Hi Cathy, I finished reading your book 'Cut' on Wednesday night and I cried my heart out. It's so hard to believe what some unfortunate children go through in their lives at such a young age. I read your first book 'Damaged' while on holidays in June and bought 'Hidden' as soon as I came home. It is quite difficult to comprehend the terrible unimaginable things that some children go through, that it is so common, and many children are without help their whole lives. I am a 21 years old and you have inspired me to foster when I am older, although it seems like an angel's task to complete I want to help children the way you have. I am so fortunate that I had a great childhood and I am grateful to my parents for that. I have given 'Hidden' to my mother to read so I'm sure she will want to read 'Damaged' and 'Cut' afterwards. Thank you for great reading and inspiring other people to do the Saints work you do. I look forward to your next book Cathy.
Leanne, N. Ireland, 08/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I emailed you a few weeks ago after I had read 'Damaged', I am only minutes after finishing the final line of Hidden and again it is such a moving story. Different to Damaged but just as brilliant! 'Hidden' turned from being a real life nightmare into a fairytale come true in so many ways! I love reading your books and am definitely going to be buying 'Cut' asap and looking forward to seeing the way it started when you first began fostering. I love seeing how you deal with such challenging situations and somehow you always seem to know the right thing to say. When I read the books I just want to hug you like I would my own mother, be a sibling to your children and to hug and care for the foster children. I feel I can relate to all the 'characters' so to speak! I used to love going to the car boot sales with my mum every Saturday as a child and could just picture Tayo's excitement when you bought him his new possessions and I loved that! I have such admiration for you all and I am so pleased that I am able to tell you this. I hope all is well with you, your family and any latest additions. All the best
Aveen, 21, N. Ireland, 07/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I picked up your book Hidden. I have not read in some years but when I started I could not put it down. It has to be the best book I have ever read. I think you are a very loving and special woman. I don't think any child should have to go through what Tayo did. Can I just say thank you for taking the time to write such a wonderful book, it took my breath away and I'm looking forward to your next. Kind regards
Richard, Ireland, 07/08/2008
Cathy, I would like to tell you how much I enjoyed your books. I'm sure you get e-mails everyday praising your work. I read 'Damaged' on my honeymoon and read it in a few days, and I've bought and read 'Cut' within the last few days. I have 'Hidden' on order and look forward to reading about the little boy. You must feel very proud of all the work you do with each child. I'm sure it must be very rewarding! I am a teacher at the beginning of my career and work with young children. You have taught me a lot about children's experiences and how they cope with it and of course how the adult can help -whether it's the parent, social services, foster care or education system. Thank you very much for this. I look forward to reading more of your work in the future. I hope Dawn has been back in touch - either to visit or phone you. If she hasn't been in touch then I'm sure she has moved on but will remember you and your help and support forever, as each of your foster children will. You will mean a lot to each of them! Thanks again
Donna, Scotland, UK, 06/08/2008
Congratulations on dealing with and helping Tayo. I read Damaged first and I was really inspired, and actually cried, from the hurt Jodie came into contact with. Great job, you are one in a million, I send my best wishes to her and hope she grows to be a beautiful woman. After reading Damaged I had to read Hidden. I bought it the next day and have just finished reading it. Your books really made me feel I knew Tayo and Jodie, and also your family. You and your family deserve congratulations. I look forward to more books and please pass my wishes to both Tayo and Jodie. What an inspiration you are. Thank you.
Toni N, Australia, 06/08/2008
I am a foster carer myself and mum to daughters the same age as Jodie & Tayo. I can empathise with your anger & frustration in dealing with parents who neglect & destroy their children and the bureaucracy within the Social Work dept. Also the immense joy and satisfaction of making a difference to children's lives and breaking the ongoing and sad cycle of bad parenting. Thank you for raising awareness of the wonderful and positive impact carers children have on looked after children. They often get overlooked by us (not to mention the social wk dept) due to the daily demands of fostering and have to ride the emotional roller coaster too. Everyone who reads your books should learn from the dreadful mistakes of others and realise Child Protection is everyone's business and act upon any concerns. It would have saved Jodie & Tayo from years of torture and could stop it happening to millions of others. You are an inspiration to me and I'm sure everybody else who reads your books!
Lindsay, Scotland, UK, 06/08/2008
Dearest Cathy, I have finished reading Damaged and my heart goes to you, your three wonderful children, and Jodie. The generosity of your children is amazing. I would like to help Jodie in some way. I read in your book that Jodie has a bank account. Can I send some money every month to Jodie's account so that I can do my small part in helping her. I hope she will be happy again. Money is not everything I know but I would like to help Jodie. I am an average working girl but I will like to contribute a little for Jodie.
Andrea, Singapore, 06/08/2008
CG: Dear Andrea, thank you so much for your very generous offer to send money to Jodie, but it would be very difficult for her to understand where the money had come from. It could cause her a problem to receive a gift from someone she doesn't know. I hope you understand. Can I suggest you make a small contribution to a children's charity instead ? I know other readers have done similar and on my website are the names of some charities I have contributed to. Thanks again. Cathy x
06/08/2008
Hello Cathy, I purchased Hidden yesterday and started to read it last night and I am unable to put it down at the moment. I have just got to the part where Tayo has all his new clothes and you cannot quite work out what is going on in his head. What a wonderful job you are doing and I know you have to be made of special mettle to do this work and those who have never done it do not realise how emotional this line of work is and how it takes its toll on you. But, having said that, it sounds as though you gain a great deal of satisfaction from having helped these unfortunate children. Unfortunately, my hubby and I could not have any children. We would have loved to have had just one child to share our love with. What we find even sadder is that we will never know what it is like to have grandchildren. We are both surrounded by lots of nieces, nephews, great nieces and nephews but it is not the same as having children or grandchildren and we feel like there is a great gap in our lives. Having said that, we didn't feel that we could have been good foster parents and didn't consider adopting as I personally do not think you could have the same bond with an adopted child as you would with a birth child although the love for them would be unconditional. Anyway, I look forward to finishing Hidden and to reading your other books. Keep up the good work Cathy, without people like you the world would be a much crueller and sadder place.
