka habit, and only through my own determination and sheer bloody-mindedness have I managed to carve out a decent life for myself. Anyway, I am looking forward to reading Damaged. Once again I thank you for your perseverance and patience. It is not a job I would relish I think. Kind Regards.
Sue C, Crete, Greece, 10/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I would like to say thank you for writing about your experiences, it has helped myself and husband understand the difficulties some children have had in their lives. I was asked if I had read your books by a Social Worker, I had to admit I had not, but I went out and bought Damaged and my word I can see why we where asked to read it! We have just been passed as foster parents and it is a challenging but rewarding job. Knowing there are people like you makes it all worth while, and we only hope we can help even one child in life will be enough for us. Thank You Cathy.
Pat and Jay, Wales, UK, 09/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I have been doing foster care for almost three years and I bought your books to help me get more insight in the hope that maybe you could help me understand the kids more. I take my hat off to you, you do a great job, and I know that feeling. When you think that things can’t get any worse then all of a sudden you get that tiny little bit of hope that makes it all worth while. Good Luck and keep up the good work.
Lynette, Australia, 09/09/2008
On very rare occasions there are moments in your life that you truly feel deeply moved. I have read many books over the years but only a few have affected me on such a deep level as Hidden has. It evoked deep feelings of empathy, loss, and extreme joy! I have just finished it and still have tears rolling down my cheeks as I write. My partner and I go to panel this month to become foster carers. I hope that we will be able to offer the support and love to the children who need it most. I hope that in twenty years time we will be able to share some positive stories and offer hope to children that have nothing. Thanks for sharing your stories. Perhaps others will feel inspired to open up their home and hearts and offer new pathways to the ones that need it most! Love to you and your family.
Sarah, UK, 08/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I have to say that you are 100% amazing. I was never much of a reader until I found Hidden. I could not put it down! I have now read Damaged and Cut which took all of two days each! I cried through all of them. I cannot believe the kind of sick and disgusting things that take place in some children’s lives and by their own parents in Jodie’s case. It makes me so sick especially as I have a 2 year old little girl. I have always thought of fostering since I was young as I had a couple of friends in care and heard a lot of disturbing stories. You have totally inspired me to go for it! If I could at least give these children a safe place to live is something. Thank you so much!
Angela, UK, 07/09/2008
Hi again Cathy. Well it's Sunday now and I finished Cut at about half past midnight. I've pretty much got the layout of the house now. I don't need to ask how you were able to foster again after that experience because the reasons came through in the story. It was the passion in the care you gave and the inadequacies of the social services that encouraged you to stick with that child - to make a difference. Although how you never smacked the social worker in the chops I'll never know! Another fantastic read Cathy. However to say I enjoyed them would be the wrong thing to say. There is no pleasure in reading what happened to these children and your family but they are a powerful insight to what goes on behind closed doors. Much more legislation is needed to protect children and vulnerable adults but people should open their eyes and see what's going on around them. Far better to be over cautious than to do nothing and someone get hurt I think. Anyway Cathy, congratulations on yet another extremely well written book and I look forward to the next one. All the best to you and yours.
Tracy, D, 07/09/2008
Hi Cathy I am on your 3rd book Cut and like Damaged and Hidden I find it hard to put down, My heart went out to Tayo and to Jodie .I admire you so much for what you do for these children .I have worked in 2 different types of care I have worked with the elderly and worked with special needs children and I find it very challenging but like yourself very rewarding. I also have a 3 year old that keeps me on my toes. I have told my friends to read your books and like myself they cannot put them down. I will look forward to your next book and thank you for sharing your stories. Keep up the good work.
Michelle, London, 05/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I read your books Hidden and Damaged and I was shocked at how people could do that to such innocent children and in both books you were amazing. I’m still at school and whenever I got the chance to read I would. It took me 3 days to read each book. I never usually read but you have got me to love books and to see what can happen to people. Ill be going out and buying your book Cut next. I love kids and I'm so glad that someone like you is willing to listen and help them.
