Dear Cathy, what a wonderful person you are. Your family are so understanding of the amazing work that you do. I read Damaged and it broke my heart with. How can a young girl survive that amount of abuse and torture! It must have been hard for you to recall the events as you wrote them. I just finished Hidden at 6:30 this morning and I cried my heart out at the ending. It's lovely to see that after tragedy for Tayo there was happiness and I pray it is ongoing for the rest of his life. You are a credit to social services. I hope you carry on your good work and I will be awaiting another book.
Helen L, Norfolk, UK, 01/04/2008
Hello I have read both your books, and being in care my self when little and foster homes. I really do understand what those children went through. People like you are amazing and I can not wait for the next book.
A L C, Devon, UK, 01/04/2008
Hi Cathy, I have read Damaged and am about 3/4 through Hidden. I just wanted to write and say what an amazing person you are. To help these poor kids and give them the love and caring that they have never really known is truly a wonderful thing. I also wanted to say what wonderful children you have in Adrian, Paula and Lucy. Those 3 are an absolute credit to you and a huge asset to the world we live in. They should be very proud of themselves and you should be so very proud of the 3 wonderful human beings you have raised. If only there were more people like you and your children in this world then it would be a much better place. Thank you so much for the books, they truly are an inspiration. I have recommended them to so many friends who have now bought and are reading them. I look forward to your next book
Tracey, Australia, 01/04/2008
Hi Cathy, I am from South Africa and bought your book Damaged while I was in the UK in December. I started reading it only last week as I have had so little time to relax, but now I find myself totally distracted from my work, and I can't wait to get home and carry on reading! You are an amazing woman with such patience and a will to help others. I admire you... Can't wait for the next books!
Janine, South Africa, 01/04/2008
Hi Cathy, I read Hidden yesterday, and what a truly amazing example of never giving up hope that was. I couldn't put it down, (much to the disgust of my children who are on half term holidays!!). All the way through I kept hoping for a happy ending for Tayo. His story is truly remarkable. The bravery of children who experience abuse like he has is so humbling. Like many people I have experienced it myself, although not nearly as badly as Jodie or Tayo, and it has obviously caused me problems, but I have a great husband and children and feel I am very much one of the lucky ones. Like you, I would love to be a writer, but unfortunately one of the effects of the abuse I suffered is I lose interest in things very quickly (so my support worker said a long time ago!) so I'll have great ideas but they are gone in an instant. I am considering writing my story on a blog, not for publishing, but to give me some closure on it, perhaps, and help me make sense of things. Anyway, I wish you and your family all the very best and look forward to the next book. Well done.
Lisa C, UK, 01/04/2008
Hi Cathy, I only started reading two years ago and I have two favourite authors Cathy glass and Tory Hayden. I can't wait until the new books are released as they are so beautifully written, with warmth and compassion for these children. I think you are truly amazing people. Keep up the good work. Cant wait for the next book. I wish you and your family health and happiness for the future. You are doing a first class job.
Jacquie, Birmingham, UK, 31/03/2008
Cathy, my name is Kaitlyn and I'm half way through your book Damaged. I fell in love with this book on the first chapter. I haven't put the book down since I started reading. I feel for the young abused children in this world and my wish is to put a stop to it. From what I have read you were the only hope for little Jodie. People never gave her the chance she needed, but you gave her that chance. I wish I was older to do what you are doing. I'm only 18yrs old but when I am older I will help every child I can to have a better life. I can't wait to read the rest of the story and after that I would love to read Hidden. I just want to say thank you so much for what you have done for children's lives.
Kaitlyn, UK, 31/03/2008
Dear Cathy, what can I say! I read Damaged last year while on holiday in Turkey and couldn't put it down. There were 3 other people around the pool reading the same book. When we saw each other wiping our eyes we knew what part of the book they were reading. I finished this book in two days - two days for a dyslexic reader who didn't learn how to read till I was 12 is pretty good going. Last week I went to the supermarket for some Easter holiday books and picked Hidden. At the nursery I recently had a child come to me who was in foster care, with no idea where the placement would lead. Six months ago it was agreed that the child would go up for adoption, and a family was found and all the proceeding went on. I understood and pictured a lot of the meetings mentioned in Hidden as I have been involved in this child's life changing events. While reading Hidden my heart went out to you and your family. I cried throughout the book and pictured all the settings. Thank you so much for such a fantastic story that I finished in 2 days. Please hurry up and do your next. Also I am now considering whether foster care is a road I would like to go down. Thank you so much
Zoe, UK, 31/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I am 17 years old I have nearly finished Damaged, which is the first book I have ever read with interest and determination to finish. I am in a therapeutic unit and am leaving on Friday 4th April, quite soon! I have been here for about a year now and have been told by my consultant that I have been failed by social services and should have been put in care from a young age, but this never happened. I would say that if I was put in care I would have loved to come to yours which probably never would have happened anyway! I have been through similar experiences as Jodie; not by my family but by several friends of my family! I look up to you like my own personal guardian angel as you have changed my way of thinking, so you have not only helped children in you're past and present but also people you have not even met!