Val C, UK, 06/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book 'Damaged'. It is very upsetting that a child could have been treated the way Jodie was. But thanks to your dedication and determination there could be hope. After wiping the tears from my eyes, and finishing the book I am looking at purchasing your other books. Thank you ever so much for the insight to a life like Jodie's, it opens your eyes to just how lucky some people are.
Kayleigh, Lincolnshire, UK, 05/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I wrote before about your book Damaged. I started reading Hidden on Saturday afternoon and had finished in less than 24hours. I could not put it down! I could not believe how fast I had finished it. Tayo was such a polite and sweet little boy. I felt so sorry for him when his mother kept letting him down. I was so happy at the end of the book I was actually crying. Not sad tears but happy ones for Tayo. I was feeling sorry for your family having to let such a sweet boy go, but its one of those things. I have to say what a wonderful woman you are and what a fantastic family you have. I hope all is well with you and your family and also Tayo and Jodie. I can't wait to read your next book, Cut. Take care all my love to you and your family
Melody, Edinburgh Scotland, UK, 05/08/2008
Both me and my mum have read your books Damaged and Hidden, and although they are heartbreaking they are really good books. It only took us 2 days to read each of the books when it normally takes about 2 weeks to read any book. Can't wait for your next book, Cut, buying it tonight.
Debbie and Jan, UK, 05/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading "Damaged" and "Hidden", and I am amazed at you and your children's love and patience for the children you have taken care of. I am currently heavily pregnant with my first child and not being able to move much has given me a lot of free time. I bought both Damaged and Hidden 2 days ago and could not put them down until they were complete. My fiancé and I are wanting to become foster carers a little later on down the track so when I came across your books I knew I just had to read them. After reading your stories I have become more passionate about one day fostering myself and hoping I can do half as good of a job as you do. Thank you for sharing your amazing experiences with the world.
Tania, Australia, 04/08/2008
Well, I was about to lose all faith I ever had in foster carers/social services etc until I read your books. I experienced similar things as to what happened to Jodie. Although not as severe by all foster carers I got called a nuisance and a trouble maker. I now know that is called post traumatic stress. I just wanted to email to say thank you for doing such a good job. I am so glad Jodie is getting help now.
Vicky, 17, UK, 03/08/2008
Hi Cathy, I just wanted to write to you to remind you what a fantastic writer you are. I have read both of your books up to now and they are really good. I'm just 14 but both me and my mum have read them and we agree that they are fantastic, my mum almost cried when she read "Hidden". I hold my hand up to hard working foster carers, like you, because even though your job can be hard at times you do it very well, because you care. I'm waiting for my next book to be delivered "Cut" I can't wait to read that one. As soon as I heard it was out I rushed on line to find when and where I could get it from. I ordered it and it's on it's way. Thank you for all the well written books.
Jess, 14, UK, 03/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished 'Hidden', what an amazing story. I am typing with a lump in my throat. I am still in shock from the attitude of Tayo's mother, and after reading Hidden will certainly not be naive about the goings on around the UK. Your last statement in the Epilogue about there being over 1 million children unregistered in the UK! You are one in a million Cathy. I haven't read 'Damaged' but it will be the next book I purchase. Thanks for an eye opening read, I couldn't put it down. The world would be a better place if there were more Cathy Glass's in it.
Kelly, 03/08/2008
Dear Cathy, It is 2.10am here in Australia and I have just finished reading Damaged. Years ago I would have found it difficult to imagine how hard it is for kids like Jodie, until 18 months ago. My son was indecently assaulted by a friend of the family. With big changes in himself and his behaviour it is hard to deal with. Now I can understand how it is for kids, and it seems to be happening more and more all over the world. When these things happen the whole family suffers. Your book was more of an eye opener, than what I had experienced with my son. I couldn't believe that poor Jodie was left that long before being taken from her parents. Look forward to reading Hidden, and more of your books when they become available here in Australia. Thank you for caring for Jodie and many more kids like her. Thank you to your children, Adrian, Paula, and Lucy, for being so supportive.
Lorraine, Australia, 03/08/2008
Amazing.......I read the book Hidden while on my breaks at work -picking it up while we were quiet. It is an eye opener to what a lot of poor children have to go through. But there is a light at the end of the tunnel for some of them -thanks to Cathy, her patience, and heart-warming welcome. Just bought Damaged and Cut so I have a couple of days good heart wrenching reading to do.
Dawn, Felixstowe, UK, 03/08/2008
Hi Cathy, Well, what can I say. I have just finished reading "Hidden" after previously reading "Damaged". I was in foster care from the age of 7 until 18. The love and commitment you show to your foster children is something for you to be very proud of. I think it should be mandatory for prospective foster parents and prospective adoptive parents to read your books. I also think social work students should read them. There is no looking through the rose tinted glasses, you tell it as it is, which is refreshing. I have ordered your book "Cut" which is on its way in the post and shall most probably read every book you publish! Keep doing what you are doing. Education is needed and you are giving it through these books. Bless you Cathy.
Collette, UK, 03/08/2008
I picked up your book Damaged on Monday 26th of July and I didn't go to bed that night. What a truly heartbreaking story. I work in a primary school and have to deal with abuse of children. I personally have doubts about social services, but what a wonderful woman you are. I don't think I have ever cried as much than when I was reading this. If it wasn't for people like you this world would be a much sadder place. God bless you.