Megan, Fife, Scotland, 05/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read your books and they are amazing. You are an amazing woman for looking after these children and helping the way you do. Keep up the good work
Lyanne, R, Kent, UK, 05/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just read your book, Cut. As a teenager who is into Harry Potter and the like, I thought I should try something else for a change. I can’t actually describe my feelings at the moment, as I only finished the book three minutes ago, but I still have the tears in my eyes now. I wish I could throw my arms round you now, and give you the biggest hug because I feel as though you are one of the greatest people on this entire planet. I would pick the book up and read it again right now, but at this present moment, I can’t face the emotion again. I can relate to quite a bit of Dawn’s life. I keep thinking how, when I was born, she was in college, studying to become a primary teacher, and her troubled past happened before I was born. I am sixteen years old. I have recommended your book to all my friends, family and people I speak to online, and it has changed my outlook on life. I have had a problem with self harm, and I guess I could say it is still ongoing at the moment. I just really wanted to contact you, and let you know that you are an amazing person, and a role model in my life. Bless you Cathy Glass.
Adam L, UK, 05/09/2008
Dear Cathy, Like most who have read your books I read with such mixed emotions and you took me on your never ending rollercoaster! I read Hidden in Florida in 2 days (May), Cut in Zante in less than a day (last week) and Damaged in less than one day (yesterday)! I cannot describe how they made me feel. I am just 22 with the ambitions of becoming a child psychologist and I just know I will make a good one. I spent a year working at a senior school especially for children with emotional, social and behavioural disorders. I saw such similarities to how you described the children and young persons you have looked after. I developed strong relationships in that short space but had to leave as the role was not for me. I needed to help these children, not teach them. Reading your books has pushed me to move on from my gap year and pursue my dream career doing what I do best.... helping children. I have said for many years, despite my young age, that I would foster when I am older and I will. You have only made that decision more prominent in my mind. Thank you Cathy.
Laura, UK, 05/09/2008
Dear Cathy, My partner and I are in the process of becoming foster carers and your stories have been a great inspiration to us both. I have read all three of your books and my partner has just read Hidden. This book gripped Dave as no other ever has. We have been given a great insight into the life stories of each of the children in your books. It is sad that the courts can be so easily mislead by underhanded people like Tayo’s mother, and that the Social Services cannot always have any impact on these situations. I think that society in Great Britain should start to sit up and take notice that our children need a stronger network of support. We are at the start of our journey in becoming foster carers, and we hope that we can give the same support and care that you have shown over the years to your foster children. We would like to thank you Cathy, from the bottom of our hearts for sharing your experiences with us.
Lynn & Dave P, UK, 03/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I bought your book about a week ago and I couldn't put it down. I think you are an amazing person and no matter what anyone says you have done the best you could with Jodie. The letter that Paula wrote for Jodie surely shows how hard you had worked. I know you must hear this a lot but we need more people like you in this world, and you should become an inspirational speaker as that is how I felt after reading your book. I am inspired to do better and not to let any challenge get in my way. I wish you and your family all the best as you all deserve nothing less. Thanking you.
Tegan, Brisbane, Australia, 03/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I got my birthday wish and both Damaged and Cut have been added to my very small book collection; 3 evenings and Damaged is finished. I've read some of the emails on the website and on the inside of the books and I don't want to be yet another person telling you how wonderful you are because despite what everyone else thinks about you; you probably don't see yourself in the same way. I think you and I are very alike. I too have 2 children of my own and am also a carer but of a different type. I began caring in the community, visiting and assisting a variety of clients ranging from young adults to the elderly. I moved then into residential care for the elderly with a particular interest in caring for those living with dementia. Behavioural issues, incontinence and repetitive conversations all came as part and parcel, and like you I was told over and over again that I had the patience of a saint. My role changed around 3 years ago when I moved into the NHS where I no longer carry out direct care. Now my days are filled mostly with teaching safe handling practices. I don’t get bored because if what I teach can prevent pain and suffering to even just a few people, then it's a job worth doing and I can still consider myself to be a carer. People call us saints for caring for people but we're not saints, we're just ordinary people with a passion. A very strong passion to alleviate unnecessary pain and suffering to other human beings whether it be physical or emotional. I believe that everyone has the ability to 'care', many have the compassion for care and then there are those who possess a real 'passion and desire' to make that difference. You dear Cathy, are no ordinary 'saintly' foster carer, you are also in your wonderful writings a teacher. Care and compassion isn't something that can be taught in a classroom, it comes from within the individual but I believe you have a fantastic way of bringing that care and compassion out of those who have it lost beneath the surface. When I read Hidden I was there in those rooms like a fly on the wall with you all the way, in reality that's probably how you felt when those awful disclosures came out. I'm going to try to leave Cut on the bookshelf for a few days before I start reading again but I don't hold out much hope, I suspect that by Monday that will be finished too. Best wishes to you and yours.
