Dear Cathy, what fantastic books you have written, both Hidden and Damaged. I read them both in a week, I couldn't put them down! I also work with children and have been for the past four years. I think you have done a fantastic job in the way you told your stories about these children and how you approached every situation with such sensitivity. Since reading your books I have also been thinking about fostering, maybe later on in life! You are a true inspiration and such a strong woman. I hope in the future in my work I can be as strong as you! I can't wait to read the next book!
Asiya D, 23, Ilford, UK, 22/05/2008
Hiya Cathy, you are truly a wonderful, caring, and loving person. You are an inspiration to many. I read both your books Damaged and Hidden in less than a week and I can't wait for the next one. Keep up the good work.
Debbie, UK, 22/05/2008
Hi Cathy, have just finished reading Hidden, I have also read Damaged. They were 2 of the best books I have ever read. You are really something special and your family must be proud. I plan to do my social work training in the next couple of years. At present I work with adults with learning disabilities and challenging behaviours and some of the patients I work with have the most terrible start to life. It's a shame that there isn't lots more foster carers out there like you that can make a difference to a child's life. The team that worked with you and Tayo were brilliant and I'm sure that if all social workers were to read your book they might reflect on their own working practises, although I do understand that social workers have a difficult job. Cathy you are an inspiration and when I become a social worker I hope I work alongside people like you. Kind regards
Keeley, Suffolk, UK, 21/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your amazing book 'Hidden'. I can honestly say that it is the first time I have cried with tears of joy at such a happy ending. Thank you for sharing your experiences, keep up the excellent work. Look forward to the next chapter in your inspiring life. Thank you.
Jayne H, Stoke-on-Trent, UK, 21/05/2008
Dear Cathy, what would the children do without an angel like you? I am so full of admiration for you. I have read Damaged and have just finished Hidden. I could not put them down and finished them both within days. You are truly an inspiration and a guiding light to the poor unfortunate children who enter your life. You are also a wonderful example to your children, whom I feel are exceptional beings like yourself. May god bless you and I thank you, as I am sure countless others do, for being such an extraordinary shining light to us all. With much love and gratitude to you.
Josie, UK, 21/05/2008
Hi Cathy, words just can't express the sadness I feel for Jodie. I just couldn't put Damaged down even though I did have to read most if it through tears. I recommend this book to everyone and although I am only 23 I would consider fostering myself because of this book. The book is not only amazing and heart wrenching, it is so wonderfully written! My next purchase will be Hidden, and I can't wait for the release of the next few. Thank you for sharing your story with us.
Hannah M, UK, 21/05/2008
Hello Cathy, I would just like to tell you how inspired I was by your book. Damaged was the first true story book I read and before that I never realised you could get so emotionally involved in a book. After reading Damaged I decided to read a lot of true story books and my library is now forever growing. When I saw Hidden in Tesco I had to buy it and it took me 3 days to finish. You truly are an amazing woman and the work you do with children is absolutely phenomenal. You have inspired me to help people and I have decided to pursue my dreams and become a psychiatrist. I cannot explain enough how touched I was by your books!. I hope to read more from you in the future.
Gemma P, 15, Cornwall, UK, 21/05/2008
Cathy, I just wanted to thank you for writing such a heart felt book. I have just finished reading Damaged and, although I never suffered anywhere near what Jodie did, the book helped me to accept that what happened was not my fault. I was about to make the biggest mistake of my life moving my family hundreds of miles to be closer to my parents. I have tried my whole life to get my mum and dad to accept me and love me but have failed to do so. After reading your book I accept that I should have been loved and that I did nothing to deserve the horrors that I endured as a little girl. I was innocent, and deserved to be loved and cherished, not abused, beaten and unloved. I only now realise that all I need is to be with my children and my husband, and to show them as much love and understanding as I possibly can. You helped show me the light Cathy and for that I will be eternally grateful to you. I am determined to write a book of my childhood, even if it never gets published. I feel that for my own sanity, letting it all out on paper is the best way to go. You are a remarkable and loving, dedicated woman. The world is a better place with you in it. Thank you, God bless you and yours
B, UK, 21/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I would like to thank you and everyone like you that is here to look after children that have had such horrendous experiences. I could never imagine what it would feel like to be one of the children you wrote about. I just know that you will be there as a light in the darkness to help them to trust again. Your writing has inspired me to think about fostering later in life and to help to continue the good work that you write about. My best regards and hope for you and all your foster children.
Rachel S, 19, Chelmsford, UK, 20/05/2008
Hi Cathy, it seems as though I know you so well after reading both of your books! I just want to say they are the best books I've ever read and I couldn't put them down! Even my husband wanted an update every time I read Damaged as he was so into the story! Thank you, and I look forward to your next book in August!