Lacey, UK, 31/03/2008
Dear Cathy I have just read Damaged and Hidden back to back. The tales of these 2 innocent children are beautiful to read, but it saddens me to think that they were treated so badly. The way in which you have clearly given Jodie and Tayo the love and attention they deserve just goes to show that there are kind and generous people in the world. You are an inspiration to us all. Thank you.
Michelle, South Wales, UK, 31/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I would just like to say what a great person you really are for looking after so many children and giving them that little bit of attention that helped them along their way. Coming from a foster family I understood a lot within the books and found them really interesting. I really enjoyed reading the books, Damaged and Hidden and I am waiting for the others.
Sheli, Birmingham, UK, 31/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I'm only 16 and like many teenagers my age I don't really read books, however for Christmas I was bought a copy of "Damaged" by my mom and much to her amazement I had finished it all by Boxing Day evening. Then shortly after I came across "Hidden" in a book shop and just knew that I had to buy it. Again I completed it in a few short days. I found both of your books very moving and they both brought me to tears at the end. I don't know how you do what you do as I know that I and many others wouldn't be able to have the patience and kindness that you show to the people you welcome into your home as if they were a member of your family. I would just like to say I am eagerly awaiting the release of your next book as if its anything like "Damaged" and "Hidden" it's sure to be top of the charts. I would just like to finish by telling you how truly amazing I think you are and am glad that there are such kind, caring people out there to take care of those less fortunate. Thank you for sharing your touching experiences with us.
Rachel, Birmingham, UK, 31/03/2008
Hi Cathy, just finished your book Hidden, what a lovely ending!! I emailed you a few weeks ago to say I was reading your book Damaged for the third time. I love the way you write books, even though Damaged was such a disturbing read it made me smile at times - just your sense of humour. The reason that I am emailing again is that I mentioned I was interested in fostering, well I had a letter yesterday to say they have done some checks on me and I can go ahead with training, and I have my first meeting tomorrow! I am so excited that I just had to tell someone. I am not getting a lot of support at present, not even my parents - the reaction I get is, are you off your head? But it wont put me off, nothing will put me off. Kind regards.
Allison D, UK, 31/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I thought both books were excellent and I couldn't put them down. Both got read in a matter of hours. I could relate a lot and felt that at least there's people like you that want to help children that have had tough time. I think your absolutely brilliant keep up the good work
Jess, 18, Essex, UK, 30/03/2008
Dear Cathy, since buying Damaged a couple of months ago I have found it to be one of those books a can sit and read and re-read over and over again. Each time I feel the emotions you had with Jodie, I cry for the horrific things that poor little girl had to endure, and also for how you and your family cared so much to go through all the traumas with her. She is and always will be incredibly lucky to have you in her life. For all the things that have happened to her in her childhood I cannot even imagine how she got through day to day, but I admire the fact that you worked along with her. She gained your trust and opened up to you; it is a credit to yourself that you got as far as you did with her. I truly think you are an wonderful person, and it sounds as if Paula, Adrian and Lucy have learnt from you and are wonderful to. It can't have been easy for them, yet some of the things you mentioned in your book truly made me see what caring individuals they are. And I would love for you to pass this on to them from myself. I am currently awaiting delivery of Hidden, and can't wait to read it. I know if it is anything like Damaged it will be a book I keep close by at all times, be well read, and I will never tire of re-reading it. I truly think you are wonderful in the work you do
Ellen C, 27, UK, 29/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden and I must say it was a truly touching read that had me reduced to tears whilst reading it. You are an amazing person with loads of patience for these troubled kids. I really find both you and your family amazing people to be able to foster kids from all sorts of backgrounds and varying histories. It is such a pity that there are not more people like you in the world that can make such changes to these kids' lives. To be able to provide a stable home environment for them no matter how short their stay must make such a difference to their lives and you must be so proud of yourself when you make such a change to their sometimes tragic lifestyles. I just wanted to say thank you on behalf of these children, for being someone they can turn to and for providing them with a loving home when they need it most, and also for sharing your experiences with us. Your books are amazing reads and just highlight the need for more foster parents.
Emma C, UK, 29/03/2008
I have read Damaged, what a fantastic book, I cried all the way through it. I was so bad my 13 year old son was very concerned when he saw me crying, but the smile that was put on my face when Jodie left you the note at the end just made me smile so much. I finished reading Hidden last night, and again cried, laughed, and cried. What an amazing little boy. I think your books are amazing and so well written. I have recommended them to friends and family. I can't wait for your next book as I know it will be fantastic. You are one amazing lady and these kids that come to you are very lucky to have such a fantastic woman to care for them, also your own children are very special too. Carry on with the good work. Many thanks
Lisa, UK, 29/03/2008
Hi Cathy, at last I was able to get hold of your second book Hidden, I have to say you are a brilliant writer. Once I started to read I couldn't put the book down. What an ending! Good luck to you and your family I hope to read your next book. Take care, love
June L, Stoke on Trent, UK, 29/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read both your books and they are truly heartbreaking. I am a 16 yr old girl who has had a lot of problems of her own and still does. When things were bad I read your 1st book Damaged and it really helped me understand that I'm not the only one out there. I now live on my own because I couldn't live at home anymore. I still struggle but I am getting there and reading your books made me understand. I can relate to those poor children. You books have touched me so much that I want to become a foster carer when I am older and help children who are very venerable just like I was. I want to thank you Cathy for two truly heartbreaking books you are a wonderful person.