Tracy, UK, 02/08/2008
First of all I'd like to congratulate Tayo in returning to where he belongs and the effort put into making that happen. Secondly I don't think there are the right words in the English language to explain what a fantastic woman u are. Your family and the children who come to you are very lucky. It makes a change to read a book of this nature. You have obviously been put on this earth to do this job as you seem to put your heart into it and it shows. Looking forward to your other books
Sam, UK, 01/08/2008
I have just read Damaged - what a wonderful book, I couldn't put it down. I am going to pass the book on to others. Having been foster parents and now adoptive parents I understand a little of what you are doing. Looking forward to reading Hidden.
Barbara T, UK, 01/08/2008
Dear Cathy, I just finished reading your book Damaged. I don't even know what to say. I felt like taking a baseball bat to those people that hurt Jodie so badly. It is so sad how kids fall through the system. You really amaze me though!! The courage you have and all the patience for all these kids. We need more people in the world like you. I think people who rape and molest should be given a death sentences, since they kill the future of the ones they hurt.
Denise B, 31/07/2008
Hiya Cathy, I've not read a book in years as I have 3 young children and don't get the chance. I bought Hidden and thought I would read it if I got the chance. I couldn't put it down and read it in 2 nights. It was gripping - you just had to know how Tayo progressed. I'm so glad he got the life he deserved. Without people like you that accept children into their home and provide love and security, there would be a lot more children harmed and would slip through the net. I'm looking forward to reading all your other books. Keep up the hard work
Lindsey R, Cheshire, UK, 31/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I had to email you again. After much anticipation I got my copy of Hidden, and it was well worth the wait, I read the book in a day!! And what an ending, it bought tears to my eyes. I had a lump in my throat whilst reading about Tayo's dad. The emotion you put into words was unbelievable, I could actually feel how everyone felt at the time. You truly are an amazing author along with being such a caring person. My partner actually now rolls his eyes at me as I have read and reread both books so often, (in fact I started Damaged again last night!). They are the type of books that never lose the feeling that first time of reading them!! I am eagerly awaiting the release of Cut as I know it will be just as good. Hope you and your family are all ok
Ellen, UK, 31/07/2008
Hi, I have been reading your book Damaged, and I felt I was in the story with you and Jodie. It's like I feel Jodie's pain and what she went through. It was really interesting and I found it hard to put it down. I'm only 17 and when I was 15 I went through a lot of things. I was thinking of writing my book.
Emma, 17, North London, UK, 30/07/2008
Hello Cathy, I have read both Damaged and Hidden (can't wait to read "Cut"), and they were both very moving. I truly admire you and your work and really enjoy reading your books. I take my hat off to you Cathy. Keep up the good work.
Sammy, UK, 30/07/2008
Hi, I am 21 years old and have just finished reading Damaged, I read it all in one day, I just couldn't put it down. I can't stop crying right now, the story is so heartbreaking, painful but also enlightening. I could feel your pain when you finally left Jodie at High Oak. I have read the update about Jodie on your web page and I am delighted. I am sad she can't be with you but I don't think she would even be where she is today if it wasn't for you. You're an astonishing person as is your family and Jodie. I am also so delighted you didn't stop fostering, I am sure you will touch many more hearts, not only through fostering but through your writings. Your kids must be so proud of you and vice versa; they were very supportive. I have mental ill health with depression, borderline personality disorder, an eating disorder and I also tried to take my life earlier this year. It is only people like you who don't give up that really help to make a difference in the lives of the "damaged". Thankfully I have a very good social worker. I was abused in an isolated incident as a very young child (under 4 years old) and I am only trying to face it now. After reading your book about Jodie I realised if she can be strong enough then I definitely can. I am glad of the opportunity to tell you how much the book has meant to me and moved me. You gave a great insight into fostering, the social services, and awareness of sexual abuse. The most important part was knowing that it's not all negative and that there is light at the end of the tunnel! I am definitely going to purchase Hidden and Cut asap! Thank you for being a wonderful person on this planet, I couldn't respect anyone more!
Aveen, N.Ireland, 30/07/2008
Dear Cathy, A friend lent me a copy of your book 'Hidden' and before I had finished reading the first few pages I bought a copy of my own. What struck me most was the way you were able to recognise the child's need to be loyal to his parent, although she was the one who was neglecting him (to put it mildly). I was born in 1947, and in those days child abuse was more or less overlooked. I lived with the constant threat of violence from a drunken father. When he was killed one night, all I could feel was relief that he had gone. My mother became ill and died 18 months later, so I was placed in a foster home. Unfortunately, there were no social workers paying visits, nor anyone keeping an eye on things. This was not in Britain, by the way. I left that home as soon as I was able, and came to live in Britain. I now have a large, happy family of my own. Reading 'Hidden' was an eye-opener, because I always thought that having such mixed feelings about one's natural parents must have meant there was something lacking in me. I also felt that I must have been a very unlovable person or my mother would have done something to stop the beatings. I have ordered a copy of 'Damaged', which should arrive soon, and I am definitely going to get Cut too. Best of luck in all your work,
Elizabeth, UK, 30/07/2008
Dear Cathy & Family, I have just finished reading Hidden and I really enjoyed it. You had me in tears at the end of the book. I also read Damaged and I couldn't put that down either. What you and your family go through every time you look after a foster child is something really special. To see how you all have a hand in changing that child is amazing. I can't wait to read your next book Cut. Cathy, you and your family are an inspiration for me to do better and more with my child. If I can do half as well as you do with the children you foster and your own I will be very pleased.