Holly A, 20, Somerset, UK, 20/05/2008
I was fostered as a child and I have read Hidden. Reading it took me back to when I was a child, it really touched me. My foster mum was just like you, always there for me, and she still is. I was 5 when I went into care and had two foster families. I stay in touch with them still at 32 and I class them as my mums and dads because if I need someone to call I phone them and they help me. If it was not for people like you I don't know where I'd be now. It made me the person I am and I am proud to have a foster family because life without them would be dark. Keep up your good work and I look forward to reading the rest of your books when they come out.
Jean C, UK, 19/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I just finished your book "Hidden" and had to let you know how much I admire you. I grew up in Edinburgh and moved to Australia when I was 18. I can't believe these child and secret immigrant factories are running here as well as in the UK. Keep on writing your experiences as your books are truly inspiring and your love for these very troubled children is awesome. As a mum of two kids 10 and 12 I was horrified and so upset at the abuse handed out to Tayo. Thank you Cathy you are an angel!
Andrea, Australia, 19/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have been a foster carer for 7 years. I read Damaged in 2 days, I could not put it down. I started to read Hidden today and am already half way through. I cannot wait for your next book in August. I have one child long term (6 years), have done respite and looked after many others, including babies that have gone on to adoption. One child has recently left us who was a possible long term that didn't work out. Like you I cannot get this one out of my head, this was a teenager who actually read Damaged. This was a child that never read and could not sit still for more than ten minutes. Thank you Cathy, keep up the good work
Kim, UK, 18/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished Damaged and it took only 3 days to read. It touched my heart so much and I only wish there was more people like you in the world that could help these defenceless children! I can't wait to read your new book Hidden. You are truly one of the world's angels.
Kim B, UK, 18/05/2008
Hi Cathy, just wanted to let you know that I think you do an amazing job and handle situations with great care and attention. I have read both your books and found them very interesting. I have just finished reading Hidden and I wasn't expecting what happened in the end. What a wonderful little boy Tayo is, he must be a very strong character to overcome and deal with all that he has. You are both an inspiration. I can imagine your house as I read, you, your children everything. I love reading your books they are very down to earth and so interesting. I'm looking forward to getting the next one...definitely my favourite author!
Faye, UK, 18/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I wish to congratulate you on the patience, love and support that you have given to Jodie (Damaged). I had finished the book 24 hours. It brought me to tears a number of times. To think of the horrific dealings this little girl had encountered was heart wrenching and sickening. I hope her parents pay dearly for the trouble they caused Jodie and her siblings. This story was truly moving and made me want to look into the possibility of fostering in the future when my children are older. I hope I have the courage and strength that you have. Cathy you are an angel in these children's world and I hope that you continue to help those that have been "left" and "forgotten". Best Regards,
Christine T, Australia, 18/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I had already read Damaged and when I saw Hidden I just had to buy it. I too am a foster carer and started off doing the emergency bed scheme, where children would be placed with me for 7 nights whilst being found a permanent home. I can relate to so much of your book and, although it pains me to say it, the social workers who do not live up to our expectations. We all know that there are not enough social workers and that they are sometimes so overburdened with case loads that they can't give each child the individual attention they require, however, sometimes that just makes our job more difficult. I have a child in placement who, like Tayo, is 10 years old and comes from a foreign country, but I had the added frustration that his English was very limited. He is a very resilient little lad and has settled well with us, and will soon be going to live with a family in England. Like you I am always sad to see them go, but happy for them if the ending is good. We keep in touch with as many as we can. To date I have fostered 46 children and feel, like you, very privileged to have done so. Your books are an inspiration and I cannot wait for the next one. Your family sounds similar to mine, I have 4 daughters who are all very supportive of the work I do. Keep up with the writing, Cathy, as we need people like you to inform others that maybe this world isn't all we would want it to be. God Bless
Mary, Ashford, Kent, UK, 17/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I've never written a blog before but I felt so compelled to acknowledge your work in some way. I am the single mother of a 10 year old girl whose father is from Nigeria and I was so moved and inspired by Hidden. I have been contemplating fostering for a few years and now feel inspired that, as a single parent, I could be of some help to lost children who don't have the loving parents they deserve. My daughter's fate could have been so similar to Tayo's as her relatives tried to take her to Nigeria as a baby and fortunately were stopped at the airport. It was a parent's worst nightmare. I couldn't stop crying when I read the book. You must feel so fulfilled with what you have done to help these children. Thank you so much for your inspiration. I can't wait to read the rest of your books.
E. D, UK, 17/05/2008
It took me just two days to read Damaged and I have already bought Hidden, which I can't wait to read. The abuse that Jodie went through is beyond belief. How someone can subject an innocent little girl to that is unbelievable. As a mum of two children if anyone did that to them I would kill them. Can't wait for the rest of your books which I will be buying. Keep up the good work with fostering.
Rebecca, UK, 17/05/2008
Hi Cathy, Wow, I have just finished reading Damaged! It was hard to put down! Your love and devotion cannot be measured by words alone. I am a child development specialist here in Canada. I also personally support a mom with disabilities and her 3 children with special needs from my church program. I also support the foster family in various areas. Today I went to my library and recommended that they purchase Damaged, and Hidden once it is released (I look forward to reading it). I do hope Jodie will want to remain in some form of contact with you. All the best to you and your family.