Lorraine H, UK, 28/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I wrote an email to you when I had finished Damaged to tell you how much I had enjoyed your book, but how it had made me cry. My heart went out to Jodie, I hope she is continuing to do well. I am writing to you again to say how much I enjoyed your second book Hidden. Tayo is an amazing child. I am looking forward to your next book. Thank you
Ali, UK, 28/03/2008
Dear Cathy, Coming from what you would call a normal upbringing I was so shocked at what some children go through. I finished Damaged within a day and I'm half way through Hidden which I only started yesterday! I just wanted to say what a wonderful woman you are and keep up the good work. I can't wait for your other books to come out.
Kayleigh, Edinburgh, UK, 27/03/2008
Dear Cathy, you are a lovely lady. I love your books, they were really good. I read them both in a week. My husband bought them for me while I was in hospital. I wish my foster carer had been like you. I cannot wait to read Cut.
Jane B, UK, 27/03/2008
Hi Cathy I have just finished reading Damaged. I think u are an amazing nice person and your children are a credit 2 you.
Gail C, UK, 27/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I finished reading Damaged last night. This heartfelt book really touched me, especially chapter eight - Disclosure, which made me really cry as Jodie revealed her past. I felt so sorry for Jodie when she told what had happened to her. Her behaviour was understandable because of everything she'd been through. I have never read anything this heart breaking. Her so called parents shouldn't have ruined her childhood, as a young girl who is only eight years old could only recall those hurt full memories. I'm glad she had you to care for her, you're an amazing person Cathy, and your kids Paula, Adrian and Lucy are great. I felt respect for them as well as you. When I have kids when I'm older I want them to be like yours. When I read the bit about Jodie making a compliment I cried with happiness as it showed some progress. It makes me angry - social services should have noticed. Thank you Cathy for writing a wonderful book that will encourage people to foster. Hope all goes well for Jodie. All the best,
Sandy, UK, 27/03/2008
Cathy, I first read hidden in 17 hours, I waited until 9am the next morning and went to buy Damaged. The way you write is simply beautiful and so descriptive of your thought and cares. Thank you so much for your writing. I cannot wait until your new book is out!!
Charlotte, UK, 26/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book Hidden. It was one of the most amazing books I've ever read. I really felt for Tayo while reading it, I just couldn't put the book down. I think you're an amazing women looking after all these children with such tragic histories. One day I hope to be a foster carer. I hope to read Damaged soon, and am looking forward for your next one. You truly are such a brilliant care worker and those children were lucky to have you as their foster carer.
Bex, UK, 26/03/2008
Hi, my name is Alex and I'm 13 years of age. My mum got me Damaged and I couldn't put it down. I think you're really fantastic. I'm reading Hidden now and I can not wait for the next book to come out. Since I have been reading your books I have looked at life a different way. I have found that not everyone is lucky in this world, and that most of us are very lucky to have what we have, and I'm willing to help the unfortunate ones. Thank you.
Alex, 13, UK, 26/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I recently finished reading your book Damaged. It was great that you persisted with Jodie, and what understanding children you have. It's the first time I have ever really cried while reading a book, and the letter Jodie wrote to you at the end made me properly cry. I filled up a few times but that letter that was it. It's nice to hear that she is doing great. I've started to read Hidden and am looking forward to reading the rest.
Fiona C, UK, 26/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I have read Damaged and just finished Hidden. I cannot wait for the next book. I am unable to put them down once started.
Jane, Plymouth, UK 26/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I would just like to say how incredible you are. The things you have done for these children are outstanding. I'm a fourteen year old child and I hate reading, but your books I could not put down. I have read Damaged three times now and have just finished Hidden. They truly are remarkable books and I can't wait for the next one. I cried in both the books, they really get to you and make you want to change the world. If only everyone was as nice, kind, loving and caring as you the world would be a better place.
Jessica K, UK, 26/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I would like to thank you for such an amazing book - Damaged. I was told about the book by my sister who recommended it to me. I have just finished reading it and found it very touching, it brought me to tears, and I found myself feeling very angry and heartbroken for Jodie. I couldn't understand how you dealt with it all, all those horrible things you had to hear that the poor broken little girl went through. I have so much respect for you. You were the best thing that could have ever happened to that little girl. I have now recommended your book to my friend and I shall be buying Hidden tomorrow. Thank you again for such an amazing book. I have a lot of respect for you and your family, you have taught me a lot about life, and I am looking forward to reading your next book
Samantha C, London, UK, 26/03/2008
Hi, your books are absolutely amazing! Having been abused for 6 yrs starting at the age of 9 I can understand how Jodie must have felt. I told my mum what was happening at the age of 12 and I was labelled a liar until I was 15 when it was recognized the abuse was shared with my sister of 5. It didn't stop so I went to the police and they believed me. Since then have been in foster care and haven't had any contact with my mother for nearly 5 years. I was also abused by a carer and would have given my life to have been placed with someone of your dedication love and patience. I did have a very loving carer at one point but it lasted only 3 weeks. It was only an emergency placement, then I was a run away, homeless addicted to drugs and alcohol. With the help of social services I've turned my life around. I'm 19 and have a 16 month old daughter and a loving fiancé. You are truly amazing and can't wait for your third book. I've read both of your books until the crack of dawn, sharing your tears of joy and sadness along the way. Thank you for helping people see there are poor helpless children out there who can't survive with out people like you all my love
Nikki S, Essex, UK, 25/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I would like to say thank you for the two amazing books i.e. Damaged and Hidden. I was told about Damaged from my mate at work, and I bought the book, and read it in a matter of three days. I cried and got angry and frustrated, and most of all my tears went out to Jodie. I often wonder how these poor little children slip through the net. I have spoken of this book to my friend and she read it in a matter of days. I would like to say are the kind of person that I would have liked to have met. I had problems with my Mum and Dad, but nothing what Jodie went through. Also, I have just finished Hidden and cried but I was pleased with way Tayo's story ended. I hope you get to see him again. Thank you so much for these wonderful books, and so look forward for the next one.