Ruth, Borehamwood, UK, 30/07/2008
Speechless - that's how I felt last night when I finishing the last chapter of Damaged. Cathy, your sheer commitment and dedication to the children that you welcome into your lives. I couldn't read the pages for tears flowing down my face. The relief that Jodie finally felt safe within your arms after all the unimaginable pain she suffered. Also the great sadness you must have felt packing her things, an even greater relief that because of all your efforts those beings who committed the horrific crime were dealt with. Great to have read an update on Jodie's fantastic progress and I'm sure you will always remain a special person in Jodie's life.
Louise, UK, 29/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I took your book, Hidden, on holiday with me to Italy hoping to read it all through my holiday, but finished it on the first day. It is the most amazing book I have ever read. I even told all my family to read it, and they agreed with me. I was in tears at the end. It just shows what some children go through and that nobody realises, because they're here illegally, so they're not seen, so nobody can help them. I was so touched by your book and I can't wait to read the rest of your books. Your book is so inspirational to everyone.
Ellie, Wales, 29/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I am a social worker with experience as a case manager working for people with intellectual disabilities, for children living in foster care and for kids with mental illness. A client's mother gave me your first book, Damaged, to read. I cannot express how much the story moved me, not so much the trauma as I have heard stories like this many times, but of the courage, compassion and love you and your family continued to provide this extremely damaged young lady who had the potential to turn your world upside down. Today I finished reading your second book, Hidden. I cried so much at the end I could barely read the final words. It was so heart warming to hear a story like this finish with such a brilliantly positive ending.......so rare indeed. How blessed you are to have played such an important role in young Tayo's life, it's like you were handed a reward for all the hardship you have smiled and loved through. You and your family are like many of the foster care families I worked with - such amazingly warm and loving people who deserve so much recognition, but never ask for it, and indeed push it away when it is given. I admire you and salute you.
Sharon, Australia. 29/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I would just like to tell you your books are wonderful. I've read Damaged and have been truly affected and cried in the end. I just finished reading Hidden and can't wait to read Cut. Your way of writing gets through to the heart and soul of a person; you've made us (readers) aware of what is going on in the world behind closed doors. I'm from Bahrain, a small country next to Saudi Arabia where there are no foster parents to take care of those who are abused by their biological parents and need a place to stay. But thank God there are places and services who look after and help children who are in need. You've inspired me to become a foster parent when I'm old enough to take care of children. I'm turning nineteen soon and hopefully when I'm married I'll start my foster care at my own house. I love children and I'm studying Education at university in Bahrain where they teach us all about the development of a child and how a secure environment is the most important thing for a child to function normally. Thanks to you for opening our eyes to those who need us, and for making us aware of how abuse can turn to such trauma in a person's life. Again, I thank you for all you've done and I'm looking forward to reading your upcoming stories.
Muneera, 19, Bahrain, 28/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just read the most amazing book in my life - "Damaged". I cannot even start to explain how this little girl's life has erupted my emotions and the sadness that I am feeling right now. I started reading the book yesterday and did not put it down until I had finished. While reading this book there were times where I literally wanted to vomit for these animals revolted me and I could not comprehend how they could do this to Jodie. The way you have put pen to paper and told her story, and your journey from when she entered your life was unbelievable. You captured my mind, I felt like I was a part of this, by the emotions that you stirred in me. I come from a very loving family and have 2 children of my own so this story is so hard for me to take in - that there are bastards in this world that do this. I am seriously considering fostering. I have a wonderful supportive family with plenty of love to go around so that has to be a good start. Thank you for awaking my spirit.
Donna, Australia, 26/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read Damaged in two days. I was so drawn in to the book, I simply had to finish it. I have just started the ball rolling, to learn more about fostering, which is something that has been in the back of my mind for a few years. Your book was so inspiring, it made me take that step towards helping the "forgotten" children in our society. I am about to buy your other books for more inspiration, and guidance. You truly are an amazing person, and your family should be very proud of you.
Cathleen, UK, 26/07/2008
Hi. I am just letting u know I have read your books Damaged and Hidden. They were both first class and I can't wait to read Cut. You are an amazing person - the way you handled Minty and looked after Tayo. I have given my daughter both books. She has read Damaged and was upset, but I have told her she will enjoy Hidden as it is a happy book. My son was 23 yesterday and he is my life as is my daughter, I would be lost with out him. Things were not easy when they were growing up but they never went without. Your family sound wonderful. Hope one day u all get out 2 c that wee guy as he has a place in my heart. Give him my Iove, and your family as well.
Dell, 26/07/2008
I read Damaged in 2 days and have just finished reading Hidden. It is beyond my comprehension how any human being can treat anyone, let alone their own flesh and blood, the way these children were treated. They were both lucky to be placed with you and find out exactly what the parent/child relationship should be like. Your children are also very special individuals and that can only be attributed to the parenting they received. It's one in the eye for all those who say single parents scrounge off the state and are not good role models. I am now anxiously awaiting the release of Cut. Cathy you are a gem and deserve all the good things life has to offer. Good luck to you and yours
Kim, 26/07/2008
Hello Cathy, I have read your books Damaged and Hidden. I think you must be sent from god for the work you do. Please keep on doing it. I was abused by my dad from a baby up till I was 16. I then went out and got pregnant and married, to get away from him. He has since died as has my mother, whom I am sure knew about the abuse. I have been married and divorced two times and one relationship that lasted 10 years. I have 3 daughters and 3 sons and have made sure they have had a good and stable life. I now have14 grandchildren who are my success story. I have never had anyone I could talk to and I know you won't mind me telling you all this. Thank you for all your hard work on behalf of all the people you have helped.