Kathy, Canada, 16/05/2008
Cathy, I have just finished Hidden. I have moved in and out of foster care and moved up and down the country running away from my abuse. I am happy to say that now I am content, but will never forget, as I am sure many others won't. Thanks Cathy for Hidden and Damaged, the two together will remain monumental in my bookcase. I am so glad I have a spare room because my other bed is soaked in tears. I am sure you are someone who makes a difference. That's my objective too. Goodnight Cathy, I am sure "the bed bugs won't bite" you.
Chris, 33, Blackpool, UK, 16/05/2008
Cathy I have read both your books and I just had to tell you that you are such a special person. I couldn't read either of you books without tears - of sadness and happiness. I felt as though I knew the children and you. You told the story with such care and I felt every emotion. You are the angel that these children need, the person that helps save them from their own hell. You have wonderful children who help and are so understanding, caring and forgiving to the children that you foster. They are a credit to you. Thank you for all you do for the children and for writing the books to help us understand what is happening around us. You and your family take care. All of my love
Sarah, UK, 15/05/2008
Hey Cathy, I have read both your books, Damaged and Hidden. I did not know that parents could be so cruel to their children. Both books have touched me very much but Damaged really shocked me. I simply could not put down either of them. You are so brave doing this job for so many years. I really admire you for your patience with such difficult cases. I am looking forward to your other books. Best wishes.
Anna, UK, 14/05/2008
Hello Cathy, I have just read your two books Damaged and Hidden. They are brilliantly written I read each book within 2 days. They are books you have a job to put down. They made me cry and also angry at what other people had done to those children. They were very good reading. My daughter is reading them now.
Sonya, Lincolnshire, UK, 14/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I managed to buy your book Hidden in a Singapore bookstore last week and finished it within two days. Cathy, I must say that you're a very wonderful person, like a fairy godmother to all the children you fostered. I know they must have felt the same. Your children are all so loving and were forgiving to Tayo after the lies he told and the bad remarks he made about Paula. Send my love to Jodie and to your family. I hope Jodie is progressing and learning to start a brand new life of her own. Take care and lots of love,
Sharon, Singapore, 14/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading Damaged, it had me in tears. You are a wonderful woman and Jodie was lucky to have someone like you to fight for her. I do hope one day she can live a fairly normal life and put the past behind her.
Carrie, Kent, UK, 14/05/2008
I have read both 'Damaged' and 'Hidden'. I felt the need to tell you how much of an inspiration you are to many people. I was in 'care' from the age of 12. I was first placed in residential, went back to home for a short period, then living with friends and sleeping rough, into two different fostering placements and then into independent living from the age of 15 . It was a very hard and emotional time of my life after my mother died on Christmas Eve and my father could not cope with a very troubled soul. I was full of anger and resentment. My character was one of strength, anger, hatred (of self and others), vulnerability and despair. Looking back, I believe everything happens for a reason and the person I am today has benefited from feeling true pain, loss and gaining inner strength. For that I am truly grateful. I believe that my experiences have made me fully prepared and capable to live my life helping children whom I can relate to on all levels. I totally agree with your views on fostering when you say that if you can make a small difference in a child's life then there is no better reward. Showing someone love, understanding and tolerance, for what could be the first time in their life, can be extremely comforting to a child who has no self-worth or belief in themselves. My relationship with my father has turned from hatred, to complete understanding of his feelings. I have a wonderful husband of 17 years, five amazing children aged from 4 to 12 and my life at present is exactly as it should be . My life aim is to foster children, though at the moment, my time belongs to my own children. When the time is right, I hope to use my experiences to benefit many children - just like you. Well done Cathy! Take care of yourself and your flock.
Adele, Hartlepool, UK, 13/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have recently finished both Damaged and Hidden. What an inspiration you are. I'm a big fan now, can't wait for your next book. Last year I looked after my granddaughter for three months because social services removed her to my home due to severe family problems. The result was a happy one and her mother turned her life around. I have been very interested in fostering since then. I already have a good insight into what goes on with foster carers. Reading your books has inspired me to give fostering a go having already brought up five children. Keep the good work up Cathy and best wishes to you and your family.
Sharon, Darlington, UK 13/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have read both your books and would just like to congratulate you on the fantastic work you do and have done. It makes me glad to know that there are people like you out there making the world a better place. Thank you very much.
Elizabeth C, Australia, 11/05/2008
Hi Cathy, just to let you know I have read your books and found them a great help. I am a foster carer and reading your books has made me realise there is a great deal to learn. I look forward to your next publication. I was on a training day last week and mentioned your books to everyone there in the hope that more will become enlightened in the way you handled those children. It would help if a few Social Workers would read them as well.