Tracy, 03/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I’ve just bought your book Hidden and wow how you foster so many children. You are a true angel to these children. I can’t believe what they have been through or how you get then to beat all the odds. I work with children and I find it hard as we have some cases which upset me, but I know we care. Thank you
Kelly, 03/09/2008
Hello Cathy, I first read your book Damaged just over a year ago. After Damaged I was soon looking out for more of your books. I have recommended your books to my friends and they have all said how moving they are, neither me or my friends had a dry eye at the end. I am now starting to think about what I would like do in the future as this will be my last year at school. Having read your books I would like to go into child care and help look after children who have had a bad experience of life and help them have a better future. Thanks again Cathy for your inspiration,
Becky, 15, Derbyshire, 03/09/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read your book, 'Damaged', and just finished ‘Cut’. Neither of them I could put down, they were great. You must have patience of a saint and a very very understanding person. I am about to read 'Hidden' and am looking forward to reading your future books. Keep them coming Cathy, you are fantastic.
Joanne, Manchester, UK, 02/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Cut, and I found it one of your best books yet and loved every bit of it. My heart goes out to Dawn and hope she is well, she is a very brave person and deserves the best in life. I thought your book was very emotional especially at the end, but I don’t like good byes so that’s probably just me Lol. When I read your last sentence that goes out to Dawn I hope she does read your book and sees that you still care and haven't forgotten her. I wish my foster carer had been like you, but I appreciate I have a much better social worker then Dawn’s. I didn't think much of Ruth I thought she could have done her job so much better, and hope she still isn't a social worker! I hope you are writing more of your books I look forward to them coming out in the shops. I have just finished school and hope to become a foster carer or child minder. I hope I could be as successful as you, but I don’t know if I could cope as well with children’s problems, as I think the emotion would get the better of me. But maybe after my childhood experience I may be able to help in some ways. I do hope you have more books on the way and thank you for sharing your stories.
Kirsty, UK, 02/09/2008
Hi Cathy I have just finished reading Damaged all in 2 days as I couldn’t put the book down!!! You’ll be surprised to know that I don’t read books that often. But there were a few times when I thought to myself can I really read anymore of this as it angered me so much that this could happen to this innocent little girl. I have 2 nieces around Jodie’s age and the thought of that happening to a child so young really scares me, as I am only 23 I am still learning how evil people in this world can be. I know this type of thing goes on all over the world and many unlike Jodie’s case ever get brought to light and those children suffer through their whole lives at the hands of these animals. There are no words to describe these people and I hope they rot in hell. But also Cathy there are no words to describe you either, guardian angel came to my mind but that is an understatement. You are 1 in a million and anyone who reads this book will see that. With Jodie’s previous relationships with other carers doomed you could have easily handed her back just as quick as they did but instead you stuck with your heart and helped this little girl who was for oblivious reasons a little tearaway but to me that seemed to make you more determined to help her. And your children are stars too for their help and patience while Jodie was in your care. You truly should be proud of yourself. You, your children and Jodie are heroes. I hope Jodie is getting better and that one day she can put all this behind her. Thanks again for this brilliant book. You truly are 1 in a million. All my love
Sarah, 01/09/2008
Hi Cathy, I am a 21 year old single mother of a 2 year old daughter. I picked up your book Damaged in the supermarket, and wow! A good read was an understatement. I know what it's like to have a childhood like Jodie’s and I can relate to the girl in a lot of ways. The only difference is I never had social services or a trustworthy adult like you to help me out. Then I got addicted. As bad and detailed as Damaged was I couldn't put it down because it brought back some of my own personal memoirs. I then went on to read Cut and Hidden. It's taken me at least 5 years to find someone other than Stephen king or Diana Gabaldon to read! I just wanted to say thank you for being there for Jodie and other girls/boys like her. Without you and your 3 children I can’t bare to think where she would be today. I got off drugs and drink by myself and out of a violent prostitution ring, then I fell pregnant with my daughter. I tried my hardest every day to fight for me and her so I won’t slip back into my old life. Two years later I’ve done well to keep us alive on my own. But knowing people like you aren't just a myth lets me rest easier. Thank you Cathy .