Pat, Leeds, UK, 26/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I received Damaged just 2 days ago and have finished it already. I was appalled as I imagine you were and every other person who read it. Just wanted to say you do a great job and you are a very special person. These children are so lucky to have known you as are your own 3 children who again are very special individuals. I hope Jodie is well and I wish her every success for a rosy future. Thrilled to hear you have a new book Cut out in August.
Debbie, Nottingham, UK, 25/07/2008
I have just finished reading Damaged I could not put it down, Cathy you are an amazing woman who did reach this little girl's soul. I cannot believe that any parent could put a child through the torture that Jodie suffered. She has touched my heart and I wish her love and happiness. I hope the family she is going to will have the patience, understanding and love that you and your children have shown her. I am glad that in this world there are people like you that can reach out to a troubled soul and help them through the darkness into the light. Thank you for sharing Jodie's story God Bless you all
Janine D, Australia, 25/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read your books Damaged and Hidden. It has really touched my heart. You are such a great person and role model. I admire you as a person and the help and support you are giving to others and your family are really endless. You have opened my eyes to so many things in life and I hope that I would also be able to make a difference in someone's life along the line. I wish you all the best in the future and can't wait for your next book to hit the shelves. Please do not stop writing as you are really good in what you are doing. You are a really wonderful person, and I am glad to have come across your books. Regards,
Jacoline J, UK, 24/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I love your books they are wicked! I can't wait 4 Cut.
Rene, 23/07/2008
Hi Cathy, How are you? Hope you're well. I found myself reading Damaged again today. It's making its way round our team. It never ceases to shock me. I don't have any children of my own and working in this fostering team, I'm fairly familiar with the kinds of children that are taken into the care system; but I've already decided that I'd like to try fostering one day. It seems such a worthwhile thing to do.
Christina, Herts, UK, 23/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book about Jodie - Damaged. When my sister told me about this book, I knew that I had to read it. It was the most horrifying book I have ever read, but I couldn't put it down. It's disgusting to know that these things happen every day and to find out that a parent could do such horrible things to their own children. I have two children and cannot see how anybody could want to harm their children in that way, no matter how hard it is looking after them. One thing I remember thinking throughout reading the book, was how much patience you have. I could never have managed like you did - not in a million years. I hope Jodie is getting better and better with each day. If I came face to face with a man like Jodie's father, I would probably want to kill him with my bare hands. Cathy, you have done an amazing job and of course Paula, Lucy and Adrian who seem to be such understanding children. My heartfelt thanks
Wendy, South Africa, 22/07/2008
I have read both Damaged and Hidden and I could not put them down. I could not believe how a human being can be treated like Jodie was, especially by her own parents. I would have given anything to have my own child but I did adopt which was the best day of my life. I will never understand how people can just throw away their children. Then you have Tayo whose mother (if you want to call her that) just used him for her own habits of drinking and drugs. He was just a little boy that loved her and felt responsible for her but should never have had that responsibility, she should have taken care of him. Cathy I commend you, without people like you where would these children be. I know there are a lot of children out there going through these same things but at least a few are being saved.
Cecile M, 22/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Damaged and I am so overwhelmed. I could not believe the things this poor little girl went through, especially at the hands of her own parents! My Gran told me about your books. I'm just about to start reading Hidden and will definitely be going out to get your new book Cut. I think you are a fantastic woman and mum and foster carer. I know what the system is like as they have let my family down. I was not abused like Jodie but both my parents were and still are drug addicts. I had to fend for myself when I was younger. I had to cook and clean and wash my own clothes. I don't remember when it started but I know I was very young. I remember sometimes when I came home from primary school that my mum and dad were both sleeping. I would have to sit so close to the TV that my nose was touching the TV. I started to skip school and was always at children's court and every time they would leave me with my parents. I did get a social worker but really did not do anything to help. I did eventually end up going to live with my Gran but when my parents lied and said they were better I got sent home to them and things were just the same. I had to grow up so quickly I feel that I lost my childhood. My Gran is the best person in my life and without her I don't know where I would be today. I am now 20 years old and have got my own flat and am at college doing hairdressing and also work in a salon. If it was not for people like you and my Gran I don't know where kids like me and Jodie would be today. You are such a wonderful person and a credit to foster carers. When I'm a little bit older I would like to foster myself and would like to think I would do a great job like you. All my love to your family and thanks again
Melody, Edinburgh, UK, 21/07/2008
Hi Cathy. A friend recommended your books to me. I first read Damaged and was so overwhelmed I couldn't put the book down - needless to say a lot of my housework was neglected in the very short time it took me to read it. When I found your other book "Hidden" I couldn't wait to start reading and again I couldn't put it down. I have read thousands of books in my lifetime and many with very very sad true stories of terrible childhoods and stories of people involved in forced marriages, kidnaps etc. but this is the first time I have been moved to tears over a book. I have such admiration for you Cathy and from the minute I began to read your books I felt like I was one of your family, I felt I knew you so well. I work with adults with dementia/alzheimers and I know it takes a special sort of person to work with people less fortunate than ourselves, but I take my hat off to you for your kindness, patience and understanding and not forgetting the huge amount of love you give these children. Please don't stop writing, I'm sure you must have lots and lots of stories about the children that you have fostered over the years. I am so looking forward to your next book "Cut" and am keeping on top of my housework now so I will be ready for it. I know I am not alone when I say I love your books and your style of writing. I hope you and your family are all well and wish you all every happiness for your futures.