Linda A, UK, 11/05/2008
Hey Cathy, I've just finished reading your book Hidden and I was hooked straight away. I don't really read a lot of books but as soon as I opened Hidden I was unable to put it down. I was just shocked at how a mother could treat her own child and make him do things that I wouldn't dream of letting any child do or experience. Normally I am pretty strong and nothing really effects me but Hidden was the first book that made me really cry. I can't wait to read Damaged. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us, it just makes you realise how lucky most of us are to have a loving family.
Amy, Adelaide, Australia, 11/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading your book 'Hidden'. I really enjoyed reading this book and am really happy that Tayo had the ending he deserves. I can relate to him a bit as my brothers and I were also in care while growing up. I only wish my foster parents could have been like you. Keep up the good work.
Sarah, UK, 10/05/2008
Dearest Cathy, I have just finished Damaged and had to contact you immediately. You are an amazing woman and if only the world was made up of more people like you it sure would be a lovely place! I pray that Jodie will someday find peace and lead a life as normal as it can be. I congratulate you on all your success with every child you have fostered. It's hard for me to relate, I have been one of the lucky ones being brought up in a loving stable home, but I felt so much sadness and pain whilst reading this book and burst into tears as I finished the final page. I wish you, your family and all your foster children (your extended family) much love and happiness. Always.
Serena, West Sussex, UK, 10/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I am reading Hidden and am unable to put it down. I am only 14 and I think that your book is brilliant. It is really inspirational for me as a friend of mine was a foster carer and I can relate back to the story and think of her. Please keep writing. Can't wait to start Damaged.
Luke, 14, Rochdale, UK, 09/05/2008
Hello Cathy, I have finished reading your book "Hidden" and I was really happy to hear the ending. But I did feel sorry for Tayo as he and his mother have no bond really and for the way she treated him!! I will look out for your new book when it comes out in August. Thank you for your time and the pleasure of your book.
Jo G, UK, 09/05/2008
I have just finished reading "Hidden". I read it on the aircraft from Singapore to Sydney. I loved the book even though I cried with tears of sadness and happiness. I have often thought of fostering children but really, I wonder if I ever would be strong enough. I admire you and your family. Keep up the good and loving work.
Jenni, Australia, 08/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Damaged and Hidden and both times I finished the books in tears of happiness for both characters. They really are truly amazing stories and give an in-depth insight into what truly goes on in foster homes and what a strain the system is under. I couldn't put either of the books down once I started reading them. Now my family has caught the Cathy Glass bug and they are buying the books and are amazed by them. I cannot wait for the next one to come out. Cathy, thank you for a truly fantastic read. Good Luck for the future
L, Lincs, UK, 07/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have recently read both your books and found them compelling reading. I won't say I 'enjoyed' your books, because I think that is the wrong word, but I read both of them within 48 hours. I have to say I cried my way through Damaged and cried non-stop for Tayo in Hidden. By the way you write and describe all the events and emotions, it is impossible not to be moved by it all. Well done Cathy, keep up the good work. I just wish I had an ounce of your stamina, understanding and endless patience. Looking forward to reading your next books., I will make sure I have at least two full boxes of paper tissues next to me. Thank you.
Jill P, UK, 07/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden. What a truly remarkable book, I just couldn't put it down. I cried a lot. I was a childminder for nearly 25 years but it just doesn't compare to the wonderful job you and other foster carers do. Best wishes to you and your remarkable family.
Sandra C, UK, 07/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I've just finished reading your book 'Damaged'. It's the first time I've read a book that has truly shocked me. I cried most of my way through. I think you're an inspiration to everyone. We need more people in this world who, like you, are willing to help children such as Jodie that have been badly traumatised. I think you did an excellent job looking after her and you've gained a lot of recognition from it. I hope all the best for you and your children in the future and hope you keep fostering!
Louise O, 15, Swansea, Wales, UK, 07/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book Hidden. What a remarkable job you do to have time and patience and not give up hope. You must change so many people's lives for the better. You are one of many foster carers I am sure, but well done! I started reading Hidden on Sunday and finished it yesterday - remarkable!
Gemma K, UK, 07/05/2008
Hi there, your book was amazing but made me cry a lot. I feel very sorry for the little girl Jodie
Jade J, Cambridge, UK, 07/05/2008
Cathy, one word - remarkable! Very proud to know that people like you still exist. I wish you a long, happy and peaceful life, as you are a person to be cherished for eternity. Your number 1 reader/fan
Mel K, Australia, 07/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden and was unable to put it down. It took me 2 days to read and had me crying. I read Damaged last year and it also had me in tears. The work you do is incredible and you and your family should be congratulated on the way you deal with the pressures and emotions which you must all go through. It's very true that there are children out there which are put through these ordeals and it is comforting to know that there is someone like you waiting to help them. Keep up the good work and I can't wait for the next book.