Valerie M, Norfolk, UK, 25/03/2008
Hello Cathy, I have read Damaged and I have just finished reading Hidden - you are amazing I wish there were more people like you in this world .The book gave me an insight into a world that was so tragic, it broke my heart. You are doing a fantastic job in giving these children your love. I cried and cried while I was reading Damaged .I think you are a remarkable person and your children are truly amazing as well. Cathy, many thanks for two fantastic books. I look forward to more in the future.
Rehana, UK, 25/03/2008
Hi, I read your book Damaged and have just finished Hidden. As the parent of an adopted child and a trainee social worker I would like to say how insightful your books are. I read Hidden in less than 24 hours and was delighted with the best realistic outcomes for Tayo. I was heartened that he had a social worker who cared. I was dismayed at the social workers attitude towards Jodie in Damaged. As someone who plans to work in Child Protection, Safeguarding or possible Adoption/ Fostering I would like to say that your experiences will carry me through my work, and I am determined never to become complacent to the child's needs or the support that the carer requires. My son was lucky, he was removed at birth from what would have been a very damaging environment. But at the age of 7 this still has an impact of him, and the trauma of being in care or adopted should never be under estimated. I admire the work you do tremendously and hold every ounce of respect for yourself and your family. I am now passing your books round to all my fellow students as I feel the only way to learn is from the voices of the children, parents and foster carers - those on the front line! I wish you luck in continuing your fostering and writing, and look forward to reading Cut in August.
Tamsin D, UK, 25/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I don't really know what to say except wow! I have read both your amazing books and I am eagerly awaiting the next. You truly are an admirable person. I have always wanted to foster children and your books have made me adamant to do so. I am just 21 years old but can honestly say I have never been so moved as when I read your books.
Amy P, West Yorkshire, UK, 25/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden, I have also read Damaged, both books are very good. I shed a few tears while reading. You and your family are great for what you do. You must be very proud of yourself and your children for what they do and how they help you. I have 2 nephews in care and it is encouraging to know that there are great carers out there like you who are looking after them while their court case goes on; and the assessments (we all know how long they take). Congratulations and the best of luck in the future. Looking forward to reading your next book.
Christina, 22, West Midlands, UK, 25/03/2008
Hello Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden. I am so so pleased for Tayo, but I thought the story of his life was sad. It just goes to show that you should never give up hope. I cried tears for Tayo. You're a marvellous woman, keep up the good work. I will be buying your next book the day it hits the shelves. I also think about Jodie now and again, her story will pop into my head and I wonder how she is doing.
Helen R, UK, 25/03/2008
Dear Cathy. I have just finished reading Damaged. I cried and cried. You should be so proud of yourself for not giving up on Jodie. I was so pleased to hear you had not given up on fostering. I immediately wanted to know how Jodie was doing now and have just read the update on Jodie, on your web site. I do hope you keep us all up to date with how Jodie is doing in the future. I look forward to reading your new book Hidden.
Marie, UK, 24/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished Hidden, and have not cried so much since your last book Damaged, but of course for different reasons. Even though I work with people, they can be very unpredictable, and it still amazes me what people are actually capable of!. Keep up the good work, and can't wait for the next book!
Janine, UK, 24/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I just want to thank you so much for writing your stories, or rather the stories of poor Jodie and Tayo. I was given Damaged as a present by my mother and bought Hidden for myself just a couple of days ago. I finished both books within a few days (with a 4 month old daughter, this is obviously no mean feat!) as I just couldn't put them down! I know you'll get thousands, if not millions, of emails all saying this, but you are an incredible women. I was fostered for quite a number of years when I was younger by an equally amazing woman. She too was a lone parent with 4 children of her own, but that didn't stop her opening her doors and her heart to an uncountable number of children. People like you, and like 'Sandra' from Hidden, do a simply amazing job. I don't know what my life might have been like if it was not for my foster mum taking me in as she did. I really hope that complaints were made against the social worker from Damaged and the Guardian from Hidden. Their flippant attitude to the children needing support was disgraceful. Sadly my foster mum died before I became pregnant, so she never got to see her 'foster-granddaughter', but I know that wherever she is, she will be looking out for both of us. I also hope to make her proud and one day become a foster carer, or social worker, myself. I can't wait to read your next book Cut (Dawn is my daughter's name, so I will probably be in even more tears than with your previous two books!), and will defiantly running out to buy it as soon as it comes out! I hope that Jodie and Tayo are doing well in their new lives. You are an amazing person, Cathy. Truly an angel on Earth. As are Adrian, Paula and Lucy. If everyone could be just a tiny bit more like you and your family (and the thousands of other foster carers) then the world would be a much nicer place to be and a lot better for children. Thank you again, so so much, for allowing millions of people to read your stories. I wish you and your family all the luck and good health in the world.