Ann S, Cheshire, UK, 19/07/2008
I finished your book Damaged in 5 hours, I just couldn't put it down. I actually cried, partially due to happiness for your well earned success but mainly because of the tragic events poor Jodie suffered. I just couldn't imagine what it must have been like. The book is fabulous though! My friend (Christie) has just finished Hidden and I am about to start that too. I hope films are made of the books. All the best in the future and many thanks.
Naomi-Jade, UK, 18/07/2008
I am currently reading Damaged and it's possibly the first book I have read which has made me feel physically sick - the disturbing actions of this child, through the abuse of her parents, and people around her. I honestly, want to hug this girl. I don't know what happens in the end, and my eyes have been fixed on the words of this book for the past 3 days. I'm very soon going to be purchasing Hidden & Cut. I have a great admiration for you Cathy & I don't know anyone who would be able to put up with a child with the dysfunctions she had. I've just finished a two year course in Psychology. I read about one girl who was deprived of her parent's protection and love, strapped to a toilet seat for extremely long time periods, and barely fed. Luckily she was found but her learning was halted, and once past 4 years old it's extremely difficult to go back to re learn. I've never had a book effect me so much as Damaged, and that's because we see the ordeal you went through and the most amazing writing. I think the fact this is a true story made me realise this does happen, and not enough is getting done about it.
Tracey A, UK, 17/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I feel I have to write to you again and tell you I have just finished reading "Hidden". I am amazed at the things that some children go through in their lives and how you and your family welcome these children. This book is a great contrast to Jodie's story in "Damaged". You tell their heartbreaking stories so well, I can picture every detail. You have a truly wonderful family and you do a terrific job with these children. Thanks again
Sharon, UK, 17/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I don't often read books, I lose concentration half way through, but I just couldn't put down Damaged .I just wanted to tell you how I admire you, your patience and the strength you showed Jodie. What an amazing woman you are. I broke down in tears when I read that Jodie had left you a note (actually I cried lots throughout the book). What an amazing hidden bond she shared with your children although she didn't recognize it at the time. And what amazing kids you have too. They didn't give up on her either. My sister was sexually abused and I know from her that it will never go away. I just cannot understand why anyone could hurt or abuse their child or any child come to that. One thing I could relate to was having a child with behavioural problems. I have a 13 yr old son who is ADHD/ASD so I know how hard it is. I also know what it is like to be stared at in public and for other parents to come over and ask " is that your child". So many people judge you by a child. It's their ignorance that hurts. I have had to restrain my child and I have been punched by him several times and he has tried to push me down the stairs. I have seen the anger in his eyes and the rage he cannot control and the frustration he has. But he is my son and I love him, and I know deep down he loves me though he cannot show it because he is on the autistic spectrum. What you did for Jodie was amazing. I did laugh to myself when you mentioned the phone ringing and hoping it wasn't school. I know that feeling too well. I will finish off now by saying thank you for sharing your story with us.
Karen, 16/07/2008
Just finished Damaged & wow! I work with "at risk children" and was myself in foster care for 10 years. I applaud your resilience, patience and commitment. I hope to do the same in my work. As a person who has experienced "the system" first hand - I know there is hope & I'm proof of it. I've had some really crap social workers; but have also had some who genuinely care 4 kids (by simply being consistent & persistent they do make a difference) - I like to count myself in the latter! Well done & thank you.
Jayne, Australia, 16/07/2008
Well what can I say other than that you are one very special lady and I wish you and your family all the very best on your journey through this lifetime. You and your children carry a very special gift from the heart to enable you all to help these very unfortunate foster children and help them all with their broken hearts and to bring some sort of normality back into their lives. Very best wishes
Donna B, Western Australia, 15/07/2008
Hi Cathy. I bought your book, Damaged, and the only time I put it down was when my 4 year old son was home from school. As soon as he was in bed I was in it again until I finished it. It usually takes me months to finish a book but this had me so engrossed I could not stop reading. I have today been out and bought Hidden and am a fair way through already. My grandmother used to foster children and in her time had over a hundred different children. However, none of them had been treated as badly as Jodie. I had tears in my eyes most of the way through and I felt for you. Although I have not met you, I can sense from your writing that you a lovely, warm and caring person who has helped many children and for this I take my hat off to you. I cannot wait to finish Hidden and am looking forward to Cut in August. Hopefully the books will keep coming!!!! Thank you and all the best for the future in writing and helping more children.
Sarah P, 14/07/2008
Thank you is all that can be said xxx
Hayley T, UK, 14/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I read Damaged a while ago and have nearly finished Hidden. I really enjoy your books. I feel as if I know your family and the children you look after. I look forward to reading the other books. Keep up the good work.
Janet, 13/07/2008
Hello Cathy, I have read Damaged and Hidden and found them very good books and also sad to read. Continue doing the work that you do as you help kids to start a new life. You are doing a grand job, keep going.
Toyah, Derby, UK, 13/07/2008
I have just finished reading "Damaged" and would like to say what an incredible person you are. You are truly a gem - one in a million. For your love, kindness, care, perseverance and unselfishness, you are to be applauded. What an inspiration you are to those close to you. I cannot begin to believe what poor Jodie went through. When we sometimes complain about anything, it makes you realize how trivial it is compared to what Jodie went through. It is only through your immense patience and perseverance that Jodie is where she is today. It is great to hear that she is doing well and will be going to a permanent home. I feel as though I know her. I'm looking forward to reading your next book.
Elsa, Australia, 13/07/2008
Hi Cathy I've just finished reading Damaged. Wow I never imagined there could be so much evil in the world and directed to just one human being by the people who were supposed to protect her!! Well done and thank you for sharing your experiences, it must have been so hard for you. I hope Jodie is getting better with each day. It's such a terrible shame, what happened to her has broken her for life! What you did was amazing, you're a real inspiration to me. I too hope to foster a little later on in my life and can only hope to be somewhere near as good at giving the love and care needed as you are.