Sarah, Lincs, UK, 06/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I've recently read Damaged and have just finished Hidden. I really relate to both of your books - with Jodie, because I was abused as a child and then later into adolescence. Mainly this has been due to my naive, vulnerability and habit of ending up in the wrong crowd. I've had a strong family behind me helping me through every mountain I had to overcome, and the fact that I've had the inner strength, resolve and intelligence to realise I could make it. I count myself lucky with the support I've received over the years and that I was given a place in a residential children's psychiatric unit and had ongoing care from ages of 13 - 18. My crunch time came when I was arrested and put in jail for a few days in a foreign country. I came back to the UK determined to sort myself out . I went back to college and then onto University and graduated in 2004. I'm now 28, have recently married the most amazing, supportive, and understanding man I've ever met - something I never thought would happen, and my family held out little hope for. I have a good job and own my own home. My past doesn't seem like it's my own, I've changed so much. However, you never really leave a past like that behind and it's manifested itself into so many behaviours, reactions and decisions I've made, but I've been lucky in that I've come out the other side and I can rationalise and contextualise most of it. Damaged has helped me start to put into context some of the behaviour I exhibited - some of which I never spoke to my key worker about because I was too ashamed. Your book has brought to light some of the things I've been trying to bury, I'm really grateful to you because it's been a healing of a sort. You're truly inspirational - and a reflection of some of the amazing professionals out there ready to open their homes and hearts to children who have been "damaged" by the acts of others. I'll never forget the people that have helped me along my path to recovery - and I'm absolutely sure, you'll never be forgotten. Your books are the legacy of the children you've looked after and you. I have no doubt you're helping to heal so many others out there. I hope to do the same one day - my best friend can't believe the life I've been through and always says I should write a book. For now, I'm happy to read yours! Thanks
A, UK, 06/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Damaged. I feel you deserve to know how special this book was. It was the best read ever! I loved this book! It was so moving, and absolutely brilliant. I was so hooked that I couldn't put the book down while on a weekend away with my partner. He got jealous of a book. I can't wait to read your next books! It must be such a wonderful feeling, seeing the changes you make to children's lives, you and your family are wonderful. Thank God there are people out there like you. I hope that Jodie is doing well. Thanks for such a beautiful insightful read. Have a wonderful Day
Cassie C, Australia, 05/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading 'Hidden' and 'Damaged'. I think you're a real inspiration. The children you foster are really lucky to be fostered by what sounds like a really nice and loving family. I am 18 and I have just given birth to a baby. Although I'm young I intend to give her the best life possible. I hope one day I too can foster and give children the life they deserve. Looking at my daughter it saddens me to think that children get abused and sometimes this even goes unnoticed. What you do is truly amazing.
Amy, UK, 05/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book "Damaged". I picked it up and I don't think I put it down for 2 days. I wanted to say that you are absolutely amazing for what you have done and given to Jodie and all of your foster kids. I have been through many foster families and I can say your dedication and love to the children you foster may not seem as though it's appreciated, but I can truly tell you it is. You are a truly amazing person, one in a million!!
Lana H, UK, 05/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading "Damaged" - like so many others who have read this book, I just couldn't put it down. There were times when I really wanted to shut it up, put it down and forget I had started it. Unfortunately it's just not that easy, once you start you just can't stop. I think my husband got fed up seeing me with my nose stuck in the book and constantly reading sections out to him. Many times I had a lump in my throat from holding back the tears. Reading Jodie's letter to you was the final straw, I literally couldn't see the letters on the page. Jodie's story is so incredibly sad. It's so hard to believe that children can be treated this way and the long term effects it has on them. My heart goes out to you, you are truly an angel. I know your children will be very proud of you as you will be of them. I am so pleased that you have continued to foster children, how many jobs are as rewarding as yours? I will be passing the book onto my mother to read. I can't wait to start reading "Hidden". May your life be filled with happiness and many many more foster children. Best wishes to you and your family.
Teresa, Birmingham, UK, 03/05/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just read you book Hidden. I just wanted to congratulate and thank you for being there for those children. Luckily that doesn't happen often here in Gibraltar, but it opened my eyes to what happens in the world. I am sure that the many children you have looked after will always remember the positive you have taught them. Well done.
Jane N, Gibraltar, 03/05/2008
I have just read Damaged, I could not put it down. I am currently an Au Pair looking after a child with severe learning difficulties and her two sisters. I give my full support to you and the work you do, as it is such a hard job at times, but by far the most rewarding. What you did for Jodie was amazing and you should be so proud of yourself and her. I hate that some people don't even have the chance to have children of their own and want them so badly and yet others take for granted the children they have and abuse them! It makes me so angry. Your book has inspired me to foster when I return to the UK. Best wishes to you and your family. x
Rianne H, Holland, 03/05/2008
I have just finished your 2nd book "Hidden", I read "Damaged" last year. Both were brilliant and I have passed them on and recommended them to all my friends. I'm a keen reader but "Damaged" was the 1st book I've read regarding the treatment and care of children and, being the mother of a 3 year old, wasn't sure I would enjoy it! How can anyone treat any human being, especially an innocent child, the way Jodie was treated? Both books were read very quickly! The work you do Cathy is amazing. How do you find the time to write, with the running of a busy family household and caring for the children you foster! Keep up the good work and I look forward to your next book!