Stacey B, UK, 24/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I was shown your book, Damaged, by my daughter yesterday and I couldn't put it down until I had finished reading it last night. I am lost for words to describe what I think of how Jodie was treated for her first 8 years of life. Thank god you and your family were introduced to Jodie and persisted against all the odds to show her that life can be filled with caring and loving people. I felt a lot of the emotion that you went through while reading the book, it was so intense. Being a parent of four, now adult children, I could not imagine treating any of them in such a cruel, revolting manner. What Jodie must have lived through is unimaginable, unbelievably inhuman. I live in Australia and have been considering becoming a foster parent for quite a while. Your story has reinforced my decision to find out more about it. Now I am going to find a copy of Hidden and read that too. Good luck in your future ventures, you must be so proud of your lovely children, both natural and fostered.
Jackie, Gold Coast, Australia 24/03/2008
Dear Cathy I have just finished reading you book Hidden. What a truly remarkable person you are. I'm so glad that it all worked out for Tayo, and how pleased you and your lovely family must have felt. I cannot wait for your next book to come out as I'm sure it will be as good as the other two. All my love to you and your lovely family and keep up the fantastic work you have been doing.
Julie, UK, 24/03/2008
I have just finished reading 'Hidden', and now there seems to be a void in my life, goodness only knows how you must have felt once Tayo left you. It is such a beautifully written book. I am just about to go and track down a copy of 'Damaged'. I don't know how I will last until 'Cut' is released in August. Hidden was an inspiring read and just proves that sometimes things do work out for the best. I work in a secondary school and know only too well the pitfalls of fostered and looked after children...thank goodness Tayo had people as competent as yourself and Sandra looking out for him. What a lucky boy! I wish you every success with your next books and with the children you will meet in the future.
Rachel, Surrey, UK, 23/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I just want to let you know you are such a wonderful carer, and your books are amazing! I recently read Damaged which was such a terrible experience for such a young girl. It's horrible to think these things actually really happen. You made such a difference to Jodie's life, and if it wasn't for being in your care, who knows what could have happened to her. I have also just finished reading Hidden, which had such a lovely outcome for Tayo. You are such a remarkable Woman, who makes such a difference to children's lives. You deserve a Medal. I can't wait for another one of your books to come out. I will certainly be buying it.
Gemma W, West Midlands, UK, 23/03/2008
I have just finished reading your second book Hidden and once again I felt that I needed to e-mail you to say thank you. It took me 2 days to read, and at one point I didn't even realise I was crying until the tears hit the page. Me and my husband adopted our son 18 months ago, and I have the most sincere respect for people like yourself and those involved in placing these poor children. They have endured such cruel lives from those who should have cared for them. Tayo, Jodie and all the other children that have had the good fortune of staying with you will now hopefully be able to move on from the past and look to the future, just like our little boy will also do. Once again thanks, and I cannot wait for the next book to come out to read about more of the good work that you do.
Marie, Sheffield, UK, 23/03/2008
Hi Cathy I have just finished reading Hidden and cried so much that it was difficult to read through the tears. The same happened when I read Damaged. I really enjoyed both books and can't wait to read your next one (I think I will stock up on tissues for that one).Hopefully we wont have to wait to long to see another bestseller
Mandy S, UK, 23/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I'm really enjoying your books and cant wait for the next one!
Kendra, UK, 22/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished "Damaged" and like many other readers, it was hard to put down. I hardly had a dry eye through reading it. You are a wonderful, patient, person who Jodie is going to look up to in years to come, and she will appreciate all you have done for her. I was abused from the age of 8 by a family member (although not to the degree of Jodie) and the worst thing was I told other members of my family what had happened and they continued being nice to this person. I found this hard to cope with and very alone. I feel Jodie was very brave in telling of her horror. It affected me worst when my daughter reached 8 years old, and I could not even bear to think of such pain and heart break being put upon a child of this young age. I feel after reading your book that I would also like to make a difference to children and foster myself, although I don't have the room at the moment. Damaged is by far the saddest book I have ever read. I now am going to read "Hidden".
Annie, Hampshire, UK, 22/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I've just finished reading your book, Damaged, and I am still in shock, I can't help but cry. The fact that you stuck by Jodie is amazing. I've thought for a long time about of becoming a child psychologist. I was visiting one from when I was 4 onwards and feel I have been destined to do it myself. I'm now 17 and I was on the fence about whether to go down that path, or another. This book has really opened my eyes, and I know now in my heart of hearts it's what I want to do. I feel I should thank you for your book and all it's done, I hope it's made a difference in the way children are treated, but also the way the system is run.