Louise, UK, 12/07/2008
I have just finished reading Damaged. What an amazing person you are! In my 14+ years as a carer I too have found the same flaws in humanity, both in the parents and in the system that vows to protect these most vulnerable children. Though my experience is very different I have felt similar 'tug of war emotions' and while reading your book I recognised and could relate to the emotions you experienced. The Australian system has finally undergone changes that include LAC and Accumulative Harm. So now children can be monitored after several minor incidents but it does depend on state and federal budgets and the efficiency of the staff in these services. I am blessed with a brilliant social worker that now controls the local adolescent programs,but always has time for me. I have to remind her how fantastic she is cos she forgets!!!! I still sometimes feel like I am banging my head against a brick wall when trying to get things moving for these children. My own kids and foster child are also instrumental in the success of my work with kids. I am so proud of them and wish that they were more recognised and rewarded by the system. In Australia we are considered 'volunteers' and therefore only the expenses of the child are covered, unless the child is so Damaged that $ can be found. We are required to do similar paperwork and attend meetings. In 18 months time when I qualify as a social worker I hope to change this injustice but will be fighting against an established and accepted Australian culture. My work with foster kids has been invaluable. It has opened and enhanced my world. I am truly blessed. I'm glad you are still a carer.
Maureen H, Australia, 12/07/2008
Hi Cathy. Last night I finished reading Hidden. An excellent read. I wanted to put my head into the face of his mother and tell her off for all I was worth!!! I'm telling so many people about your good books and then realise they have already read them! My sister and I started to read books only recently at the same time and by total coincidence. 'Damaged' was the first book we both bought and read!!! Great minds think alike!!! I'm looking forward to your next book 'Cut'. Keep them coming!!
Ali, Northern Ireland, 10/07/2008
I have just finished reading your book 'Damaged'. I can't begin to explain how I felt for you and Jodie, through you times of anguish and despair. As a 16 year old girl, I don't feel I can do much to help children with backgrounds like Jodie's. But I have been reading a number of books that are true stories of children, who have previously been abused by their parents, but are now grown up, and have come to terms with their terrible past. I can only hope that Jodie's future will be the same. I wish you both all the success in the world, you deserve it. You acted more like her guardian angel than carer, and I know at points you blamed yourself for Jodie's behaviour and not being able to help her. But if you were able to get through to someone as troubled as Jodie you must be extremely special, and talented. Your book has made me determined to become a foster parent myself one day, and I would be only too pleased to be able to do half of what you have done. I couldn't put the book down, and it took me less than 2 days to read, staying up until 4 o'clock in the morning one night. I just want to congratulate you on your work, and thank you for your insight into how life can be unbearable to small, innocent children.
Ria W, 16, Coventry, UK, 09/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I have finished reading Hidden and I have to say you are truly an inspiration. I thought Tayo was such a brave little boy and he was so lucky to have a foster carer like you. I am 22 years old, married to a wonderful man, have a wonderful home and a loving family that I adore and love with all my heart. Reading Hidden made me realise I am far luckier than I ever thought possible. I cried throughout and at certain points I had to put the book down to have a minute to think. I loved the book and can't wait to read your others. I have a tear in my eye now because the book was so deep and moving, every detail was there and you did an amazing job. I wish there were more people like you in the world. Good luck and bless you!!
Becky, UK, 09/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading your book Damaged and I am currently ordering Hidden. I think that you are an amazing person with so much love. You see adverts on TV about abuse and it makes your tummy turn to think humans can do this to young kids and even adults. I am emailing you because after reading your book everything I do now I always seem to look back at what Jodie went through. When I sit at home with my family and we talk I feel for Jodie as she never had that. I just want to thank you for giving her a chance. Your children are also an inspiration as they believed in Jodie. I was truly moved by your story, I hope to hear more about Jodie's progress. Thank you again x
Zoe H, 09/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading your book "Damaged". Although horrific, heartbreaking and upsetting, it was absolutely brilliant. I couldn't put it down. I cried so much for this little girl. The way you have written the book makes me feel as if I already know Jodie personally. I am sure she will never ever forget the kindness and love shown to her by you and your family. You and your 3 children showed that poor little girl more affection and patience in a year than she had ever experienced in her entire young life. I hope Jodie is doing well now and I hope that some day, she can break free from the emotional prison her "so-called" parents & their sick "friends" condemned her to, purely for their own sadistic and perverse gratification. I hope Jodie's parents and their "friends" rot in hell for the horrific abuse they inflicted on her and the subsequent lifetime sentence of mental & physical torture and anguish. I will never understand how anyone could harm a child in any way. I have a 3 year old and having read your book, I was reduced to tears as I watched him sleeping peacefully last night. If only all children had that comfort in their lives. It's the very least they should be able to expect. You are a fantastic author and an absolute inspiration to everyone. I feel that you are quite literally a guardian angel sent from heaven to protect and take care of the children, and you deserve a halo for the time and patience you dedicated to that little girl. Having read your website I am glad to note that she is doing so well to date. Best Wishes.
Catherine, W Èire, 08/07/2008
I had to email you after finishing Damaged a few moments ago, having started it yesterday. Your compassion and selflessness are inspirational. It is hard to imagine how Jodie managed to survive at all after the vile abuse she suffered at the hands of the people who were supposed to love and care for her. It sickens me that they are still allowed to live when you consider the damage they have inflicted as we all know there is no cure or treatment to stop them being a danger to any other child. The 'system' should be thoroughly ashamed, and without people like you, this poor little girl may well have been permanently resident in her private hell. I do not have children but hope that if I do, I could be at least half the mother you clearly are as we all have a responsibility to take having a child seriously, unlike so many poor examples we may see on a daily basis. I do not believe everyone has a right to have a child. I will be starting Hidden tomorrow and wish you and your family every success and happiness.