Lisa C, UK, 02/05/2008
Dear Cathy, I received 'Damaged' from my mum for my 17th birthday and read it within a couple of days. It really affected me and made me greatly appreciate the family I have. I cried so much and feel angry that this kind of thing still happens. Just today I finished 'Hidden', and as well as crying it also made me feel a sense of hope that there are so many people that do such good things to help others. I know this sounds kind of lame, but I still start to well up when I think that Tayo is out there . You are a remarkable person.
Amy, Scotland, UK, 02/05/2008
Hiya Cathy, I've just finished reading 'Hidden' today and it was the best book I've ever read. It made me cry with happiness. I can't wait to read 'Damaged'. I think what you are doing is truly inspirational and I wish you and your family the best of luck for the future.
Sarah D, 22, Leeds, UK, 01/05/2008
Hi Cathy, thank you so much for writing such good books. I have just finished reading Damaged, I could not put it down. I couldn't wait to see how Tayo did. What a truly inspirational story. Although I don't condone what Minty did in the five years of Tayo's life, this lady needed lots of help, but some people are unwilling to help themselves. I was like this at one time. I was abused when I was seven by a family member, and then when my mum met my sister's dad he abused me from the age of 11 to 16 when he finally left my mum. When I was 19 I went through a real difficult time until I was 28. I tried committing suicide several times and I was sectioned a few times, and put onto lots of medication. At 26 I pressed the self-destruct button big time and I don't know how I managed to come out of it alive. Many people were trying to help me within the mental health profession as was my dearest sister. I did not acknowledge that people were trying to help me stay alive and show me that life can be worth living after abuse. Finally something happened one morning in 2001 and I decided to stop all medication and get my life back on track. Within a year I was working and through my job I met a truly wonderful man and I now have a daughter .This changed my whole perspective on life as now I had a little person to look after. I am doing my best to bring her up so that she doesn't live a life like I did. I look forward to reading more of your books as I have found them truly inspirational. Regards.
Inka, UK, 01/05/2008
I have just finished reading your books. I just could not put them down. You are a true star to those kids, they must love you so much. You are a great mum and carer. I will keep reading your books. All the best
Sally, Nottinghamshire, UK, 30/04/2008
Dear Cathy, just wanted to say how amazing it was to read your book "Hidden". I cried tears of joy. How truly sad the whole story was but with a good ending. I was so into reading it that it took me only 2 days to finish and I must say I could have read on for days! I wish you well for the future and hope you get to go to visit Tayo and his family. I just bought 'Damaged' this morning and already I can't put it down. I have passed Hidden on to my sister. All the best for the future and thank you once again.
Dianne, UK, 30/04/2008
Cathy, I just read two of your books Hidden and Damaged. You and your family are all remarkable people. It's very hard to take in that children can be abused in this way. My heart goes out to them. I would love to help any child in need of care. Although I don't have any qualifications I know I would be very dedicated to all of them. You keep up the good work, I'm very proud of you. Thanks
Claire S, Northern Ireland, UK, 30/04/2008
I picked up Damaged one night after my kids were tucked into bed. I stayed up reading till 3am when I finished the book! Such a sad story about Jodie's life but written so brilliantly! The care and patience that you gave that child melted my heart. I have a son with Asperger's who has spent time in respite with Foster Carers and it's a great peace of mind to know there are wonderful people like you out there. Last week while out shopping I discovered Hidden and yet again I couldn't put it down. Thank you for your wonderful insight into fostering and for reassuring us that there is still human kindness out there, unlike the so called parents of these children. I am looking forward to your future books.
Katrina, Australia, 29/04/2008
My wife and I are new to fostering and have experienced highs and lows with the two brothers we have had for the last 9 months. After reading Damaged and Hidden we have still got a lot of highs and lows to come, judging by your experiences over the last 20 years. It has made us more determined to provide a high standard of care to the current placement and any future placements we have. I hope that we can provide the love and support that you obviously have provided to the kids you have looked after over the years. Love and best wishes to you and your family.
David R, Scotland, UK, 29/04/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished your first 2 books. I can't believe the way some people treat their own kids. It makes me sick to the stomach to know it's happening to children everyday. I am a single parent of 5 lovely kids and I could not imagine any of the things from your books happening to them. I work with social services as a home support worker and sometimes that can involve children and families. In most cases that's fine, but then you might go to one that you can't stop thinking about for the rest of the day. Both Jodie and Tayo were lucky they found themselves at your lovely and welcoming house. I dread to think what might have happened to them if left with those people who are suppose to protect them. I hope you keep up the good work, you truly are an angel in disguise. I wish you and your family all the best for the future and can't wait to read your next book. God bless you Cathy
Kelly, Glasgow, UK, 29/04/2008
I have just finished reading your outstanding book 'Damaged'. I was gripped from the very first page and just had to keep reading to find out what happened to Jodie. I finished it within a day. You showed great love and caring for a very confused and angry little girl.I just wish everyone in this world was more like you. I not only had tears in my eyes but I actually cried so much that I had to stop reading and compose myself. I am so glad you are still fostering and are still in contact with Jodie. Hopefully, one day she will realise what a wonderful and loving family she has looking out for her. I am now going to read Hidden. Good luck for the future.