Rachel, UK, 21/03/2008
I'm sure you hear this all the time, but I wanted to tell you what an amazing person and writer you are. I've never really been a book reader but my sister leant me her copy of Damaged and I couldn't put it down! I read the whole thing over two days, then went out and bought Hidden. and read that in one day! Both books made me cry so much, and I was only reading it, you had to live with actually seeing the pain these children have. Again, what an amazing and strong person you are. As much as I don't like to hear of the pain, suffering and abuse children go through, I am very much looking forward to your next book. Much love to you and your family,
Paula D, Essex, 21/03/2008
Hi Cathy I would just like to say how much I enjoyed Damaged which I received as a gift at Christmas. It was a very moving story. I also got Hidden out the library last Friday and couldn't put it down. I think you are a true inspiration. Thanks for a good read and I hope there is many more to come.
Tracy J, UK, 21/03/2008
Lauren again, I got your other book "Hidden" on Monday. I couldn't put it down! I finished it last night... took me only 3 nights to read it.! It was really touching how Tayo remembered his dad and his gran, he obviously missed them a lot. It was a really nice story, almost like a fairytale towards the end. Will be looking forward for your next book. Thanks
Lauren, UK, 21/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden and again the story of this little boy kept me so captivated all the way through. I couldn't put the book down and it took me less than 4 hours to finish!! Having twin 2 year olds I can not believe anyone could treat their children like that; it saddens me greatly. Your strength and determination has helped those children greatly. and I hope there are more people like you and your family who continue to do fantastic work.
Louise, Scotland, 20/03/2008
Hi Cathy. I have just finished your book Hidden; it was a very good read. Your books are so touching and real you can almost feel the pain. Tayo has a good chance in life now and I wish him well. He is lucky to have met you and your caring and understanding family. I read Damaged last year when it came out and is still one of my favourites. I passed it on as I do all my books and it has finally made its way back today. Your book has touched so many people and everyone I have lent it to has been in floods of tears. Great read; keep up the good work.
Lisa, UK, 20/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I finished your book Hidden in one night - I couldn't put it down. At the end when I lifted my head I realised it was 3 in the morning and I needed to get my boys up for school at 7.30. I was fostered by my aunt when I was a few months old as my birth mother didn't want anything to do with me or my brother. I had constant contact with my father and all his family and had a relatively normal upbringing - the only difference was I had 2 dads (I called my aunt and uncle mum and dad too). I had 2 very nice social workers who visited every 6 months to see how I was getting on (the same social workers came from the beginning till I turned 18 years old). I have always wanted to foster myself and I have applied. I cannot wait to start helping children and give them some of the help I received when I was a child. If it wasn't for my aunt I don't know where I would have ended up. Every child deserves the right start in life. I just hope I can help as many children as you have over the years - I think you have done a brilliant job. Good luck and best wishes in all your future foster placements, I respect you so much.
Jan, North Wales, UK, 20/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished your book 'Hidden'. I was really touched by Tayo's story. It isn't the first true story I have read, but it is the first book about a foster child. It really touched my heart to see that true love is stronger than anything else. I already read a lot of sad stories about street kids in Brazil and I've been twice to São Paulo to work with such children. It's so great to see, that there are such great caring people, like you, all around the world trying to change something in the world! Thanks so much for sharing your experiences! I wish you all the best to keep going.
Stephanie, 18 Years, Switzerland 19/03/2008
My partner and I have read both Damaged and Hidden. We thought they were fantastic books - about different kinds of lifestyles. As you read them you felt like you were in the room, witnessing it all. We can't wait for your new book to come out. Thank you for your great book writing.
Kirsty and Katie, UK, 19/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading your book 'Hidden', it only took me a day, and I don't believe I have cried so much. I want to congratulate you on how well you dealt with the issues that arose whilst you were caring for Tayo. Like many children I had an unhappy upbringing, my mother brought me up alone and on the odd occasion my father made an appearance in my life it was only to cause hurt and to continue the abuse he had started when I was much younger. I had no contact with him for 11 years and when I finally contacted him he seemed so pleased to hear from me I believed I had imagined some of the things he had done. Unfortunately I hadn't and within months I received a text from him stating "I am 99.9% sure I am not your father". My father hated the fact I looked nothing like him, but the spitting image of my mother, and he used this against me as Tayo's mother used his looks against him. I believe parents have the opportunity to shape a persons life. My life is still affected by the things my father did to me and because of him I have a poor diet and as a result poor health. I did however have a wonderful mother who shaped me into a good person. The children you care for have been blessed to have someone as dedicated as you in their lives and I hope that you and your family are proud of you and your achievements.
Emily, UK, 19/03/2008
Dear Cathy, how wonderful it felt to finish your amazing story, Hidden! That young boy lived through so much trauma, danger, and what must have been terrifying ordeals, yet like you say, "overcame the odds!". I wish Tayo all the happiness in the world. Cathy, you are an amazing human being, along with Sandra, and the many other people who helped Tayo. It still does worry me though how many other children are out there living lives in fear and danger. I only hope that one day these other children have the same chance as Tayo and are recognized by someone somewhere. Thank you for such a moving story, never have I cried, worried, smiled and laughed so much from one book, along with every other emotion!