Sarah A, Devon, UK, 08/07/2008
I have just finished reading Damaged and found your account of the year that you and your family spent with Jodie heart-warming. I feel that you are truly an inspiration (as are your three children). I think that you went above and beyond your role as her carer to ensure that Jodie could begin to feel again, to know what being a child is and to have love and a family. I applaud the effort and the dedication that you and your children made in welcoming Jodie, searching for ways to bring the demons from her past to the surface and then searching again for ways to make the pain and damage that these demons had caused more bearable for the poor child. I am a carer, I work in a residential unit with children with disabilities and could relate to some of the descriptions of Jodie's behaviour. The world should know how highly respected you are for what you do.
Toni, UK, 08/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading your 2nd publication, Hidden. What a truly emotional and inspirational story. I was gripped from beginning to end. I previously read 'Damaged' and found that also a fascinating story of such tragedy and trauma. You are truly a very gifted writer and an incredible being. You inspire me. Your work is very highly credited and you deserve such commendations for your efforts. Thank you and well done. I can't wait for 'Cut'.
Katy, UK, 08/07/2008
After reading Damaged, and the bad press about social workers, and constantly being told that "the stress isn't worth the money" by every Social Worker I came into contact with, I felt somewhat reluctant to pursue my university training to become a Social Worker. However, I have just finished reading Hidden and I was very pleased to read that this Social Worker was dedicated, hard working and appeared to enjoy her job! Both books have now further inspired me to embark on this challenging career. I found the stories of both children harrowing reads and I was particularly disturbed to learn that so many other children like Tayo "slip through the net". I thoroughly enjoyed the way in which you told the stories of the children and I was easily absorbed. Well done and I look forward to your next compelling read.
Amy, County Durham., 08/07/2008
CG: Dear Amy, I am so pleased you haven't given up training for social work, I would never have forgiven myself if I'd in any way contributed to that decision. Social work is such a worthwhile, though difficult, profession and if done conscientiously can have a real and positive effect on children and families. It can and does save lives. As you probably know we are in the midst of radical change in social care practice. The Common Assessment Framework (CAF) is already up and running and, with the introduction of Contact Point early next year, children like Tayo should not fall through the net. Thanks for writing and please don't lose heart. I look forward to hearing of your progress. Cathy
08/07/2008
Hi Cathy! I have just finished reading 'Hidden', I read 'Damaged' earlier this year. As a Reception Teacher, in an area where lots of children come from troubled backgrounds, I felt the books could have been telling the story of different children that have passed through my class over the years. It never ceases to amaze me how much such children love their Mums and how they can still smile after all they've been through! You do a wonderful job and one that I couldn't do - at least I can walk away from the problems at 3.30pm, although I have often spent time wondering what some of the children must face when they go home and worried about whether they have been fed or have a nice clean, warm bed to sleep in. I have a little Grandson who is 9 months old and so loved. He is one of the lucky ones and I wish there wasn't so many children out there who are unloved, unwanted and neglected. God bless and help them all!
Jan B, UK, 07/07/2008
Hi Cathy, just wanted to say I have read both your books and couldn't put them down. Damaged pulls at your heart strings to think of the pain that Jodie went through before she came to you. I can relate to her pain as I went through similar experiences from the age of 2 to 5 years of age. I also think that Tayo was a remarkably strong little boy and just know that he will turn out to be an amazing young man. It is nice to know that people like yourself still care enough to make a difference. I can't wait to read the rest of your books.
Maggie, Dundee, UK, 07/07/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden, what an amazing story, enjoyable to the end. Also I enjoyed reading Damaged, it is amazing how children can come through so much trauma. I look forward to your next book Cut. I was fostered as a small child, then adopted by the same family, my life wasn't all a bed of roses I can tell you, but looking back it was better than being in a children's home I suppose.
Joan, Surrey, UK, 06/07/2008
Hi Cathy. I just had to email you and tell you how much I loved your book "Damaged". It is a truly sad, unbelievable and inspirational story. It is awful and made me sick to hear what Jodie had gone through, no one should have to be put through so much pain. I work with troubled youths, so I can relate to some of the behaviour that Jodie depicted. I found it heart-warming to hear how you brought this child into your home and treated her like your own. You made a huge difference in her life and I hope that one day she can become a happy person. You are an inspiration to all of us and I only wish that there were more people in this world like you. I feel that I know Jodie after reading your book. I finished it last night and still cannot stop thinking about it. I can't wait to read another one of your books!!
Stephanie, Toronto, Canada, 05/07/2008
I have read both of your books and as a foster carer I can say how true in detail they are. Well done.
Kevin J, Australia, 05/07/2008
Hi, I have just read Damaged and Hidden. I think you are amazing, so caring and understanding. I cannot wait to read your new book, out in August. You do such a great job and I hope there is not a day goes by when you do not feel you have changed peoples lives for the better. You are inspirational! Thank you for sharing your story. With best wishes.
Jasmine, London, UK, 04/07/2008
Dear Cathy, I read your book Damaged, you are a wonderful person to do what you did. I was upset at what Jodie had gone through but I was mad at the way social services handled it. I cried buckets, not just for Jodie but for you and your family, and for what you all had to go through. Your children and the children you fostered are lucky to have you. Wish I'd had you on my side when I was younger. I hope that Jodie is happy. Good luck to you and your family. You are 1 in a million.
Sharon, Newcastle upon Tyne, UK, 04/07/2008