Jade, UK, 29/04/2008
Cathy, thank you for sharing your message of Jodie in Damaged. We cared for two little girls who share some of the same behaviours that Jodie did. We were chastised by the system for caring too much and being too involved. Thank you for your writing as it has made me feel as if we were right to do what we did and that the behaviour was real, even if it was not recognized or acted upon by the system.
Foster Dad John, UK, 28/04/2008
Cathy, I have just finished reading Damaged. I finished it in two days. You're an amazing woman with so much dedication and patience to have been able to care for Jodie. No human being should ever be put through what Jodie went through, let alone a small child. You gave me the realisation that there are still good people in the world, and for that, you have my greatest respect. You say you're no saint, but for you to still foster after Jodie, that is one of the most selfless acts I've seen in a person for a long time. Given the same situation, a lot of us would have given up long ago. I can't wait to read your next book!!
Jackie, 23, Australia, 28/04/2008
Hi Cathy, I read your book Damaged a couple of months ago and have just read Hidden. I have never read books so quickly before, they are fantastic. Me and my partner are going though a court case at the moment for his children who were taken from their mother last year after they had been on and off the "at risk register" for 10 years. I am their step mother and full time carer and I must admit I do find it hard, especially as I do not have any children of my own. Like you I also get very disappointed with the social workers but your books did help me to understand what they have to do. Can't wait to read your next book.
Angelina, UK, 28/04/2008
Hello Cathy, I completely love reading true stories. I borrowed Damaged from my school library and read it in 3 days, I couldn't put the book down. It was so inspiring and upsetting that a little girl had to be put through such horrible abuses. I really did feel for Jodie, you and your children. The book really made me think about all the little children suffering for no reason, so when I've finished school I will be going to college and uni and train to be a social worker. You really are a good person and well done for not giving up on these children. Your children must be so proud of you!
Lisa, 16, UK, 28/04/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished Hidden and could not put it down. All credit to you for bringing the world of foster caring into focus. I'm sure there are a few more things that go on that the general public don't see. Can't praise you enough. Waiting eagerly for next book. Well done, very inspirational. Keep up the good work
Jeannette C, Staffordshire, UK, 28/04/2008
Good Afternoon Cathy, I have just spent the entire weekend reading Hidden, and have never cried so much. No words can really show the adoration I have for you and your family. Tayo's story really brought me to tears and even now I still have that excited but sad feeling in the pit of my stomach for him, along with the goose bumps from reading it all. Cathy, you really are a remarkable lady. I am so pleased that Tayo ended up with you as did Jodie. Unfortunately I suffered domestic violence in my first marriage and I think this had an effect on my eldest daughter who witnessed many ugly scenes. I was apart from my girls when they were young as I had to go into hospital and they were placed with emergency carers. I hope it was a loving family like yours. I also hope that Adrian is able to visit Tayo in his gap year and that you and the girls also get to meet Tayo's family and see him settled. I am sure by now you are already giving your love and support to another child that needs it, and I hope that you continue to share your experiences with us. God Bless you Cathy and your family. You're a truly remarkable lady. Best Wishes & Big Hugs.
Jo, UK, 28/04/2008
You did a great job with Jodie (Damaged). What I was angry about was the situation with her Support Worker. I feel she should never have been on the case. Even though Jodie didn't open up to the authorities and the police, I feel there was enough proof that she had been raped, so a case should still have beeen brought. It is clear to see why Jodie is so damaged. Well done for not giving up on her and writing the book.
Ann M, UK, 27/04/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished your book 'Hidden' This book made me cry, smile and cry again. I have read many true stories but this one I could not put down. You do a wonderful job and I admire what you and the Social Services do to protect these children. I am now looking to purchase your other book 'Damaged' and I am sure that it will be just as good as 'Hidden', especially from the reviews that I have seen. Thank you so much for such a good read. I admire and respect the work that you do. Best Wishes
Mrs A H-Smith, UK, 27/04/2008
Dear Cathy, I recently bought your book "Damaged" and read it within two days! It drew me in real quick. I think you are an absolutely amazing woman! What you did for Jodie was amazing. I will be buying Hidden soon. Children like Jodie need people like you to help them. Thank you for writing that book. It is really moving! God Bless
Kelly Y, 17, UK, 27/04/2008
Cathy I absolutely loved your books Hidden and Damaged. It was great to hear the story from the carer's point of view. Truly addictive reading and I will be buying your books in the future.