Morven, UK, 19/03/2008
Hi, I just wanted to say I have just read Damaged and Hidden in the same week. You are such an amazing woman, you have really inspired me as fostering is something I have always thought about doing myself. I am really looking forward to any more books you bring out.
Stacey, Doncaster, UK, 19/03/2008
Hi Cathy, thanks for the fantastic books you have written - Hidden and Damaged. I have never cried when reading a book until I read Hidden; absolutely fantastic. You are an amazing writer and I especially like the way you write your books, they are easy to read yet jam packed with emotions of all kinds. I like the way you keep your reader hooked on every word, so much so we don't want to put the book down till we reach the end. That's exactly how I have felt on both occasions when reading your books. I read Hidden in 2 days! You truly are an inspirational women and I really hope you continue to write and share your experiences with us. Hurry hurry with the next one, cant wait! Thanks again
Michelle, UK, 19/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden!! What a lovely ending, I was in tears as well! I think Damaged and Hidden are two of the best books I have ever read, they are written with such compassion! They are truly amazing and I'm sure your next book will be just as good, I can't wait to read it! Thanks for such a great book. Love and best wishes,
Liz, UK, 19/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I would like to say Damaged and Hidden are the best books I have read in a long time. I started reading them 10 days ago and have read them both. I couldn't put them down. I can't wait for the next book. Thanks
Debbie, Coventry, UK, 19/03/2008
Love your books. I am a foster child and have a lovely care family with my twin
Paul, A, UK 19/03/2008
Dear Cathy I've just read Damaged (in a weekend - couldn't put it down!). It's such a moving story and your love and determination is a real inspiration. So much so that I am going to follow up my ambition to become a foster carer. I'm a bit confused though as to which avenue to go down - there seem to be several agencies as well as social services. Can you offer any advice about the different services? I have a 10 year old daughter, and feel it would be better for her to foster only those younger than her. Best wishes,
Helen, UK, 18/03/2008
CG: Dear Helen, I am so pleased that reading Damaged hasn't put you off your wish to foster. Perhaps I should say that Jodie was the most abused and disturbed child I have ever looked after, and Eileen, one of the most incompetent social workers. Hidden shows how well it can work when the social worker is efficient. Re the choice between fostering for the social services, and private agencies; I would telephone both in your area and see who offers the best support and training etc. Unfortunately packages of support do vary, but in the end it is all about looking after the children, and that is no different if you foster for an agency or direct for your local social services. The social worker who assesses you will discus the age range of the children you wish to foster and what would best suit your family. Good luck, and let me know how you get on. Very best wishes Cathy x
18/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished Hidden today. I am part of a foster family in that I am the birth child of foster carers. I found your books by chance. My "dysfunctional" family, said in the nicest of ways, is like yours - ever changing, but with it coming up to fostering fortnight I thought I would email you. It may seem weird but reading your books means I can see how other people go through similar situations. We currently have 3 foster children in the home and have recently lost the 4th (who lived with us for 6 years). I admire the fact you are educating people as to what is out there. I look forward to your other books.
Kayz, UK, 18/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I just wanted to say what an inspiration you are to all of us. I have just finished reading Damaged, and I have to say I have never cried so much reading one book. You and your children seem like such a caring and understanding people. A lot of people would have given up with these children, but you kept going and have helped tremendously with their lives. Thank you very much for sharing your experiences with us.
Louise, Scotland, 18/03/2008
Hi, I just wanted to say that I bought 'Hidden' a couple of days ago and I have not been able to put it down. I found that I was there with you through the tears, the heartache and the laughter; it is so well written. It is so good to know that in the world today there are people like you who make such a difference to the lives of children who otherwise would be in a completely hopeless situation. Many thanks for such a heartfelt work.
Jayne, UK, 18/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I just had to congratulate you on the hard work that you do with the kids you foster. I am secondary carer to two kids who haven't had a good start in life and reading your books is an inspiration. It's good to know that good can overcome all the negative.
Gary, Belfast, 18/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read Hidden and Damaged and I was deeply touched and moved by your incredible talent for writing and looking after children! I have chosen you as one of the people that have to research for a project and I am thoroughly enjoying writing reviews of your books as part of it! Please keep writing! Love a big fan x
Surina, UK, 18/03/2008
Hiya Cathy, Thank you so much for Hidden! I have just finished reading it (in a day). It was an eye opener. I've recently graduated as a Social Worker and I have picked up a lot of tips to use in my practice. Tayo's social worker was an ideal social worker and I wish all social workers would approach their work in the same manner as she did. I decided to go into social work after Victoria Climbie because like you I want to help one child at a time before disaster strikes. Thank you, thank you, thank you for your books!!! If every social worker read them they could learn a lot about working in partnership with all agencies and carers involved with the children on their caseloads. Bravo to you, Cathy! You truly are a God sent GEM!!! Please keep up the excellent work! Your children should be proud of you! Thank you! Can't wait for your next book!