Leigh, 21, UK, 31/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I read your book Damaged and I fell in love with it. It was amazing. I don't know how anyone could write a book with so many emotions and with so much detail. I ended up going and buying your other book Cut. I've had a life which hasn't been perfect as I've been affected with mental health issues myself and my mum and sister have been affected with it. Reading your books, really made me think. I realized there are other people with these emotions. I was shocked to read that a child at the age of Jodie's, could know so many things, and do harm to her self. You have inspired me and my future so much. I dream of becoming a child psychologist and having a loving husband with three or four children of my own. But reading your book has made me want to foster when I'm older too. I never knew how much one person could inspire me so much, but you have. I will look forward to reading you other book. Take care
Jessica W, 30/08/2008
Hi, I’m 14 years old and I want to be a social worker or a foster carer. I have just finished reading Damaged! It is the Best book I have ever read. It took me just over 2 days to read and I was so inspired how you helped Jodie and gave her all the love and care any human could possibly give You are my role model. I want to be just like you and help all the poor children out there that are going through so much pain and suffering. And if I could do exactly what you have done for these children then I will be so happy! I love Kids and can’t bear to see them hurting. You’re an inspiration to everyone!
Jessica G, 14, 30/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I don't know what to say but thank you. It has opened my eyes into what fostering is all about - the children. You have such great strength and I have been thinking about fostering for a long time now because I can not have children of my own. I read your book about Jodie in Damaged and it has inspired me to help others that are in need. I have made a start by helping people I meet on the street that need some where to sleep out of the rain. I help my friends and other people that don't have anywhere to sleep and make sure they have something to eat. I am only young myself and it hasn’t been easy. I have seen things I shouldn't have seen or heard or been involved in, but I'm still here willing to look after others. Thank you again for your knowledge and courage. Bless you and good luck
Natalie, Australia, 30/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read all three of your books and I can truly say that they are amazing. You tell the story with so much emotion, I do not know how you can go through reliving those memories again. I really felt for Jodie, and these books are making people aware that things like this do really happen. I have just finished Cut and as I say it is making people aware that there are children out there with these problems. There should be more people willing to help. I can not wait for your next book to come out. Once I start reading them I can’t put them down. I just want to read on forever. I am 18 years old and it upsets me to think that there are things like this happening to children a lot lot younger then me. Thank you so very much for writing these books and I am looking forward to reading your next book. Also thank you for making me aware of the things going on in this world.
Kayley W, Newcastle, UK, 29/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just returned from holiday during which I read your book "Damaged". I do not read very often but I could not put this book down. Whilst you do hear about cases like Jodie's in the papers and on the news reading it was much more real, and I could not believe what I was reading. I am a mother myself of two children - a boy aged 11 and a girl aged 7. I cannot begin to understand why anyone could treat their own child or any child in this disgusting and appalling way. I found that whilst reading this book that I experienced all sorts of emotions. Most of all I feel that you are a truly magnificent person and you should be awarded some sort of medal for the care and love that you showed to that poor child.