Tracy, UK, 27/04/2008
Hello Cathy, I have just finished "Hidden" and what an emotional roller coaster it sent me on. I cried happy tears and I cried sad tears, Thank you Cathy for opening my eyes to the world that Tayo lived in and what an inspiration you are to other foster parents and also to all parents. I got so emotional involved in the book it was as though I knew you and Tayo personally. I can't wait until your next book "Cut" comes in August!!!!!!
Tammy, Northamptonshire, UK, 27/04/2008
Cathy, I am so proud of you! I have just finished reading "Damaged', and I have never been as touched as I was when I was reading about your time caring for Jodie. I take my hat off to you and your three wonderful children. My husband and I are new foster carers. We have two children of our own and are so looking forward to helping other children and families in need. You have given me so much inspiration and, as disturbing as your story was, it has made me more determined to help children in need of a stable, loving environment. I am looking forward to the rewarding yet challenging years that lie ahead of us and can't thank you enough for the insight into your family and Jodie's life.
Deb, Western Australia, 26/04/2008
I'm 14 and I picked up Damaged yesterday. I was expecting it to be shocking and terrible, of course, but I never expected it to be so much more. I finished the book in one night, I couldn't put it down. It's a great story and it just shows that there are some people out there willing to do some good. Congratulations on your success with Jodie. It's the most moving book I've ever read and you should be so proud of yourself and your family.
Courtney P, Australia 25/04/2008
Your accounts of your foster children are extremely moving. Without people like you the world would be a very dark place for these kids. My own plight was helped by my Nan after my mum died of a drug overdose when I was 18 months old. She, like you, understood the importance of childhood. People like us will never forget people like you. Well done.
Jody, Wales, UK, 25/04/2008
Hi Cathy, just a quick note. I read Damaged last year and finished Hidden last night, I actually had tears in my eyes. What a truly remarkable woman you are. I look forward to reading more.
Jodie M, UK, 25/04/2008
Cathy, your books are amazing, the stories are great. It's difficult to believe people actually do that to their children. I'm only 17 and when I grow up I want to be a foster mum, so my mum bought me Hidden. The day after I finished it I bought Damaged. Your family must love you a lot. I hope that when I'm grown up I can be even half as good as you at being a foster mum, or even at adopting kids. I envy the patience, kindness and tolerance you must have to look after all those children.
Bridget, Australia, 23/04/2008
Cathy, I have just read your book Damaged, I couldn't put it down. I am now starting on Hidden. I read your books for hours. I think you should make a movie. I shall be buying your book Cut when it comes out. You are an exceptional person and thank god these kids have someone like you to love them. Well done in your work fostering and writing. Regards
Sherry J, Uk, 23/04/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book Damaged, the first book I have read in years. Thank God you didn't give up on Jodie and thank God love came into her life. Every ounce of attention and devotion you gave her was not wasted and by sharing your story with us you have touched many people and certainly made me think! You are very much admired and thanks.
L, UK, 23/04/2008
Cathy, last year I finished my BTECH national diploma in early years Level 3. I have always known that I wanted to work with children. During my time at college I was on a placement with special needs children, only one of whom was able to communicate through speech. I came away scared and doubtful, and I remember crying that afternoon and never wanted to go back to that classroom. I'm so glad I did. I loved every one of the children there, and each day I looked forward to getting up in the morning to spend time with them. I came to learn a great deal. I can certainly relate to you when you talk about the feelings you have in making even the tiniest difference in a child's world. The time I spent on this placement was the happiest time I had at college and the most rewarding. I have been deeply inspired and touched by both your books, and I look forward to your future work. You have truly touched my life and I wanted to let you know how grateful I am to you. Although I could never do what you do, I am seriously considering going into social work as I want to do what I can to help the children who so desperately need it. I wish you every success for the future and send my very best wishes to you and your children. All the best,
Holly W, UK, 22/04/2008
Cathy, I really must commend you for your commitment to Jodie and all the children you have fostered and helped over the years. I have just finished reading Damaged, and all the terrible things that the poor child has had to endure during her short life. I picked up your book as I waited in my GP's surgery yesterday and was so engrossed with it I had to ask the reception if I could take it away to finish reading. Thankfully they agreed. I was feeling your pain and frustration with Social services. I have a niece and nephew that suffered abuse by their mother and her new partner. Thankfully the children were removed and placed with their father. It is only just now after 5 years of being away from their mother that they have settled down. I am now going to purchase Hidden. The children that are placed in your care are very lucky indeed. You and your family are one special unit. I do hope your children Adrian, Paula and Lucy are all content and doing well. Big Hugs to you.
Jo, UK, 22/04/2008
Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden. I picked it up after I had read Damaged and all I can say is you truly are an inspiration! I am currently doing BA Hons child and adolescent studies in the hope I can work with children with special needs! Reading your books has made me even more determined to succeed! I can't wait till your next book is out!!! Thank you again.
Emma, London, UK, 22/04/2008