Janet, S, UK 17/03/2008
CG: Dear Janet, looking after Tayo was an eye-opener for me too, and when I heard that there could be up to 1million children in a similar position I was horrified. I know quite a few social workers have read Hidden, and I have sent it to some MPs in the hope that the system can be improved. I know you will be an excellent social worker, and well done for choosing such a worthwhile career. Very best wishes. Cathy
17/03/2008
Hi, just finished reading your book Damaged, I have never been touched as much by any other book and I have read hundreds. I am so pleased that there are people in the world like you, you are an amazing woman and I truly hope you keep updates of how Jodie is getting on. Best wishes to her and also you and your family. I will be passing the book round to all my friends and family as I'm sure they will be as touched as I was.
Kim, UK, 16/03/2008
Just wanted to say how much your books have inspired me. I always knew I wanted to work in some form of social care and I think "Hidden" has given me the extra push I needed. Finished this amazing book in 4 hours and was in tears for half of that time. You really are an amazing woman!
Carlie, England, 16/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading 'Hidden' which took me less than 6 hours to finish. I felt I had to express my sincere admiration for such a well written and heartfelt story. I can honestly say that I have never read a book which has evoked so many different emotions. At many times I found myself in tears. At other times, I found myself smiling. I have also read 'Damaged', and cried with the thought of the treatment of Jodie and Tayo. I am lucky in that I have always had a strong and close family unit. My childhood was fantastic and I have so many memories of happy times with my mum and brother. It is something that I will always remember and will ensure that when I decide the time is right to have children of my own, I will give them the childhood that they deserve. Both your books have taught me that not all children have the opportunities and the happiness that I have had. Your stories are incredible. You are a credit, and I am sincerely glad that there are people like you in this world. It restores my faith in humankind. I am sure you have had many, many emails, but I have just finished reading 'Hidden' and I had to express what a truly wonderful job you have done, with both Jodie and Tayo, and the many other children that you have fostered over the years. Thank you. Kind regards
Jenny B, 22 Years, UK, 16/03/2008
Hi, I just wanted to let you know how wonderful I think you are. My Mam bought me your book Hidden for Christmas and I couldn't put it down. I thoroughly enjoyed it, and I just wanted to say it's a good job there are people in this world like you. It must be so hard at times because of what some of the children have been through, and my heart goes out to you. I have just started to read Damaged. Keep up the good work, I'll be waiting for your next book to come out! Best Wishes.
Judith D, UK, 16/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have just finished reading Hidden, which is a fantastic book and had me crying. I have previously read Damaged and it had the same effect. Your books are being passed on and read by my two teenager girls, my mother and my mother in law!!! They have had a profound impact on my life and I wanted to write to you to ask you to keep writing! I'm already looking forward to your next 3 books! And reading your blog daily :-) I would love to have been a foster carer and maybe it is something I will consider later on in life, but right now, I have my hands full with my two teenagers and my two latest additions to the family Samantha (2) and Molly (1). After reading Jodie's story I was very touched and often looked at my two babies and realised how lucky they are to have a loving mum and dad, something that is all too often taken for granted. Keep up the good work Cathy, both with the fostering and the writing! Take care
Laura, UK, 16/03/2008
Hi Cathy, I've just finished your book Hidden. I had to stop myself reading the book from time to time as I got so upset with what that poor child had to go through. Tayo is on my mind morning and night .I work with children but the work you are doing is a blessing. Cathy all I can say is thank you and god bless you and to keep on writing. All my love.
Shirley, Middlesex, UK, 15/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I started reading your book Hidden, at about 7 o'clock last night and have just finished it (11am). It made me cry, laugh, and get angry too. I have been very lucky in my life. I had a fantastic Dad and still have a wonderful Mother who now lives with us. I have 3 children, one of which is disabled and they have all turned out well. A story like Tayo's makes me realise how lucky I am. We may not have much in the way of money or luxuries, but at least we are all safe, well and loved. Thank you for reminding us that these are the important things in life. I hope you can continue helping these kids for a long time to come. My mum was a foster parent. She looked after pre adoption babies. She loved doing this and when she was not able to care for babies full time, became a child minder. There are quite a lot of people who still call her Nan even though they are now grown up with children of there own. The kids my mum cared for did not have any of the problems your kids have but she still left a good impression on them. The effect you have on your children must be immeasurable be proud of what you do and have a wonderful life you deserve it. With greatest of respect thank you
Wendy, UK, 15/03/2008
Dear Cathy, I have read 'Damaged' and just starting to read 'Hidden' - they are both excellent reads, enlightening and shocking by turns. I want to be a foster carer. I love your work but fear I would not be up to the challenge if all foster placements were as difficult. Thank you for your books they are an inspiration!
Angela, UK, 15/03/2008
Hi Cathy, just finished reading Damaged. May I say that I enjoyed it very much; it was very heart rendering. I have just started reading Hidden and I can't put the book down. I have always wanted to become a foster carer. I have raised four children and my 10 year old grandson lives with us. Keep the good work up Cathy you are a wonderful person. Love from
Celia, UK, 15/03/2008
Hi, I know you've had many comments but I'd just like to say that I think you are really a wonderful person who is doing an amazing job. I have just read your latest book, Hidden, and I thought it was absolutely great. I wish Tayo a very happy life. I have much respect for you and the work you do.
Siobhan, Devon, UK, 13/03/2008