Jackie, UK, 29/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I have now read all 3 of your books and they are all fantastic. It amazes me how well you cope with each and every situation the children you have fostered throw at you. Also with having children of your own it must have been extremely difficult at times! When I read the part where Dawn phoned you at the end of Cut it brought tears to my eyes. I think it was really sweet of her to give you a call to let you know how she is doing. I hope she reads the book and gets in touch with you again. And I'm glad to hear that Jodie is doing well! Please keep writing these fantastic stories as I'm sure, like myself, people can't wait for the next one to come out (just wish we didn’t have to wait so long!). Anyway….keep up the great work!
Jennifer R, Portsmouth, UK, 29/08/2008
I have just finished reading Damaged. I have got to say how upsetting it was to read the effects that long term abuse has on a child. I work in education with children who are on the ‘at risk register’ and hope that they don't get the raw deal that Jodie got from the Social Services. Keep up the amazing work, I only hope there are more caring foster carers out there.
Danielle, UK, 29/08/2008
Morning Cathy, after reading your book Hidden I was very moved and just felt I had to let you know what a wonderful person I think you are. I have read a lot of these true story books but I think yours was by far the best read yet. It was nice to hear the story from a different side and not from the victim. I am dying to read Damaged. You write in a way that makes it easy to follow and you can just picture everything bit by bit. I have also read your blog from start to finish and am stunned at the number of people with childhoods similar to your books. This is a very scary thought as I have a little girl and will do everything in my power to make sure she has a civil and happy upbringing like I had with rules and routines and plenty of love.
Lyndsey, UK, 29/08/2008
Dear Cathy, My mother was a welfare officer and I wanted desperately to follow in her footsteps. She always said to me it is a very emotional job and you can easily get involved, and after reading Damaged and Hidden I have realised how true that is. I love your books and your stories, please keep them coming. I am eager to read them all. Damaged made me cry at the end. You are a very talented lady who changes lives for the better and also changes the thoughts of those reading your books. Keep it up and thank you for changing the way I see foster children and those children who do need help.
Rachael, Australia, 28/08/2008
Hi Cathy, just wanted to say couldn’t wait for my holiday to read Cut, instead I annoyed the other half and I read it all evening. Thank god times have changed since Cut and I hope people get more support now from social services etc. It was a really good read Cathy and I can’t wait for the next book. Well done I'm sure it will be just as successful as the other two. Hope you are well.
Keeley, UK, 28/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading the book Damaged, and I have felt every emotion possible. You did so well where others failed. I am sure others that read your book will admire the strength and courage you showed in helping the child. I read the book and felt great admiration for your courage in making the future for this girl possible. Kindest regards
Grace S, UK, 28/08/2008
Well, I’ve finished Cut! What an amazing story. I have thoroughly enjoyed all 3 books now. Dawn’s story was horrific because she was the same age as I am now and I couldn’t possibly imagine what life must have been like for her but the ending is lovely. I felt pleased she had finally settled and moved on. Once again many thanks,
Naomi, UK, 28/08/2008
Cathy, I think you are a truly inspirational woman. I read Damaged and couldn't put it down, it was fantastically written. I have just finished Hidden this morning and I found it truly heart wrenching. Although the story in Damaged was a shock and incredibly disturbing, I feel that the story in Hidden is far more of a concern. I was appalled to discover the number of children who are unknown in this country, and I can't bear to think about the sort of lives they must lead. I have found your stories eye-opening and inspirational, so much so that I have spoken to my husband about fostering - after we have had a family of our own. I teach special needs children and give as much as I can in my profession. I feel that the whole world needs to thank people like you who go out of their way to give love where it is needed most. I cannot wait to read Cut and your future books. Thank you for what you do, you are a credit the human race!
Julie, Aylesbury, UK, 27/08/2008
Just wanted to say how amazing I thought the book "Damaged" was. I loved how honest and true it was, and it has made me want to read your other books.
Amy, 27/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just put down Hidden and my eyes are still swollen from tears of joy. I went to go tell my husband the outline of the story but couldn't for sobbing! I have read Damaged - that also touched me, but not as much as Hidden. You are an inspiration to the world of social services. I have got Cut to read yet, and I'm sure I won’t be able to put that down either. Thank you for the insight into the world of forgotten children we don’t often see, and to whom you make such a difference
Kirsty, UK, 26/08/2008